FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong

By *unfinder20 OP Man
8 weeks ago

grimaby

I have been on this site now many years and I have had 1 meet. I can never seem to get any intrest is it that there is so many other men or just me. When I message I do try to be creative and not boring or generic. Maybe my profile need a revamp

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By *uperstar76Woman
8 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Youve wrote more on this post than you have in your profile.

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By *unfinder20 OP Man
8 weeks ago

grimaby

Thanks updated i really struggle with these things thankyou ☺️

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By *inkPomPomWoman
8 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Maybe a few more pictures

We all know you have a penis, but people like to see body shots too, and maybe just a normal pic of you doing something somewhere

Text looks good though

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By *cotsRugbyBuffMan
8 weeks ago

Secret

Moaning feeling sorry for yourself

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By *unfinder20 OP Man
8 weeks ago

grimaby

Just asking for advice thats all

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By *allySlinkyWoman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe try a different profile pic

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By *unfinder20 OP Man
8 weeks ago

grimaby

Upload in progress been a while since updated photos etc thanks

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
8 weeks ago

London - South East and West

What are you doing right, is more to the point.

Absolutely nothing from what we can see.

1 ~ No profile picture.

2 ~ No other pictures on your profile.

3 ~ Your bio tells us very little.

4 ~ You’re asking others to send you a message.

Absolutely nothing there that would inspire us to send you a message.

You did ask.

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By *unfinder20 OP Man
8 weeks ago

grimaby

I am currently waiting for my pictures to uploaded and update older ones. So your advice would be to out nore in the bio? I have ny kinks and fetishes but I do really struggle with this side of things thanks

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By *tlanshiaWoman
8 weeks ago

Chatham

More pictures.

If you have fetishes and kinks put them on your profile, it helps people decide what you like. And if they're compatible.

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By *ray_BTWMan
8 weeks ago

Worcester

"Youve wrote more on this post than you have in your profile."

Haha 😄

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"What are you doing right, is more to the point.

Absolutely nothing from what we can see.

1 ~ No profile picture.

2 ~ No other pictures on your profile.

3 ~ Your bio tells us very little.

4 ~ You’re asking others to send you a message.

Absolutely nothing there that would inspire us to send you a message.

You did ask."

Can you tell me where im going wrong please 🙏

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By *ackandviolet96Couple
8 weeks ago

Coxhoe

We might not be your target market so take this with a big pinch of salt and as always this is our opinion not fact.

If we look on a profile we love to see a little bit of personality on a profile, that's people talking about what they like generally as well as sexually, that's something we have done as if people Habe common interests with us that's a way to be able to connect with them and spark up conversation.

Something else we look for is people that understand what they want and aren't afraid to articulate that, for us and again this is not directed at you at all but a frustration for us is alot of people just want to people please or tell you what you want to hear and that drives us up the wall. We far rather someone be confident and comfortable with saying what they want and need on a profile so we can see compatibility.

We like a little mix of pictures, body and cock personally but understand that's not the same for everyone.

Put effort into conversation is a big one aswell for us, 99% of lads, lasses and couples that message us just don't really put much effort in and it's boring as watching paint dry haha (not saying you don't already do this)

If you want to ask us more or wish for us to elaborate or anything feel free to DM but intimately we think the more if you that your able to put on your profile the better

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By *eepsafariCouple
8 weeks ago

rushden

Us AI to formulate a response based on their profile, our profile was 99% AI written, obviously we entered the correct prompts.

Not everyone is great at writing things that get an interest but a few different pics on the main profile, a recent face pic with first message might help

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By *eepsafariCouple
8 weeks ago

rushden

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Moaning feeling sorry for yourself "

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What would be the correct method to ask for help, clarification and guidance, which wouldn't come across as "Moaning" or "feeling sorry for yourself"?

How would you promote male solidarity on here?

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By *eedle-in-the-Hey-StackMan
8 weeks ago

Reading

"Moaning feeling sorry for yourself

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What would be the correct method to ask for help, clarification and guidance, which wouldn't come across as "Moaning" or "feeling sorry for yourself"?

How would you promote male solidarity on here?"

Well said.

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By *ub_BDSM_GirlWoman
7 weeks ago

Wirral

"I have been on this site now many years and I have had 1 meet. I can never seem to get any intrest is it that there is so many other men or just me. When I message I do try to be creative and not boring or generic. Maybe my profile need a revamp "

Nothing in your profile, is any different than 1000s of others on FAB.

1. Photo of massive dick - Check

2. Classic pose in front of mirror showing abs - Check

To be fair I was half expecting a photo of your cock to be next to a Lynx can, or Grandfather clock.

At least your profile didn't say 'naturally dominant' lol

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By *nuggle_fuckersCouple
7 weeks ago

Cardiff

Mix up your photo's a bit, if you have a shot of you in a suit or smart clothing it makes a much better first image on your page, or some tasteful cloths on shots in the gym.

You haven't got any meet verifications, Fab is just the online social element of Swinging. Try going to some local clubs, or socials to actually meet people. Once you've picked up a few verifications and got involved in the swinging community in your area you'll likely find it easier to chat to people on here.

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By *enchCoachDriverMan
7 weeks ago

west mosley

I’m the same mate no luck in this whatsoever

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

Central

Get to socials and clubs, to get to know people

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By *aster N NaughtyCouple
7 weeks ago

deal

For us we like to look at photos from various angles not just cock pictures because let's face it we all know what acock looks like also your profile is fairly short we like to see a well written profile of things you like doing and things you dont simply because we dont want to waste time by chatting with people Only to find out we're after totally different things

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
7 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

I love a good single socked foot chocking the chicken. The loaf of bread in the background ia a new one to me. If you poke it through a slice does that make you in bread?

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