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By *alefun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We are going to Chams in Brum for the 1st time this Sat. I am quite nervous, Do you think this is the easiest way to introduce ourselves to swinging? And what should we wear?

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

never been to a club ourselves but id suggest contacting some brum swingers and maybe meet them before club and you might be more relaxed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dress code for men is a towel or undies/shorts, for women its a towel or sexy undies

ive been using chams club for nearly 10 years, its changed a hell of a lot over the years and has just got better and better, im sure you will have a great time and even tho i dont like couples nights i do think its the best night for a new couple to go, friendly staff and the people are ok too lol take your own alcoholic drink, but soft drink along with hot drinks and food its sold there so you cant take pop/bottles of water in

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By *alefun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

You say that you don't like couples nights? May I ask why?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Hi, take a look at the last thread you started on the same subject, i think you got some pretty good advice then and it probably still stands Z xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams is great good way to meet other swingers. Just go soak up the atmosphere and have a great time. Saturday's are couples only. Prefer Friday's a better mix although last week was very quiet. Think snow and the fact that January everybody skint. This Friday going to be a good night Mandy and Tony's birthday. Or if you can hold out till next weekend Chams 10th anniversary big party weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, take a look at the last thread you started on the same subject, i think you got some pretty good advice then and it probably still stands Z xx"

Classic..

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

lol - i may be an air head but i've got a dead good memory! Z xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say that you don't like couples nights? May I ask why?"

because im a single female and im not bi, i only play with single men so couples nights are not really any good for me, no other reason than that x

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

hi gys we are off to chams saturday if you fancy a chat or have any questions xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be at chameleons this Saturday night too, please say hello if you see us, we don't see hello as "we want to shag you"

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

aww dammit i thought that was all i needed to say to get a shag lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

You'll love it! Just get in the jacuzzi and see what happens, it's always a good way to start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was our first time swinging at 101 at donny kinda like jumping in at the deepend but it was a good start!!!!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I think if you have been swinging for a bit and then decide to go to a club then a good club is best. Cams is the best of course but can get very busy so that could make a new couple nervous. But if you have the confidence then go for it. I was terribly nervous first time I went to a club. For me I still find it hard to get the confidence up to say would you like to go have some fun in a room but also it is about recognising the none spoken hints and a club is the best way to look for them x

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Chams was our first ever experience of swinging - been going 5 years now and still love the place.

Was amazing how many people told us not to start there but when we actually quizzed them about it (before we were members here and had the advantage of forums) it turned out that most who said dont do it had never been to a club themselves!

We found it very exciting but most of all very friendly and nobody tried to push us into anything we didn;t want to do and, we were the last to leave the club early the next morning! mind you it took us several hours to pluck up the courage to do anything.

Our advice, for what its worth, go at your own pace and only do things the pair of you are comfortable with. But most of all have FUN

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I do agree that cams if great as have been there many time now. Just felt that if its very busy a couple could be overwhelmed but totally agree that do things at your own pace and in your own time. Bet you have a great time. x

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