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By *heElvingtonTwo OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

elvington

I want to prefix this with saying tha I know everyone has different tastes and we’re not entitled to anyone finding us attractive.

We’ve not really used the forums much and I thought I’d maybe work on changing that and getting more involved. So recently we’ve participated in a few of those “left/right” threads for a laugh, and I’ve noticed we almost universally get a “left”. As I say we’re not entitled to be everyone’s cup of tea but that seems like a really low “tea ratio” as it were. Are we really THAT fugly? Or is it just something with our profile that we need to work on changing?

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
8 weeks ago

chester

If it were me I’d be put off by the names, not the pictures. It’snot a dynamic or suggestion all are comfortable with I’d guess. I’ve seen it being called out before.

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By *heElvingtonTwo OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

elvington


"If it were me I’d be put off by the names, not the pictures. It’snot a dynamic or suggestion all are comfortable with I’d guess. I’ve seen it being called out before."

Ah that is an interesting thought

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By *WB85Man
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"If it were me I’d be put off by the names, not the pictures. It’snot a dynamic or suggestion all are comfortable with I’d guess. I’ve seen it being called out before."

Agreed. The daddy thing is loved by so many, but its a big no from me.

Mrs.

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By *hitelotusMan
8 weeks ago

london

Body imperfections sometimes could be a turn on for someone else : for example stretch marks turn me on !

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By *heElvingtonTwo OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

elvington


"If it were me I’d be put off by the names, not the pictures. It’snot a dynamic or suggestion all are comfortable with I’d guess. I’ve seen it being called out before.

Agreed. The daddy thing is loved by so many, but its a big no from me.

Mrs. "

Can’t argue with that to each their own

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By *iss DevilWoman
8 weeks ago

Bedford

I do believe it's probably your dynamics that's causing the "left" swipes rather than anything else, though some of your photos are rather explicit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it's a chance you take when you join those threads. The 'rate my' threads are the same.

If you want to guage attractiveness to others go by number of fabs or maybe start a thread asking what people think of your photos.

You're not fugly in my opinion if it's worth anything

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
8 weeks ago

Essex

We used to join in with those threads but found we were pretty much always ignored people didn’t even say left they just ignored or our post and answered someone else’s before us

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

I haven't looked at any of your pics because I deliberately don't look at pics of anyone below my lower age filter so I can't comment on them or how you look.

I rarely if ever take part in those type of threads but if I did I would probably pass on you for the same reason I haven't looked at your pics as well as the dynamic your profile name suggests which doesn't appeal to me at all.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
8 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Thats why I dont join in those threads

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By *ezandcCouple
8 weeks ago

Telford


"If it were me I’d be put off by the names, not the pictures. It’snot a dynamic or suggestion all are comfortable with I’d guess. I’ve seen it being called out before."

Same here, the name, that’s not dynamic we are in to, does the opposite for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Hairy pubes esp ginger turns me on 🤗

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By *issmorganWoman
8 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You're not fugly, but your bio reads cocky in areas, like everyone wants to fuck A.

Especially as you're looking for her to watch you and another lady. That won't be for everyone op and many won't be into that dymanic.

So you may get less interest, due to that.

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By *corcherMan
8 weeks ago

Loughborough

If what people think of you is something playing on your mind, then this site is not going to help. I'm not confident at all with how I look & if no-one else is interested, well so be it. You just have to accept it really.

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