FabSwingers.com forum: Going on a "Date" tonight to build confidence

By *se1231 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Northstowe

Hello!

So my wife and I are a long term Cuckold married couple. Have lots if experience in cuckolding etc but all of it has been via dating apps.

My biggest fantasy is she starts the night with me and goes home with another man

and shes game.

However its been a good few years since shes been out in bars on the pull. Any tips to ensure she gets all the attention she deserves, while also staying safe and calming nerves?

All tips welcome as we are heading out for a nice meal tonight then we go to the bars

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's the going home with another man bit that's the least safe. I don't know how you mitigate that. Otherwise I wish you luck and make sure any guy she does hit it off with knows the dynamic here

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By *se1231 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Northstowe

Yes I agree, we do have rules and checks in place for it in the unlikely event it happens (we are realistic!)

Its more about building her confidence with physical flirting again!

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By *eeman1200Man
10 weeks ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

Have her wear top no bra dress throng how to get plenty of attention

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
10 weeks ago

London

Getting attention and being safe can be a tricky combination. I would say go the sophisticated lady route, classy and upmarket, and only flirt if you get a safe vibe.

I am a poor judge of character so my first meets are always in clubs and spas so if we want to take things further we can in a safe environment and it’s usually cheaper than a hotel xx

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By *eeman1200Man
10 weeks ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

First meeting should be in the place you feel safe in

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By *se1231 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Northstowe

Good tips!

My realistic best case is a bit of a make out and a few numbers we can follow up later.

Plan on frequenting a few of the more upscale cocktail bars.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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10 weeks ago

Central

You could always get socials from Fab to help to build her confidence.

. At least these could be consenting to what you're doing etc

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By *se1231 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Northstowe

Fair and valid point.

We certainly want to make sure all potentially involved are aware and consent

#constentishot

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

nr Bodmin

In my experience the couples have set it up with me beforehand so they know it's safe. It's more like role-playing for us and she is expecting me to come on to her

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