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"Or look for an organised group social. "That's choice two. Club is quicker, which is the only criteria he's asked for 😉 | |||
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"As at the subject.... I feel like I'm stuck." why do you need to get verified quickly? It's not a golden ticket, despite what many think/say. But yes, the quickest ones are cams (you have to show your face there, not just your member, which shouldn't be a problem as you have a face pic as your profile pic; not everyone is willing to verify as seen on cam; and it doesn't carry anywhere near as much weight as the "meet in person" verification). Next is going to a club and asking staff to verify you. Some clubs (rare but happens) prefer men to already have a meet verification beforehand, plus as a single man, you can't just turn up at most clubs and expect to be allowed in, there is usually a booking system that is explained on the club's website. Then you have organised socials - they are not "private socials", they are usually quite large, with 30+ people, and not every single one is open to men. Those that are, they often run out of single men spaces very fast. | |||
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"Privet socials sounds quite good. " You can hedge your bets  | |||
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"Try cinema club in huddersfield" Good suggestion | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." I think that disparaging comment will get you banned from swingers clubs, where the staff work very hard. | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." You seem nice. | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." That was simply rude. | |||
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"Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." I can only guess that you have never been to a club, and never met anyone who works at one. Because... OK, I confess I haven't been to every club in the country, and I haven't spoken with every person who has ever worked at one. But on the evidence that I have, I can confidently say that they are all people I'd be proud to have a verification from. They've seen the best of the swinging scene, and they've had to deal with the worst. As for the OP: the 'quickest' way to anything is usually not going to help you reach your ultimate goal. There are no short-cuts; you have to put the work in. Get yourself known and trusted as a decent person that people enjoy being around. That might look like becoming a regular at your local club. It might be going to socials (as a quiet and unconfident person myself, I've always done better with the smaller ones). Or there's the social bits of the forum. Or the chat rooms. Whatever feels comfortable and you can make work for yourself. | |||
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" That might look like becoming a regular at your local club. " Where he has just labelled the staff "losers" ? | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." Blocked!!! | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." • If someone works in a sex club then they are grafting, paying their taxes and providing a service. I would that call person a winner in my eyes. Only a loser would fail to grasp this. | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." I'd imagine working in a sex club would be a much sought after job among folk on here. As Woody Allen says, "Money isn't much, but it's all I can afford."  | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club.... That was simply rude. " He's 18.....he says.... and has much much much much much much more to learn | |||
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"Go to a swinger's club on an evening where you're allowed. Pay your money. Follow the rules*, be nice to people. Ask the staff for a verification. They'll verify you. (It's not a silver bullet for meeting women here in the future - it's still not easy. Yes, it's expensive. But you'll be verified before the weekend is over) * Obviously no one is going to verify someone who comes in and behaves like a bell end." love your honesty. | |||
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"Change your gender and you'll be on a winner lol. " I'd be a besr lesbian ever, love eating kitties.  | |||
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"How desperate must somebody be? Why would anyone want a verification from a loser that works in a sex club...." Nobody has even mentionned sex clubs. People on this site might go to swingers clubs, which are not the same as sex clubs. But since you are only 18, you probably wouldn't be allowed entry anyway. Plus well done on alienating everyone with your awful attitude.  | |||
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"Could someone verify me ?" See the above advice | |||
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"As at the subject.... I feel like I'm stuck." Go to socials and clubs | |||
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"Go to a swinger's club on an evening where you're allowed. Pay your money. Follow the rules*, be nice to people. Ask the staff for a verification. They'll verify you. (It's not a silver bullet for meeting women here in the future - it's still not easy. Yes, it's expensive. But you'll be verified before the weekend is over) * Obviously no one is going to verify someone who comes in and behaves like a bell end." 👏👏👏perfect answer 👍 | |||
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