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By *cecream101 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have answered your own question!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Some may be genuine, some may not be.

Just go with your own gut instinct.

If it's too good to be true...

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By *BC TWOCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leicester / Birmingham /Bucks


"You have answered your own question!"

^

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??"

Why aim it at just single women?

There's as many single male and couples profiles in the same boat - months/over a year on site and no green tick!

Use your common sense filter - it's way more powerful and effective than any you'll find on site!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??"

Just spotted this - most definately looks like a couples profile to me - based on the profile text, meet posts and in fact the verification!

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By *un666Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Same reason single women all have a bf or a FB how are you then single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah too bloody right. Because I'm bored and for the sheer cheek of the original post I've dobbed them in to the rozzers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah too bloody right. Because I'm bored and for the sheer cheek of the original post I've dobbed them in to the rozzers!"

Ha! I imagine a few others may have too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??"

That is one of our pet hates!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Yeah too bloody right. Because I'm bored and for the sheer cheek of the original post I've dobbed them in to the rozzers!

Ha! I imagine a few others may have too! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??"

Your profile mentions your boyfriend, your verification mentions your boyfriend and both your meets mention your boyfriend I'm sure an admin can help you change your profile to a couples profile

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By *cecream101 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I am in a relationship we got a couples profile on another site I'm on here to see how it goes its easier to talk girl to girl than with a couple I feel a little over whelmed that's all but I have been verified and been on cam it takes 2 minuets its not hard that's all

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??

Just spotted this - most definately looks like a couples profile to me - based on the profile text, meet posts and in fact the verification! "

You two should change your names to Miss Marple and Poirot.

I'll let you two decide who's who;-)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yeah too bloody right. Because I'm bored and for the sheer cheek of the original post I've dobbed them in to the rozzers!"

Snitch! But serves em right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single ladies can do pretty much what they like on here , they usually just call to verify their genuinity is that a word ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am in a relationship we got a couples profile on another site I'm on here to see how it goes its easier to talk girl to girl than with a couple I feel a little over whelmed that's all but I have been verified and been on cam it takes 2 minuets its not hard that's all "

Nothing wrong with that if you're using the profile on this site to meet as a single female 1-2-1.

But by the looks of things - that's not the case really is it?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I am in a relationship we got a couples profile on another site I'm on here to see how it goes its easier to talk girl to girl than with a couple I feel a little over whelmed that's all but I have been verified and been on cam it takes 2 minuets its not hard that's all "

Takes same time to do a couples profile!

I'll give you the Brass Neck award though, misleading people into thinking you're a single female whilst lambasting "genuine" single females: you couldn't make this shit up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??"

I dot get why the op has raised such a question when they should have a couples profile ?????

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By *cecream101 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Not deceiving anyone it says on my profile that I'm part of a couple and I meet as a couple also wots the difference with me putting that or my fuck buddy ???

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By *cecream101 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not deceiving anyone it says on my profile that I'm part of a couple and I meet as a couple also wots the difference with me putting that or my fuck buddy ???"

Erm..because you are a couple not a single female? Plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not deceiving anyone it says on my profile that I'm part of a couple and I meet as a couple also wots the difference with me putting that or my fuck buddy ???"

I think your profile would be ok if your meets where to meet on your own but your not, so I think you should have a couples profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not deceiving anyone it says on my profile that I'm part of a couple and I meet as a couple also wots the difference with me putting that or my fuck buddy ???"

Because people searching for single females on here expect to find just that!

Which is made a lot harder by those setting themselves up in what is blatantly the wrong category!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not deceiving anyone it says on my profile that I'm part of a couple and I meet as a couple also wots the difference with me putting that or my fuck buddy ???

Because people searching for single females on here expect to find just that!

Which is made a lot harder by those setting themselves up in what is blatantly the wrong category! "

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By *cecream101 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Ok ok ok point taken like I said I'm new to all this I will do a couple profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busted!! Lol

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By *cecream101 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

DONE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"DONE "

Welcome to the forums! Apologies if the above seemed harsh - but there's certain things people feel quite strongly about!

Don't let it put you off though - it's fun in here!

Oh - and don't forget to fill in his vital statistics, adjust your opening line and stick some pics up of him too!

Good luck!

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london


"Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??"

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

i am a single woman , i am deffo single which means , no man , bf , husband or husband in a wheelchair unable to perform but genuinely single fem .

I am also verified , and all my verifications are by meeting in person would u believe .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG Funny as fook! A couple misrepresenting themselves as a single female, complaining that other single females don't get verified and are therefore fake????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well;

I'm single,

female,

verified met in person, a number of times.

verified, photo.

Don't instist on bringing a bf/fwb/fb (kind of hard lol)

And even with all that, I don't meet with couples and single women profiles, that are not single women are one my 'bugs' within swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently met a guy, over a year on site, no green tick or photo verified, but he turned up, so not all people not genuine, instead questioning arrange meet to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG Funny as fook! A couple misrepresenting themselves as a single female, complaining that other single females don't get verified and are therefore fake???? "

Priceless!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you single women say you are single then add a guy into meets??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles changed to a couples one now folks and fully completed!!

Looks like the OP has done the decent thing - thumbs up!!

And I'd suggest if anyone sees similar profiles that are blatantly couples labelled as singles (male or female) - just report and let admin deal with it.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"OMG Funny as fook! A couple misrepresenting themselves as a single female, complaining that other single females don't get verified and are therefore fake???? "

the irony meter here at "chez fabs" went off the scale... the bells went off...

maybe the moral here is that if you were deceiving others.... you aren't really in a position to be complaining about others..

lets call it the "moral high ground" rule....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG Funny as fook! A couple misrepresenting themselves as a single female, complaining that other single females don't get verified and are therefore fake????

the irony meter here at "chez fabs" went off the scale... the bells went off...

maybe the moral here is that if you were deceiving others.... you aren't really in a position to be complaining about others..

lets call it the "moral high ground" rule.... "

If you had read the whole thread you will have noticed that the op has after listening to people changed profile from a single f to a couples

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There are all sorts of reason for people not joining on Monday and having verifications from meets by Tuesday.

However, if someone's been on for a fair while and haven't been verified in anyway, I wonder just what they are looking for on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??"

Flags or ticks don't guarantee someone is genuine. If in doubt a phonecall or cam session is worth asking and even then they might not be genuine people who meet.

Genuine means so many different things to so many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG Funny as fook! A couple misrepresenting themselves as a single female, complaining that other single females don't get verified and are therefore fake????

the irony meter here at "chez fabs" went off the scale... the bells went off...

maybe the moral here is that if you were deceiving others.... you aren't really in a position to be complaining about others..

lets call it the "moral high ground" rule....

If you had read the whole thread you will have noticed that the op has after listening to people changed profile from a single f to a couples "

When I looked at the profile admin had changed it and no details had been added for the 'other half'

If their profile was reported it is more likely admin changed it, than the 'single female' changed it, and it still undermines the whole point of the opening post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??"

Excuse me? Im genuine and a single fem and have veri's

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??"

I dont have a site tick .. but its not stopped me

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I know people who have had both and been fake so makes no difference if you have them or not, still use your own judgement and take nothing for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that some genuine ladies are on the site who just like to go in the chat rooms, on the forums and message friends - nothing wrong with that. Also, they might well have met people, but just don't have any verifications

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I know that some genuine ladies are on the site who just like to go in the chat rooms, on the forums and message friends - nothing wrong with that. Also, they might well have met people, but just don't have any verifications "

Or might not want to meet couples. Staggering, I know, but it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do You single women say they are genuine on this site but never get verified ??

I dont have a site tick .. but its not stopped me"

But you're not a woman. And you are verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not verified but I am genuine? I just simply can't be fussed to take that picture to become verified but I've got a verification off someone been on cam to them, and still no one gives me the time of day on here, gets really annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that some genuine ladies are on the site who just like to go in the chat rooms, on the forums and message friends - nothing wrong with that. Also, they might well have met people, but just don't have any verifications

Or might not want to meet couples. Staggering, I know, but it happens! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just read this thread and has had me in stitches.

Although it does highlight how people perceive things differently. To me it's all in the profile text as with everything labels/categories can be to narrow.

Eg a single fem profile that states she is part of a couplle which also has a profile but only uses single profile to chat and such could be reported but is also genuine.

Again a profile of a single male or female who states they have a partner but play on their own with permission.

The list of profile permutations is endless.

The one clear rule should be what ever category a profile is in the profile text should match if a profile states for the purpose of meeting it will be something else then profile should be changed to match.

Hope this makes sense not had enough coffee yet

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF


"I recently met a guy, over a year on site, no green tick or photo verified, but he turned up, so not all people not genuine, instead questioning arrange meet to find out"

I've met a few singles and couples with no verifications who refused verifications afterwards, funnily enough they were all 100% reliable. Some folks just like total privacy and don't give a monkey's what other's think

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There are all sorts of reason for people not joining on Monday and having verifications from meets by Tuesday.

However, if someone's been on for a fair while and haven't been verified in anyway, I wonder just what they are looking for on here."

Believe it or not people meet and fuck without the need to memorialise it in the form of a verification you know!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I recently met a guy, over a year on site, no green tick or photo verified, but he turned up, so not all people not genuine, instead questioning arrange meet to find out

I've met a few singles and couples with no verifications who refused verifications afterwards, funnily enough they were all 100% reliable. Some folks just like total privacy and don't give a monkey's what other's think "

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By *bw queen of spadesWoman
over a year ago

neath


"I recently met a guy, over a year on site, no green tick or photo verified, but he turned up, so not all people not genuine, instead questioning arrange meet to find out

I've met a few singles and couples with no verifications who refused verifications afterwards, funnily enough they were all 100% reliable. Some folks just like total privacy and don't give a monkey's what other's think "

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