FabSwingers.com forum: Guys looking at Guys???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, first time at a new post so please go easy on me....

Not been on here long and was wondering about the number of guys checking out my profile. I am totally straight, and fully understand the ratio of men to women on here, but 20 to 1, is that normal?

Have just read a post where a guy says about looking at verification's to see what type a woman goes for, is this common place?

How do other guys feel about guys looking at their profile?

It doesnt bother me in the least, in fact I am friends with a couple of the guys as find it useful for advice, both receiving and passing on.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I think you're right not to let it bother you. Im straight but I get more winks from men than I do women, yet it doesn't bother me at all. Keep open minded I say.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Wouldnt they need to look at your profile though before they knew that you were straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get the same also

even get winks from bi sexual men & gay men even though am straight

dose seams that some dont even bother 2 read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its got something to do with alot of men on here have there status as straight when they are not.

Im bi and open about it and ive received alot of messages of guys on here asking for fun yet there profile states they are straight.

But if it does not bother you then you got nothing to worry about take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you are str8 but a lot of guys put str8, but in actual fact they are bi!

we have met str8 guys and found them to be bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you are str8 but a lot of guys put str8, but in actual fact they are bi!

we have met str8 guys and found them to be bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no control over who looks at your profile unless you hide it. But then no women will see it either its not worth worrying about really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see who they are meeting and who is likely to meet from their verifications.

Checking to see if it looks genuine or not. Loads of genuine reasons.

Or maybe just closet Bi's

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm bi, most of the winks and messages I get are from straight guys. I'd take a person's sexuality with a pinch of salt on here.

I won't meet a guy who's straight, why would I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of my mother's often used to drop in the phrase

'a cat can look at a queen'

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By *ewlySingleMaleMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

When in chat it is possible to bring up the wrong profile because the list of people in the room is always changing position. I know I've done that a few times when I've gone to open a female/couple profile or cam and ended up with a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might just be the case of browsing through profiles and just passing the time of day. It could be that you are irresistably sexy to the point of manliness oozing from every sexually charged pore that even the straight guys go weak at the knees, at the end of the day does it really matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, its funny how guys complain about other guys looking at their profile. Your on a site where you have to read someones profile to see if you both match. So, obviously men are going to look at your profile.

How else are they going to find out information about you or suss out the competition lol??

I have men messaging me and complimenting me on my profile (which is at times weird) even though im straight. All you say is either no thanks or dont reply if they message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its nice that people find u attractive whether their male or female.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind men looking at my profile or even if them message me to say hi but what dose wind me up is when I get crude messages and cock pics sent to me. I know they are just trying there look but a hello would be better than a cock lol

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Also take into consideration a supposed straight male/bi fem couple. Many are not what they have down on their profile. Of course it's acceptible women to be bi but still taboo for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind men looking at my profile or even if them message me to say hi but what dose wind me up is when I get crude messages and cock pics sent to me. I know they are just trying there look but a hello would be better than a cock lol

Now you know how single ladies feel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also take into consideration a supposed straight male/bi fem couple. Many are not what they have down on their profile. Of course it's acceptible women to be bi but still taboo for men "

Very true! As a bi male that displays this on his profile, I do get a lot of flack from men and women in couples and also single fems.

There are a lot of guys that say str8 on thier profile that sned messages asking for meets, they typically want to give a BJ or rec anal, alot of them are with partners/married.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi but don't look at mens profiles very often - only popeyes one from London to see if he's shaved his beard off but he hasn't, he did trim it though but it wasn't me that suggested that - I think he thought of it himself tbh and anyway, I've blocked all men from looking at my profile. Reason? A) boring and unimaginative messages B) to prevent profile wit theft and C) just because I can and D) not enough cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also take into consideration a supposed straight male/bi fem couple. Many are not what they have down on their profile. Of course it's acceptible women to be bi but still taboo for men "

Oh is it? Lol! All my friends neighbors acquaintances n even the vicar n my rabbi know I am lol - I must b VERY modern

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