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By *TPete OP Man
12 weeks ago

wallasey

FB wants to be tied up and feel vulnerable. Where do I learn how to tie good knots? She wants to be gagged with tape but not sure that is possible safely?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't use anything as a gag that didn't allow oxygen in and saliva out, you can get various gags that do that. You could use some of the restraints you can buy on line if you're not sure about knots

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By *ourpornfixMan
12 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Don't tape gag. I'd suggest a pseudo leather gag with a protruding nub that fits in the mouth, like a micro cock.

I learned my knots in Scouts but probably best not to ask them. Vids can help but nothing works better than someone to show you how. Alternatively use bondage tape (only sticks to itself, easy to remove) or velcro restraints.

Good luck!

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By *rills and SwoonCouple
12 weeks ago

Stroud

If you are going to tie anybody, you need to learn how to do it safely and properly. There are plenty of groups out there who can teach you. Don’t try it without learning how to do it safely.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
12 weeks ago

Sheffield

Love being tied and used

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By *opey_JohnMan
12 weeks ago

Dudley

"FB wants to be tied up and feel vulnerable. Where do I learn how to tie good knots? She wants to be gagged with tape but not sure that is possible safely? "

It might be worth starting off slowly, so maybe use a cleave gag rather than tape. If you're using rope, always have scissors near by. You can use the well know auction site to pick up some velcro cuffs which are very effective.

Go slowly, check in a lot and make sure you work out safe words and signals before you start. If you want any more info, feel free to drop me a line.

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By *ensualMan
11 weeks ago

Sutton

"FB wants to be tied up and feel vulnerable. Where do I learn how to tie good knots? She wants to be gagged with tape but not sure that is possible safely?

Go slowly, check in a lot and make sure you work out safe words and signals before you start. If you want any more info, feel free to drop me a line."

Possibly you mean "EMT shears" or "rope hook" instead of scissors.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
11 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"FB wants to be tied up and feel vulnerable. Where do I learn how to tie good knots? She wants to be gagged with tape but not sure that is possible safely? "

You go to a bondage workshop.

I go to rope studios all over London to learn how to do it as safely as possible.

There are online instructionals and books but it's not the same as in person.

Can't see your profile but there are rope groups who teach you all over the UK but they are on the fetish site-F£tLiF£

There's also mummification workshops and instructorsa that use tape on that website.

most bondage carries a risk and you both should know exactly what can go wrong before playing around with rope and tape, cling film, leather, metal and any other kind of restraints.

Try not to mix ingestible physiological altering- substances with BDSM. Even something like a painkiller or too much caffeine can have a negative effect. Alcohol is a no. Antidepressants can make people feel numb.

Always have EMT shears or rope cutters that climbers use next to you or clipped onto you.

One of my rope peers ties the rope in a quick-release way for one of the rope bottoms who gets seizures. I don't have seizures but I can get triggered and dissociate which is a bad thing when combined with rope.

Knowing mental health first aid and physical health first aid is a good thing.

Never leave anyone tied up alone where they can't get free. That includes yourself...no neck rope home alone by yourself!! One guy tied himself upside down, dropped the rope cutter, wiggled too much, caused the tying suspension frame to fall over with him still to it, blacked out and then came to several hours later after his wife found him. lol! He was banned from tying alone in their basement after that and the cutter was attached to him in such a way that he couldn't drop it out of reach.

the First principle in most BDSM protocol is safety. You can't be 100% safe but you can mitigate the risk of something going wrong. Again no neck rope home alone.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
11 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"FB wants to be tied up and feel vulnerable. Where do I learn how to tie good knots? She wants to be gagged with tape but not sure that is possible safely?

Go slowly, check in a lot and make sure you work out safe words and signals before you start. If you want any more info, feel free to drop me a line.

Possibly you mean "EMT shears" or "rope hook" instead of scissors."

Yeah regular scissors are poor quality when it comes to cutting rope.

Something that regular people don't know.

Also things regular people don't know. Ann Summers/Amazon rope is not to be used to suspend people with. Synthetic climbing rope can give you rope burns if not handled correctly. lol! Some people's skins are sensitive to rope fibres so what type of rope, what it is washed with, what wax it is conditioned with and how it is applied to the body matters.

The person you are tying up has the job of telling you when anything feel weird or uncomfortable or itchy or tingley or painful or numb.......they can't tell you if they have a mouth gag.....you need hand signals like how scuba divers use. slightly more complicated if you;ve tied up their fingers too.

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