FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

cannot accommodate /Travel ??

Jump to newest
 

By *hyguyindevon OP   Man
12 weeks ago

dartmouth

Can anyone (maybe the members who have this on their profile) explain to me how they expect to meet?

For someone or even a couple...who state on their profile that 'they cannot accommodate' and 'they cannot travel'..do they expect the o.p. to 'taxi them' about??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

I think they mean they can't travel long distances but will meet locally at a hotel, club or perhaps the other person's home.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uperstar76Woman
12 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

The accom in a hotel or at yours or a club, they use public transport or walk so cant travel far or maybe ask you to collect them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Also travelling long distances takes time and may involve an overnight stay they can't do if they have children at home or are a carer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss DevilWoman
12 weeks ago

Bedford

For some, it might be used as a deterrent, it doesn't necessarily mean they can't do either. I know because I had it on my profile before, and that's how I used it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

For me if they can't do both, they want online only. Simple enough to understand

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"For me if they can't do both, they want online only. Simple enough to understand "

I disagree.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hyguyindevon OP   Man
12 weeks ago

dartmouth

Many thanks Ladies....shall view profiles with a 'more open mind' now.

x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ocialablechapMan
12 weeks ago

Paphos and also SW UK

Some members do explain this more in their profile.

For one lady, doesn't drive, was happy to get herself to a localish meet for social. She didn't want anyone meeting at hers first off. Hence she put 'can't' for both.

Like you've said, we all need to be more open minded when looking at other peoples circumstances.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"For me if they can't do both, they want online only. Simple enough to understand

I disagree. "

How?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"For me if they can't do both, they want online only. Simple enough to understand

I disagree.

How? "

They might be happy to meet locally, not just chat online.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ipstick KissesWoman
12 weeks ago

Newry

I'd say your best bet if you see a profile that really interests you which states they can't travel/can't travel is to just ask them.

As you can see already from the few answers here, it's going to mean different things to different people. I'm just about to change my own profile to say the same as ongoing car trouble means I can only meet locally where public transport is available.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Can anyone (maybe the members who have this on their profile) explain to me how they expect to meet?

For someone or even a couple...who state on their profile that 'they cannot accommodate' and 'they cannot travel'..do they expect the o.p. to 'taxi them' about?? "

You could ask them? im assuming every answer is different

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r SproutMan
12 weeks ago

M54


"Can anyone (maybe the members who have this on their profile) explain to me how they expect to meet?

For someone or even a couple...who state on their profile that 'they cannot accommodate' and 'they cannot travel'..do they expect the o.p. to 'taxi them' about?? "

Read the first line of my profile. I think it explains what you’re asking

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uckingfell59Man
12 weeks ago

Doncaster

A lady I met and have met with frequently has that on her profile, as it turns out she can do both, but as a single mum with two children one with special needs, her spare time is limited and dependent on her responsibilities , but with good communication nothing is insurmountable,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 26/02/26 14:32:36]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I have both on my profile...

Right now im not meeting at all so its a moot point haha but when i do meet

i cannot accom for personal reasons...

i cannot travel very far at all. So i prefer to list myself as not able to travel. etc x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I don’t expect to meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gly duck cdTV/TS
11 weeks ago

middlesbrough

If I’m not looking to meet I have them turned off , if I’m looking to meet I’ll adjust my profile accordingly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *DSotonUKTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Southampton City Centre

I don't drive and don't live with other people. That's the basis of it for me.

Outside of that, I'm happy to walk a reasonable way. Less than an hour is my limit. Maybe get a bus for somebody I've met before or have a good enough feeling about.

If I'm somewhere for something else, I'll mention it in my profile/status depending on how long I'm there for.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *DSotonUKTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Southampton City Centre

Do live. I do live with other people. Not the type who'd be fine with me fucking under their roof.

Damn. An edit button would be nice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top