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By *wingloose95 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Warrington

Won’t meet unless verified, can’t get a meet to get verified? Feels like an endless cycle, is my profile off putting? Any and all advice welcome for a swinging noob x

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By *earching01246Woman
12 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I like your profile and pics. Have you thought about trying an organised social or a club? X

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Imo

You need far more photos

They are the same.

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By *wingloose95 OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Warrington


"I like your profile and pics. Have you thought about trying an organised social or a club? X"

Definitely something I’d like to try, just feels very daunting to go solo for first time! Would like to meet someone also interested in them to go with x

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By *assion 4 lickingMan
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Could I please get advice I get load of views and only messages from trans women

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By *lrightthenMan
12 weeks ago

Bradford

Go on cam, get verified that way

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By *aandLoCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

Agree that you need to up your photo game. Delete the one with another person in it, and spend a little time creating some more appealing photos - that does not mean 100 cock pics, lol.

And, yeah socials are daunting but be brave and go. Even if you only stay an hour and talk to one person the first time. Or try a spa club, everyone seems to chat in a jacuzzi.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Tamworth

It’s good that you’ve put some vanilla stuff in there about your interests and hobbies, but I don’t feel like I come away with a sense of what you’re looking for from Fab specifically so I feel like you need to beef that up.

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
12 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent


"I like your profile and pics. Have you thought about trying an organised social or a club? X

Definitely something I’d like to try, just feels very daunting to go solo for first time! Would like to meet someone also interested in them to go with x"

Can understand it's difficult getting that first verification as couples like ourselves avoid unverified guys for the fact that they can be very unreliable and have a tendency to get cold feet and not show up. It's a catch 22 for someone in your situation but try not to look at clubs as something incredibly daunting and that you need someone to go with....it's just as daunting meeting a couple for the first time. You're entering someone's dynamic as an outsider and trying to fit in with 2 people that know each other far more intimately than you could and you can'thave someonehold your hand in that situation. At least with a club there's no pressure, just go and have a walk about, say hello to people, have a drink and get a feel for how things work in those environments. Fortune favours the brave! Go and get your face out there and you'll soon see the verifications rolling in.

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By *ornucopiaMan
12 weeks ago

Bexley


"Imo

You need far more photos

They are the same."

Have loads of cock photos.

At least that will keep most of the blokes on here happy and generate lots of inbox mail for you!

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By *untimes2123Couple
12 weeks ago

Wakefield

There’s also a new events groups that is more about singles and suppport for each other.

It’s called swingles, give one of those events a try maybe?

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By *harAndBryCouple
12 weeks ago

Downham Market


"Won’t meet unless verified, can’t get a meet to get verified?"

Yawn....this again. Why not try and organised social to get those first verifications? We won't meet anyone without a meet verification as there are FAR too many on this site that just gets off on arranging meets that they don't turn up to. Either don't have the balls, just enjoy the setup, or are married and can't come up with a reason to leave the house.

Getting verified at a club or social proves you DO leave the house.

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By *ashedMan
12 weeks ago

hemel

I have been on here for years and tried many different approaches. Nothing is set in stone it's all about the luck of the draw as they say right place right time . Single men out number women and couples 20 time . So good luck if you throw enough ball at a coconut you might win a fish

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By *una_RaineCouple
12 weeks ago

worcester

I’m assuming you’ve updated your profile since posting, I think you’re profile is fine

Though I’d add more photos personally, maybe add some other interesting stuff other than being nerdy and stuff because not everyone is nerdy too, I felt like I wouldn’t connect with you just based on your interests

But all that being said a lot of it actually comes down to the conversation rather than the profile, not to say you gotta stand out but you gotta show you read their profile, you get to know them before going into anything sexual, go for a social and you’ll get a verification that way

And generally don’t be grimey like some men on here -.- I don’t expect you are anyway but still

Alternatively have you thought about going to a swinging club to get verifications even if it’s just social ones?

I personally rather meet people at my local club especially men than going on fab looking for them, hence why I put no men on my profile so I don’t get harrassed as much XD I’d rather meet a guy in a club and have a conversation in person before playing

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Hi all recently single m over the years ive expermented with partners and solo on and off of here the account im on is fairly new had a couole of meets one recently thats verified me. But for some reason not getting many messages back were am i going wrong

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By *ornucopiaMan
12 weeks ago

Bexley


"Hi all recently single m over the years ive expermented with partners and solo on and off of here the account im on is fairly new had a couole of meets one recently thats verified me. But for some reason not getting many messages back were am i going wrong "

Smoker and can't accomodate won't help. Otherwise your pictures and profile are ok..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


" were am i going wrong "

The first word on your profile says "experined"

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Thanks all and thanks for the spelling check 🫡

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
12 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent


"Thanks all and thanks for the spelling check 🫡"

You also spelt separate wrong. 😉

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