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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello there,

I have this burning question that I want to ask. Why older women (40-50) are reluctant to meet younger men because of their age?

It doesn't mean that being physically young that you can't be mentally much older than your physical age. It is my understanding that also it doesn't mean you are old physically that you are mentally also that old. You could act like a child for example.

Let me know how mature women thing of this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't answer because I'm even older than older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't answer because I'm even older than older "

doable though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their fannies cant take it..plain and simple

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can't answer because I'm even older than older

doable though... "

Charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha personally I prefer guys younger than me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"their fannies cant take it..plain and simple "

As I said.....charmer

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

In my case i think its because i have two boys, and the thought of having sex with someone near their age seems wrong to me, but thats just me!!!!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Not all are - my fb of the last 18 months is 22 and I'm 42. Works for us he's extremely mature for his age and exceedingly hot which is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case i think its because i have two boys, and the thought of having sex with someone near their age seems wrong to me, but thats just me!!!!"
yes this exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case i think its because i have two boys, and the thought of having sex with someone near their age seems wrong to me, but thats just me!!!! yes this exactly!"

And me too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hello there,

I have this burning question that I want to ask. Why older women (40-50) are reluctant to meet younger men because of their age?

It doesn't mean that being physically young that you can't be mentally much older than your physical age. It is my understanding that also it doesn't mean you are old physically that you are mentally also that old. You could act like a child for example.

Let me know how mature women thing of this."

I know I'm older than the age range you mentioned but that's never stopped me sticking my nose in before .

Everything you say is true it is possible to have a very mature 20 year old and an immature 50 year old. There are many older women who like to meet with younger men too. However you must accept that we all have preferences when it comes to sex and for some older women that doesn't include younger men.

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By *entleman DMan
over a year ago

city center, limerick city.

very true.xxx

but quick question, do you like a younger guy? age range?

ps your stunning

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"very true.xxx

but quick question, do you like a younger guy? age range?

ps your stunning"

thank you. It's all there in our profile but 30 & upwards is my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy to be older than my knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't turn a young guy down if he had a mature personality, but broadly I just feel more comfortable with men of my own age.

Can't exactly say why - it's just how I feel....

Oddly enough, it's not an issue that arrises with women - I've been very happy to play with much younger girls and have had a wonderful time!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hello there,

I have this burning question that I want to ask. Why older women (40-50) are reluctant to meet younger men because of their age?

It doesn't mean that being physically young that you can't be mentally much older than your physical age. It is my understanding that also it doesn't mean you are old physically that you are mentally also that old. You could act like a child for example.

Let me know how mature women thing of this."

Simplistically: I don't play with anyone who could be my son or dad. Asking people to justify their person preferences demonstrates a lack of maturity and respect in my view.

Self entitled petulance is never an attractive trait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally because I have two daughters that are the age of most the young ones that have approached me. I couldn't and wouldn't entertain someone that is young enough to be my son. Nor could I sleep with someone old enough to be my dad!

Hence why my filters are set for 30-50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D likes young men but they are often a let down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it's called personal preference and people don't have to justify it. Just respect that some women like younger guys and others don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because young guys 20 to 26 are very immature

They think they know everything when they don't

Plus they can go all night when I can't as I'm so old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello there,

I have this burning question that I want to ask. Why older women (40-50) are reluctant to meet younger men because of their age?

It doesn't mean that being physically young that you can't be mentally much older than your physical age. It is mey understanding that also it doesn't mean you are old physically that you are mentally also that old. You could act like a child for example.

Let me know how mature women thing of this."

because as hard as this may be for you to believe, I don't find them attractive and I don't want to fuck them...

I work with a lot of much younger people and so does my partner-when we socialise through work, while they're lovely people, I really can't connect with them at all and that's been the case generally when we've gone outside our age limits on meets...I personally find it's the same with young women too so I'm an equal opportunities age discriminator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met some nice young men, i dont feel i have enough in common with them though, i have had messages from some nice ones but they live too far away.

at the moment i prefer to meet more experienced men who are good at oral and foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I love younger guys and we have never met anyone over the age of 40!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

"

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't answer because I'm even older than older "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen."

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really."

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some. 

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck! 

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen. 

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may".  Not that staggering really.

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look."

I never said they did. Just as I didn't say every 21 year old resembles Justin Beiber. Im merely stating why some ladies of the specified age groups may be more attracted to these particular body types. Which I believe some will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an older woman and as it happens, I like younger men. However, I would never meet a man who drew attention to our age difference. It is a sign of immaturity not to realise that drawing a woman's attention to the fact that she is 'older' is a BIG turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an older woman and as it happens, I like younger men. However, I would never meet a man who drew attention to our age difference. It is a sign of immaturity not to realise that drawing a woman's attention to the fact that she is 'older' is a BIG turn off!"

I realized this ages ago and have been successful with older women ever since i stopped mentioning age difference lol

As for the rest i think they just don't want to be in bed with a guy who reminds them of their son!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is looking for something different on here, you just got to find the right person or couple, they is loads looking for younger men, I like mature lady's, I've had no problem is finding them, don't be pushing and become friends first and what ever happens, happens if it don't then it don't just carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageism is rife on Fab Swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older women and always have. I have always gotten on better with them and they are more confident in themselves. i like confidence in women - dont want women changing themselves due to a certain stereotype as to how a woman should be/look.

I like them to remain true to themselves.

Im 23 and my fuckbuddy is in her late 30s. And the weekends away that we have are mindblowing.

Some of us are mature than others. And thats me. Im old school lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they're of legal age - and there's obviously mutual attraction - then its game on.

When all's said and done, I'm not after a lasting relationship, much less adopting them.

It would just be for the fun of it, nothing more, nothing less! T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think older women and younger men fit together perfectly. Women of 40 ate at their peak, where like me I'm at my peak at 19, so it fits well. I like older ladies as much as younger Ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're of legal age - and there's obviously mutual attraction - then its game on.

When all's said and done, I'm not after a lasting relationship, much less adopting them.

It would just be for the fun of it, nothing more, nothing less! T

XXX"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I love younger men, with their fit bodies and rampant stamina. However their conversation sucks. Also, I prefer to meet them at a club/party. I have met them one on one but they always look so disappointed when they see me, and it makes conversation slightly awkward afterwards. I know I am not up to Michelle Pfeiffer standards but we can't all have Hollywood bodies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love younger men, with their fit bodies and rampant stamina. However their conversation sucks. Also, I prefer to meet them at a club/party. I have met them one on one but they always look so disappointed when they see me, and it makes conversation slightly awkward afterwards. I know I am not up to Michelle Pfeiffer standards but we can't all have Hollywood bodies!"

You haven't met me, your sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant really join in this thread. Cause if i want a older woman i would have to check out the retirment homes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I cant really join in this thread. Cause if i want a older woman i would have to check out the retirment homes

"

Lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I only see younger fellas so its not everyone.

We all look for our own preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only see younger fellas so its not everyone.

We all look for our own preferences "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ageism is rife on Fab Swingers!"

Actually preference is rife on Fab Swingers

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ageism is rife on Fab Swingers!"

ageism is rife everywhere! I'm not even allowed on a Club 18-30 holiday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ageism is rife on Fab Swingers!

ageism is rife everywhere! I'm not even allowed on a Club 18-30 holiday "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"their fannies cant take it..plain and simple

As I said.....charmer "
how nice ......not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally because I have two daughters that are the age of most the young ones that have approached me. I couldn't and wouldn't entertain someone that is young enough to be my son. Nor could I sleep with someone old enough to be my dad!

Hence why my filters are set for 30-50!"
My son is 26, my daughter 23, so is not a option for me because of that. Ive been with a guy in my age group that has a lovely fit body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm I love younger guys,they horny and dirty as hell ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm I love younger guys,they horny and dirty as hell ;p"

....and we love satisfying your desires. Think thats when its acceptable to use and abuse us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job? "

For me personally it makes no odds about maturity as it really is all about age

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job? "

For any man, not just younger the line comes when they accept women as individuals not as groups herded together by a single criteria.

Anyone with a searchable preference is probably going to get more luck from doing just that than posting in the forums making sweeping statements about an age group. Not all young men are immature not all older women are sexy and my definition of younger starts where some peoples definition of old begins....all relative.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job? "

Being able to hold a conversation without referring to 'slags n bitches' is a start. In fact, being able to speak at all would be lovely, as the common denominator in most of my meets with young guys is their inability to give more than monosyllabic responses to conversation. Very trying!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can't answer because I'm even older than older

Me too "

Didn't stop me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job?

For any man, not just younger the line comes when they accept women as individuals not as groups herded together by a single criteria.

Anyone with a searchable preference is probably going to get more luck from doing just that than posting in the forums making sweeping statements about an age group. Not all young men are immature not all older women are sexy and my definition of younger starts where some peoples definition of old begins....all relative."

a great response...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen."

As the person said some may like the slender youthful body of someone like justin beiber.. I looked and yours isn't that kind of body.

youthful for me is the head too and noone in their 40's will be youthful like a 21 year old that I find so sexy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really.

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look."

Your comments are equally ridiculous! Define "genuine swingers" in the context "take care of themselves".

My playmates are aged 38-58. Apart from all being "high fliers" they all have fit, toned bodies. They all spend time in the gym, play football, rugby, golf, run marathons etc.

I on the other hand can just about spell jim, gim, jhim...damn...busted as fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an older woman and as it happens, I like younger men. However, I would never meet a man who drew attention to our age difference. It is a sign of immaturity not to realise that drawing a woman's attention to the fact that she is 'older' is a BIG turn off!"

My thing or fetish is younger guys. How do I express my fetish without mentioning the age difference?

If guys can't say older woman then I can't say younger guys..

Also would u find it a big turn off if a 70 year old said he liked you as he loves a younger woman? Would that then not be immature to mention the age difference?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job? "

For me it's all about the age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the lady of course. I only see guys younger than me. I have a great time with them both in and out of the bedroom. Oh and for you O charming gentleman... My ahem CAN take it!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job?

For any man, not just younger the line comes when they accept women as individuals not as groups herded together by a single criteria.

Anyone with a searchable preference is probably going to get more luck from doing just that than posting in the forums making sweeping statements about an age group. Not all young men are immature not all older women are sexy and my definition of younger starts where some peoples definition of old begins....all relative."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job?

Being able to hold a conversation without referring to 'slags n bitches' is a start. In fact, being able to speak at all would be lovely, as the common denominator in most of my meets with young guys is their inability to give more than monosyllabic responses to conversation. Very trying!"

I must be one of the young ones who talks a bit too much then lol theres too many syllables in my responses...i can go on and on lol

Everyone has their own interpretation of whats young and whats old..as long as everyones having a good time..who cares? Your not hurting anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the lady of course. I only see guys younger than me. I have a great time with them both in and out of the bedroom. Oh and for you O charming gentleman... My ahem CAN take it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job? "

Not being 19...or having that huge and not particularly clever or interesting digital picture on your profile...sorry but you did ask...

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing i do like about very young men is that they arent so pushy, they are more gentle and they dont mind using condoms, some are a bit on the shy side and a bit too quiet. thats just some of the ones i have met and had messages from on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really.

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look.

Your comments are equally ridiculous! Define "genuine swingers" in the context "take care of themselves".

My playmates are aged 38-58. Apart from all being "high fliers" they all have fit, toned bodies. They all spend time in the gym, play football, rugby, golf, run marathons etc.

I on the other hand can just about spell jim, gim, jhim...damn...busted as fake! "

Wow so you make no effort with your appearance but expect the people you play with to be toned and fit? Isn't that selfish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really.

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look.

Your comments are equally ridiculous! Define "genuine swingers" in the context "take care of themselves".

My playmates are aged 38-58. Apart from all being "high fliers" they all have fit, toned bodies. They all spend time in the gym, play football, rugby, golf, run marathons etc.

I on the other hand can just about spell jim, gim, jhim...damn...busted as fake!

Wow so you make no effort with your appearance but expect the people you play with to be toned and fit? Isn't that selfish? "

i dont think she said she expected her men to be fit, just that they are.

just over a year ago i weighed a hefty 15 stone but i still met very slim men,

it didnt seem to bother them as they met me more than once, just because someone doesnt go to the gym doesnt mean they dont make any effort with their apearance. lots of very attractive big people as there are some very unatractive slim people.

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over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really.

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look.

Your comments are equally ridiculous! Define "genuine swingers" in the context "take care of themselves".

My playmates are aged 38-58. Apart from all being "high fliers" they all have fit, toned bodies. They all spend time in the gym, play football, rugby, golf, run marathons etc.

I on the other hand can just about spell jim, gim, jhim...damn...busted as fake!

Wow so you make no effort with your appearance but expect the people you play with to be toned and fit? Isn't that selfish? "

she didnt say she expects them to be fit.. just that they are

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over a year ago


"See age doesn't bother me, but I can appreciate that it would some.

My body tone may appear childlike to some ladies of say 45 to 55 as they like their men a bit chubbier and spread out, firmness will remind them of their kids. Their type may be more the Eammon Holmes look.

Also to others, primarily lasses of say 18 -21 my body may look oberdeveloped and therefore too old as their type may be more the slender Justin Bieber type look.

Like a previous poster said its about personal preference. I don't bother trying to change their minds, I just concentrate on those I do appeal to. If I were you OP Id just tick the slender "I match their preferences too" box when searching ladies profile.

Good luck!

Wow. This post is simply staggering.

I am 44 years old and I am in better shape than most half my age. As are many others we have met and seen.

Please note my use of the words "some" and "may". Not that staggering really.

Not every man over 40 is like Eamonn Holmes!

Indeed we find genuine swingers generally take care of themselves and how they look.

Your comments are equally ridiculous! Define "genuine swingers" in the context "take care of themselves".

My playmates are aged 38-58. Apart from all being "high fliers" they all have fit, toned bodies. They all spend time in the gym, play football, rugby, golf, run marathons etc.

I on the other hand can just about spell jim, gim, jhim...damn...busted as fake!

Wow so you make no effort with your appearance but expect the people you play with to be toned and fit? Isn't that selfish?

i dont think she said she expected her men to be fit, just that they are.

just over a year ago i weighed a hefty 15 stone but i still met very slim men,

it didnt seem to bother them as they met me more than once, just because someone doesnt go to the gym doesnt mean they dont make any effort with their apearance. lots of very attractive big people as there are some very unatractive slim people."

It wasn't us thhat brought up size we onnly said genuine swingers make an effort with their appearance. We find people who swing regularly take care with hair, make-up and clothes as well as physical shape. They are more aware off what they look like as they want to be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thing or fetish is younger guys. How do I express my fetish without mentioning the age difference?

If guys can't say older woman then I can't say younger guys..

Also would u find it a big turn off if a 70 year old said he liked you as he loves a younger woman? Would that then not be immature to mention the age difference?"

I think we're at cross purposes, here.

When it comes to your fetish for younger guys, you can either fulfill it silently, without mentioning their age (which is what I suggest young guys who like older women should do). Or you can say "I like young". Youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

And if a 70 year old asked me for a meet because "he likes younger women" I wouldn't consider him to be immature. I would take it as a compliment. As I say youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

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over a year ago

The simple answer is couched in the question, viz, why would a sophisticated, experienced, intelligent lady be interested in an unsophisticated, inexperienced, less intelligent and generally gauche young man. There's a lot to be said for "been there, done it, and have ... lots of the T-shirts"


"Hello there,

I have this burning question that I want to ask. Why older women (40-50) are reluctant to meet younger men because of their age?

It doesn't mean that being physically young that you can't be mentally much older than your physical age. It is my understanding that also it doesn't mean you are old physically that you are mentally also that old. You could act like a child for example.

Let me know how mature women thing of this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the saying ,young dumb and full of cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ageism is rife on Fab Swingers!

ageism is rife everywhere! I'm not even allowed on a Club 18-30 holiday "

I'm betting the holiday offers are pouring in now! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm I love younger guys,they horny and dirty as hell ;p"

Pmsl at this comment, in fact all of them.

It's the person not the age!

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over a year ago


"My thing or fetish is younger guys. How do I express my fetish without mentioning the age difference?

If guys can't say older woman then I can't say younger guys..

Also would u find it a big turn off if a 70 year old said he liked you as he loves a younger woman? Would that then not be immature to mention the age difference?

I think we're at cross purposes, here.

When it comes to your fetish for younger guys, you can either fulfill it silently, without mentioning their age (which is what I suggest young guys who like older women should do). Or you can say "I like young". Youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

And if a 70 year old asked me for a meet because "he likes younger women" I wouldn't consider him to be immature. I would take it as a compliment. As I say youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

"

seems very unfair.. if you say someone is older your not saying they are old in the same way you say someone is younger than you isnt saying they are young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thing or fetish is younger guys. How do I express my fetish without mentioning the age difference?

If guys can't say older woman then I can't say younger guys..

Also would u find it a big turn off if a 70 year old said he liked you as he loves a younger woman? Would that then not be immature to mention the age difference?

I think we're at cross purposes, here.

When it comes to your fetish for younger guys, you can either fulfill it silently, without mentioning their age (which is what I suggest young guys who like older women should do). Or you can say "I like young". Youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

And if a 70 year old asked me for a meet because "he likes younger women" I wouldn't consider him to be immature. I would take it as a compliment. As I say youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

"

how do i forfil my fetish silently.. hwo will anyone know its my fetish :/

the FACT is you are older than a 20 year old but younger than a 70 year old but neither statement is calling you old or young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thing or fetish is younger guys. How do I express my fetish without mentioning the age difference?

If guys can't say older woman then I can't say younger guys..

Also would u find it a big turn off if a 70 year old said he liked you as he loves a younger woman? Would that then not be immature to mention the age difference?

I think we're at cross purposes, here.

When it comes to your fetish for younger guys, you can either fulfill it silently, without mentioning their age (which is what I suggest young guys who like older women should do). Or you can say "I like young". Youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

And if a 70 year old asked me for a meet because "he likes younger women" I wouldn't consider him to be immature. I would take it as a compliment. As I say youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

"

To be honest it depends entirely upon the context and the words used with it. "Old" can equally be seen as a compliment, such as 'old head on young shoulders' or 'older and wiser'. Young can also be seen as an insult, such as 'young and daft' or 'young and green'.

Do I get insulted when meets with ladies of around 20 include them mentioning me as older? No, because I am. Likewise in 20 or 30 years time I wouldn't view it as an insult.

If someone called me stupid that portrays a negative side to my character itself. If someone called me old or older that merely means I have been on the planet longer than they have which is hardly anything I've done wrong or a negative quality I possess.

You are the age you are. You can do things to improve yourself in ways such as by doing circuit training in your seventies or broadening your experiences in your twenties, but you cannot change your actual age. The sooner people realise this and stop being offended at being referred to as old or young (which will always be from the beholder perspective only remember, at sixteen I thought 24 was old) the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"their fannies cant take it..plain and simple "

What was that expression again, "Tired of living"!

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By *entleman DMan
over a year ago

city center, limerick city.

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By *entleman DMan
over a year ago

city center, limerick city.


"I wouldn't turn a young guy down if he had a mature personality, but broadly I just feel more comfortable with men of my own age.

Can't exactly say why - it's just how I feel....

Oddly enough, it's not an issue that arrises with women - I've been very happy to play with much younger girls and have had a wonderful time!"

your so naughty!!

i fecking love it annie, mwwah!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thing or fetish is younger guys. How do I express my fetish without mentioning the age difference?

If guys can't say older woman then I can't say younger guys..

Also would u find it a big turn off if a 70 year old said he liked you as he loves a younger woman? Would that then not be immature to mention the age difference?

I think we're at cross purposes, here.

When it comes to your fetish for younger guys, you can either fulfill it silently, without mentioning their age (which is what I suggest young guys who like older women should do). Or you can say "I like young". Youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

And if a 70 year old asked me for a meet because "he likes younger women" I wouldn't consider him to be immature. I would take it as a compliment. As I say youth is a compliment, whereas "old" isn't.

To be honest it depends entirely upon the context and the words used with it. "Old" can equally be seen as a compliment, such as 'old head on young shoulders' or 'older and wiser'. Young can also be seen as an insult, such as 'young and daft' or 'young and green'.

Do I get insulted when meets with ladies of around 20 include them mentioning me as older? No, because I am. Likewise in 20 or 30 years time I wouldn't view it as an insult.

If someone called me stupid that portrays a negative side to my character itself. If someone called me old or older that merely means I have been on the planet longer than they have which is hardly anything I've done wrong or a negative quality I possess.

You are the age you are. You can do things to improve yourself in ways such as by doing circuit training in your seventies or broadening your experiences in your twenties, but you cannot change your actual age. The sooner people realise this and stop being offended at being referred to as old or young (which will always be from the beholder perspective only remember, at sixteen I thought 24 was old) the better."

thank you im glad im not the only one who thinks it kinda daft to get insulted at age references

and damn good point about being young isnt always in a complimntary way XD

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By *entleman DMan
over a year ago

city center, limerick city.


"I'm an older woman and as it happens, I like younger men. However, I would never meet a man who drew attention to our age difference. It is a sign of immaturity not to realise that drawing a woman's attention to the fact that she is 'older' is a BIG turn off!"

haha i can see its not just cattle that can suffer from "foot in mouth"

poor young guys and they were doing so well up to that! lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw can we just add that the only single guy who has ever really managed to fuck D well and make her orgasm was a 45 year old. All the younger guys have been pretty hopeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw can we just add that the only single guy who has ever really managed to fuck D well and make her orgasm was a 45 year old. All the younger guys have been pretty hopeless."

still only one guy tho :/ what about the other older guys?

in my experience all the best ones have always been with younger guys.. hence why i stay in that age range now..

i do think alot has to do with mindset tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to the op - there is many positive aspects to younger partners - they tend to have a bright outlook on life, unjaded, less baggage and put a spring in your step

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over a year ago


"Btw can we just add that the only single guy who has ever really managed to fuck D well and make her orgasm was a 45 year old. All the younger guys have been pretty hopeless.

still only one guy tho :/ what about the other older guys?

in my experience all the best ones have always been with younger guys.. hence why i stay in that age range now..

i do think alot has to do with mindset tho"

We don't tend to meet single guys very often as we find single girls or couple are less of a let down lol

We did find younger guys love the talk but can't walk the walk and tend to be a bit overwhelmed.

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over a year ago


"to the op - there is many positive aspects to younger partners - they tend to have a bright outlook on life, unjaded, less baggage and put a spring in your step "

Yes and that too.

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over a year ago

OK, I will qualify my comments as:-

I am 51

I enjoy the company of men who are younger than me

Anyone who says he is attracted to me because I am 'older' is automatically rejected (because I don't want to be reminded that I am old)

Nuff said, I think!

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over a year ago


"OK, I will qualify my comments as:-

I am 51

I enjoy the company of men who are younger than me

Anyone who says he is attracted to me because I am 'older' is automatically rejected (because I don't want to be reminded that I am old)

Nuff said, I think!"

i like to use the saying - your only as old as the guy your feeling

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over a year ago


"OK, I will qualify my comments as:-

I am 51

I enjoy the company of men who are younger than me

Anyone who says he is attracted to me because I am 'older' is automatically rejected (because I don't want to be reminded that I am old)

Nuff said, I think!

i like to use the saying - your only as old as the guy your feeling "

Thats my line...and its nothing to do with her age. Its the confidence and their personality that attracts me. And the fact that i can have a full on conversation with them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"their fannies cant take it..plain and simple "

errr... i beg to differ!! ive had a few much younger than myself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"their fannies cant take it..plain and simple

errr... i beg to differ!! ive had a few much younger than myself!! "

fannies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's crap iv knackered out a few younger guys

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Where would the line of maturity be for an older woman to realise that a young man is mature? Having a clear goal in life? Steady paid job?

Being able to hold a conversation without referring to 'slags n bitches' is a start. In fact, being able to speak at all would be lovely, as the common denominator in most of my meets with young guys is their inability to give more than monosyllabic responses to conversation. Very trying!"

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I like a guy to be older than my knickers. "

how old are your undercrackers!!

OP just be yourself and if someone likes you and wants to play regardless of any age gap they will. Worse thing you can do in my opinion is be different online to who & what you are like in person. Leave no illusions about yourself, be honest & hopefully any meet you do have with an 'older' lady will be pleasureable for you both and may lead to something more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's crap iv knackered out a few younger guys "

heres hoping nobody has taken me seriously with my earlier comments...although reading back , quite possibly lol..have to add a smiley face and a lol everytime eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wow my post really took off. thank you all for your kind contributions on this matter !! very useful indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow my post really took off. thank you all for your kind contributions on this matter !! very useful indeed!"

If you need more answers mate, then do a forum search, this question is usually asked by younger lads about once a week. Plenty of opinions!

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over a year ago

Actually the younger lads I've met are not so good at sex, they haven't the experience to be so and I for one am not patient enough to teach them.

I know some people have and thats their choice Just not mine.

Give me a man 40+ up with lots of veri's and yum!!!

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over a year ago


"wow my post really took off. thank you all for your kind contributions on this matter !! very useful indeed!

If you need more answers mate, then do a forum search, this question is usually asked by younger lads about once a week. Plenty of opinions!"

Even more when the school holidays are upon us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, I will qualify my comments as:-

I am 51

I enjoy the company of men who are younger than me

Anyone who says he is attracted to me because I am 'older' is automatically rejected (because I don't want to be reminded that I am old)

Nuff said, I think!"

A good point and a good way of filtering out those who may not be interested in you for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow my post really took off. thank you all for your kind contributions on this matter !! very useful indeed!

If you need more answers mate, then do a forum search, this question is usually asked by younger lads about once a week. Plenty of opinions!

Even more when the school holidays are upon us "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it the opposite, ive been trying to.find myself an older woman & its not worked yet?

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By *rifters22Couple
over a year ago

Manchester/malta

you are wrong, maybe due to lack of experiance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet much younger men ,, age is only a number after all ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its strange as I dont really like getting with women who are muh younger than me. Seem very immature.

Anyways to this forum topic im thunking wtf ! Is it not just all about personal preference? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its strange as I dont really like getting with women who are muh younger than me. Seem very immature.

Anyways to this forum topic im thunking wtf ! Is it not just all about personal preference? !"

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