FabSwingers.com forum: Think I’ve done wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

over the last 2/3 weeks I’ve had loads of fun on there with various females then towards end of last week one or two of them were a bit off with me now it’s a few more I’ve tried asking what’s wrong but I’m not getting anywhere I don’t wanna push it as it will make it worse and I don’t do animosity I just wanna know what is wrong , make it right and continue having the fun that we had been having a good time we’re all adults just wanna make it right

Sorry for being a nuisance

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By *axtanMan
13 weeks ago

Wimborne

Wow!!

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Without the full story we won't know if you've done anything wrong op.

Do these ladies know about each other?.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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13 weeks ago

East Sussex

If not one if them will tell you what's wrong I don't know what you can do.

Can you think of nothing either with an individual or collectively that might have caused them all to turn against you?

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By *ilverfox for youMan
13 weeks ago

Hull

Maybe they aren’t looking for anything other than a one off ? . Just move in I’m afraid

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By *harAndBryCouple
13 weeks ago

Downham Market

They might be like us - few opportunities to play and health issues means even fewer sometimes. We try and tell guys that we meet that if we regularly met all the guys we meet once, that we'd have to meet five each day to keep up, so we might be lucky to meet again in six months or so.

Doesn't stop almost all of them from messaging the following day asking when it might happen again. Then the next day. Then the next.

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By *WB85Man
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Maybe they aren’t looking for anything other than a one off ? . Just move in I’m afraid "

Move on.

Definitely dont move in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Probably wanting a one off meet. Like an out of life or body moment. Wife did it once and enjoyed until he started to pester like a sleeze.

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By *emovesbakedongreaseMan
13 weeks ago

northwest

Maybe if any of them had left a verification it would be easier to judge

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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13 weeks ago

Central

It's good that you're open to learning from feedback about you but there might be nothing to understand other than that you're in a no strings sex environment. Other than indicating that you may have an infection, if you've enjoyed your time together as planned, that might be the end of your interactions.

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By *og-ManMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere

The way I read it is that all the interactions have only been via messages and not meets

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By *rchie300Man
13 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Maybe they just changed their minds … are they still on fab ? .

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By *axtanMan
13 weeks ago

Wimborne

Why not just be grateful for what you've had rather than what you want! Thousands would love your 'hit rate'.

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By *heSuccubusWoman
13 weeks ago

Darlington

You've been a member for 5 weeks and had 'LOADS of fun with various females' I would take that as a win and just move on....

Shame none of the 'loads' decided to meet verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"over the last 2/3 weeks I’ve had loads of fun on there with various females then towards end of last week one or two of them were a bit off with me now it’s a few more I’ve tried asking what’s wrong but I’m not getting anywhere I don’t wanna push it as it will make it worse and I don’t do animosity I just wanna know what is wrong , make it right and continue having the fun that we had been having a good time we’re all adults just wanna make it right

Sorry for being a nuisance"

I’ll take 'things that never happened' for $500, Alex

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By *entleman JayMan
13 weeks ago

Leeds

No idea what you are talking about.

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By *entleman JayMan
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Sorry for being a nuisance

I’ll take 'things that never happened' for $500, Alex

This.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
12 weeks ago

your bed

Sorry for being a nuisance

I’ll take 'things that never happened' for $500, Alex

Yep needs to go in the stories and fantasy section

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By *elaniejayTV/TS
12 weeks ago

London

Speaking for myself, there are many men I meet that even if we had a good time I won't meet them again, and its nothing against them personally, just that with time being so limited there are only a few guys that I see regularly, and each of them is special (in a good way!)

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"You've been a member for 5 weeks and had 'LOADS of fun with various females' I would take that as a win and just move on....

Shame none of the 'loads' decided to meet verify you

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I couldn't agree more. However, without knowing the full context of the OP's statement it's all open to interpretation (or misinterpretation).

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

"No idea what you are talking about. "

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And this. 🩶

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
11 weeks ago

brighton

"Without the full story we won't know if you've done anything wrong op.

Do these ladies know about each other?. "

Do they exist?!

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