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By *_Anon OP   Man
13 weeks ago

leeds

What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here

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By *uckingfell59Man
13 weeks ago

Doncaster

It does happen, or are you talking “love” or a friend with benefits?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
13 weeks ago

wonderland.


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here "
we met via here... and got married last year.. so definitely possible

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By *_Anon OP   Man
13 weeks ago

leeds

Love

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By *_Anon OP   Man
13 weeks ago

leeds

Pleased to hear, wishing you both a blissful marriage life

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By *uckingfell59Man
13 weeks ago

Doncaster

As I said it happens, and congratulations

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By *anny34500Man
13 weeks ago

Luton

Would love to find a partner

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By *CExeCouple
13 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

We met on Tinder and soon found we both have a very naughty side lol

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By *_Anon OP   Man
13 weeks ago

leeds


"We met on Tinder and soon found we both have a very naughty side lol"

Taking notes haha x

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
13 weeks ago

Essex

We met via here 4 years ago we now live together and live out our sexual dreams as a couple

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By *rowley616Man
13 weeks ago

Scarborough

Hell will freeze over first.

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By *hehighlander88Man
13 weeks ago

inverness

Can only dream I guess

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
13 weeks ago

Frodsham

We met on fab, so it does happen

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By *nuggle_fuckersCouple
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

We met through Fab, started as friends with benefits, now married with benefits 😁

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By *iss DevilWoman
13 weeks ago

Bedford

I met my partner on here, I actually messaged him first as from his profile and from his posts on the forum, he sounded like someone I wanted to get to know better. We have been together since- 8 years and counting.

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By *ake05Man
13 weeks ago

WARRINGTON

I would like to think I'll meet someone on here, whether that happens is another story but I hold out hope it will happen.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
13 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Lots of people we know of have spoken to in forums or in person have met on here and fallen for each other. It can happen but just like with anything it doesn’t happen for everyone.

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By *earching01246Woman
13 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Hoping for this!

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By *bhs72Man
13 weeks ago

witham

Congratulations to all of you that met on here. Great to see like minded individuals finding themselves a suitable partner who shares their kinks. 🥳🎉💝

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By *BC CUCKOLDMan
13 weeks ago

northend

I’m looking for a cuckold couple’s Hampshire’s base for regular meet up dm me if interested

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Stockport

We met as 2 singles on fab and are now married , so yes it can happen

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
13 weeks ago

Leicester

I met my last partner and present partner on Fab.

Last relationship broke down for different reasons than would be assumed! But it has provided a fun, open way to starting a relationship.

Sex is a huge factor to people's relationships and compatibility and alignment is key. I've never felt so well connected in a relationship before this one and I know we have such a high level of trust!

As long as all parties are eyes wide open and not adversed to opening up in that way, it's no different than forming a relationship on any other app!

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By *eau and ArrowCouple
13 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Well we met on here..now we are married

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By *rectus HumongusMan
13 weeks ago

morecambe for the day

I thought i had on here but sadly without going into detail the woman concerned was jailed for stalking me and family and thats tip of iceberg.

I had a relationship on here with another lady for few years we just fit

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By *layfull pairingCouple
13 weeks ago

Bristol

Met on here over ten years ago for a quick social over a coffee.... second meet was at a swingers club... and still going strong.... we have met a lot of people who have got together via this site too... so yes, it happens...

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By *ymbunny99Woman
13 weeks ago

sheerness

I can live in hope

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By *ncubus XMan
13 weeks ago

midlands - glasgow - islands


"I can live in hope "

Yep we can a nice submissive Hotwife would be amazing

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By *s_BBWoman
13 weeks ago

close to you

It would be nice to find someone in the lifestyle and on the same page

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By *aughtyornicelondonWoman
13 weeks ago

london

I think that would be great finding someone on here , knowing you both like the same things

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By *idzmaleMan
13 weeks ago

telford

Would be amazing to find a woman who open minded to fall in love with xx

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13 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Would be amazing to find a woman who open minded to fall in love with xx"

I met my ex on here, we were a couple for 2 years until he decided monogamy was for him. He’s now married with 2 kids

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By *rostedCupcake25Woman
13 weeks ago

Lothian

I met my ex here, although we split up last year, it lasted 18 months and still hopeful I can have another "fab relationship"

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By *heNaughtyDevilMan
13 weeks ago

Manchester

This is definitely something I ask myself all the time and wonder if it is true and does it exist out there. I must say I'm really pleased for the couples that have met through fab and to the ones that are married congratulations

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
13 weeks ago

South East


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here we met via here... and got married last year.. so definitely possible "

Nice to see a positive fab story

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By *parklingeclipseWoman
13 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I've met my freaky soul mate I guess, but we're both married and not going to meet but its got very intense online very quickly as he's Dom. I'm sub so a role play relationship.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
13 weeks ago

Kingswood


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here we met via here... and got married last year.. so definitely possible "

Congratulations, I hope I can find someone soon on here

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here "

Happens. Id been on a week and had my first social. Within a few weeks we were together. 6 months later living together and still are 8 years later.

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I met my other half here, over 10 years ago, so It does happen.

I wasn't looking at the time either, just wanted some nsa fun.

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By *entleman JayMan
13 weeks ago

Leeds

My friend met her fella on here. I went to their wedding. Lol.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
13 weeks ago

Coventry

We met on here 8 years ago. It happens. We know a few couples who met on fab or in clubs.

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By *abulincsCouple
13 weeks ago

near a bridge

Plenty have we got great friends who met on here

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By *oml and mwgcCouple
13 weeks ago

oadby

We met on another swinging site many, many years ago, 20 years ago, i definetly wasn't looking for a partner but we met and i knew on the first time we met (socially) that i loved him. Obviously didn't say anything but we kept meeting and very soon he told me how he felt about me. Moved in together 19 years ago, married 13 years ago, swinging together and alone. Life is fantastic he is amazing

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By *um n raisinWoman
13 weeks ago

taunton

finding a partner on the scene is no difference to finding one else where as they say you can find love anywhere ..

but i suspect the failure rate (that you dont hear about via fab) is very high too ive know quite a few who tried relationship via the scene that have fail and some nightmares so for everyone that ends up good loads fail and for simple reasons ie to be a swinging couple you need a very strong relationship with being able to talk about anything ... thats why those that suceed are doing very well because the are really strong together ...this scene spits out weak relationships or those who swing for the wrong reasons...

so for everyone gone good there will be many gone bad ... good luck to those seeking xx

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By *ilkey69Man
13 weeks ago

Barnsley


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here we met via here... and got married last year.. so definitely possible "

Congratulations

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By *orkshireloversCouple
13 weeks ago

manchester

Met on a similar site almost 8 years ago x

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By *hadow300Man
13 weeks ago

dagenham


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here we met via here... and got married last year.. so definitely possible "

Congratulations

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By *iscretewltmMan
13 weeks ago

Kent

Would like to find someone on same wavelength on here

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By *itsntats0407Couple
13 weeks ago

Sedgley

We found love on here, now I want to marry her

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By *istr3ssWoman
12 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

I'm happy to say I found my soul mate on here & we've been together nearly 6 years now

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By *hadow300Man
11 weeks ago

dagenham

Congratulations

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By *eeejayMan
11 weeks ago

Ramsgate

It would be nice meeting someone with the same desires and drives

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By *111Man
11 weeks ago

Leicester

That would be amazing anyone wanting to chat and see where it can lead to dm me x

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By *eySexy!Woman
11 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead (not London)

What a wonderfully warm thread! Made me feel fuzzy reading it. Had never considered more than a FWB situation from fab, but it definitely makes sense in terms of finding most compatible long term partners.

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By *rchie300Man
11 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I’m open to it , if I met someone on here and it turned into something more I’d be happy to have a relationship…… I’m not much of a sharer though 😉

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By *unfun!Man
11 weeks ago

mijas

I’ve been thinking it’s my only option how could I have a vanilla life after fab

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By *hadowSirenWoman
11 weeks ago

Wales

I’ve spoken to/met a few people here who have become couples after meeting them here.

I’m not hoping to find love here (let’s be realistic) but a long term partner would be a great

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By *radually_RetiringMan
11 weeks ago

Bury

Asymptotic to zero.

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By *ctionSandwichCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Honestly, sounds like recipe for disaster. We'd wager most couples on here didn't meet each other swinging, they probably met normally. We met at a friend's wedding, which is a bit cliche to be fair.

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By *he original SinTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Dover

I met my partner at one of my parties on here 10 years ago and now we got married last year, so anything is possible.

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By *omeotherguyMan
10 weeks ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

I'm stepping back from dating just till my life balances out.

I don't want to be here any longer than I need to.

I want to find that one person that I just adore and want to spend the rest of my days with.

Don't mind if it is here or elsewhere.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
10 weeks ago

Staffordshire

The only limitation of fab is your mindset.

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By *abido83Man
10 weeks ago

Chester

Met and fell in love on here. I fucked it up though. Will haunt me

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By *littyclittybangbangMan
10 weeks ago

warwick

Id like to find someone on the same page. Into having extra fun together. But, i find it don't get many replies at my age

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By *oobsandbeard69Couple
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Met on here 2 years ago and still going!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
10 weeks ago

Dunstable


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here "
would love too.

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By *bc master67Man
10 weeks ago

willenhall

Wow!!

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By *usty Hotwife 1977Couple
9 weeks ago

Hudds


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here "

It does happen. I have a friend who met his wife on her. They neither know that I know but who cares, they seem happy enough. Also another who met his long time partner here & told me. Good for them both. They both know that they’ll have some kinks that match.

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By *anmolMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

Exactly what I’m looking for. Altered my profile recently in the hope I can find the right balance of kink and vanilla. It was getting a bit tedious trying to drop hints on Tinder about what I am looking for.

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By *un couple 2Couple
8 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

it can certainly happen, after seeing the same guy for many years, feelings soon build up, leading to emotional feelings.

weve witnessed that ourselves.

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By *r SensualMan
8 weeks ago

London

Definitely possible… my partner and I connected on here after first meeting one another briefly in a club through mutual friends. Been together 3 and a half years and still going very strong

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By *rightonsteveMan
8 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What’s the possibilities of finding your freaky soulmate on here "

Some people have met partners on here and got married so its def possible.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
8 weeks ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

We met at a party in Blackpool 15 years ago. We had been chatting on fab chatrooms for a while then we got an invite to a party. I drove 196 miles to pick her up and go to Blackpool. We have been married for 10 yrs now.

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By *iscretewltmMan
8 weeks ago

Kent

This would be nice if this happened.

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By *ctionSandwichCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

We met at a friend's wedding like normal people, and only started shining after being married. Make of that what you will.

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By *aughty But nice..Man
8 weeks ago

Staffs

I thought I had found mine but alas we split last year

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By *rchie300Man
8 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I’d date and be with a lot of my female friends on here , just a shame they live quite a distance away from me and one of them is a man hater …. You know who you are 😂

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By *ilverfox for youMan
8 weeks ago

Hull

Zero !!

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
8 weeks ago

Cardiff

We met on tinder, hubby was already on fab. He came off it to be exclusive with me but we then decided to join as a couple after a year or so.

Been together 9 years, married 5

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

Newry

It's possible to find your person anywhere and at any time in life. Granted, if you're relying solely on messaging, the odds against it might be less favourable but if you're out and about regularly meeting people face to face then why not!

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By *nlyliveonce69Man
8 weeks ago

carlisle

You just never know where or when you meet life partner soul mate

Same as you never total understand why one relationship works one fails

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By *ushman500Man
8 weeks ago

Woking

I’m looking for a naughty partner in crime in Surrey . Parties , clubs , private fun meets . Hit me up ladies ! There’s so much fun and anticipation to be had x

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By *FallenAngel-Woman
8 weeks ago

Kings Langley

I would love to find a partner on here but it hasn't happened so far, and I very much doubt it will. So I shall use this place for fun meets until I find a partner away from here

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By *ertiebassett61Man
8 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I'm also looking for a suitable partner for fun

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By *izzy.Woman
8 weeks ago

Stoke area

I thought i had found mine, but he changed his mind last week and that was that.

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By *aykhanMan
8 weeks ago

sheffield


"I thought i had found mine, but he changed his mind last week and that was that. "

There lose hun xx

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By *lan157Man
8 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have had two serious relationships with women I met on the scene. Unfortunately ultimately we parted in both cases after two and five years respectively but it's great when you have the swinging shared interest as well as all the other things in our lives.It enables you to be more open about yourself.

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By *ummer21Woman
7 weeks ago

Midlands

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By *ummer21Woman
7 weeks ago

Midlands

I thought I had found my forever person in the life.....but it only works so long as you are both honest....just out of a 4 year relationship where he constantly lied and met women in secret behind my back. Sad really

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By *ummer21Woman
7 weeks ago

Midlands

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By *ummer21Woman
7 weeks ago

Midlands

Sorry to hear that Lizzy. It just happened to me after 4 years...

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By *rHarding RMan
7 weeks ago

East Midlands

Had a couple in the past, been great fun but came to an end.

If any ladies are looking for a new one, come say hi.

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By *r Jason KingMan
7 weeks ago

Layton,Blackpool.

It did happen to me, met someone at a party, lasted a good few years then parted, met a lovely vanilla lady, had a great relationship, unfortunately she passed 2 years ago, think im now too old to start from scratch again, basically just hanging on till I die.

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By *oxesMan
7 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

There are plenty of examples.

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
7 weeks ago

North West


"We met on Tinder and soon found we both have a very naughty side lol"

Ditto 😂😂

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By *rHarding RMan
7 weeks ago

East Midlands


"We met on tinder, hubby was already on fab. He came off it to be exclusive with me but we then decided to join as a couple after a year or so.

Been together 9 years, married 5

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That's awesome, happy for you both.x

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