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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone 1st time posting in forums, so bear with me.

When it comes to meeting and wanting a veri to say this has happened do you just wait and hope the other person will do it or do you ask, hoping they will not think you pushy or just meeting them to get 1 (notches on the bedpost type of thing)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums!!

I tend to leave one for the other party a day or so (an hour or so in some cases!) later. I'm not worried if they reciprocate or not - but most generally will.

I've yet to have to ask for one and tbh probably wouldn't.

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

We leave one first usually and have always got one back x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks, just wondered the way to go on this site because on others I have been on it was ok to ask/offer without it being "wrong"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah but if u haven't got the first veri tick as the op hasn't then ur buggered there aren't u!!?

If they don't send one and u want ur first veri tick I would ask if they minded doing a short simple we met it was great type veri, nothing wrong with that I would say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok thanks, just wondered the way to go on this site because on others I have been on it was ok to ask/offer without it being "wrong" "

Totally fine to ask after a meet, like anything just be polite

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

We would leave one and if you don't get one in return then ask x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah but if u haven't got the first veri tick as the op hasn't then ur buggered there aren't u!!?

If they don't send one and u want ur first veri tick I would ask if they minded doing a short simple we met it was great type veri, nothing wrong with that I would say!

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very good point! Thanks, guess I will just have to get asking then lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but if u haven't got the first veri tick as the op hasn't then ur buggered there aren't u!!?

If they don't send one and u want ur first veri tick I would ask if they minded doing a short simple we met it was great type veri, nothing wrong with that I would say!

very good point! Thanks, guess I will just have to get asking then lol! "

It's not the be all but nice to have and prove u r a real couple! When I put our couples profile up 2 weeks ago I messaged our friends of here and asked for a veri, they were happy to oblige me and Godfrey! Hope ur meet obliges ur request I not I will have to bring Godfrey and myself to see u and do one myself xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fine to ask your meet to leave a veri especially if you haven't been verified yet.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think it's fine to ask your meet to leave a veri especially if you haven't been verified yet. "

But just ask once and then leave it - pester power is not fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone 1st time posting in forums, so bear with me.

When it comes to meeting and wanting a veri to say this has happened do you just wait and hope the other person will do it or do you ask, hoping they will not think you pushy or just meeting them to get 1 (notches on the bedpost type of thing)? "

If its been a great meet even a social meet I will verify without asking if it was a dire one I won't and go on my merry way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to leave one for them, but most times, when I log in I've found they've written one for me first!

I would never ask for one though, It's down to individuals if they going to veri you or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's fine to ask for your first verification. You can ask for this to be quite factual - "She turned up as planned and looks like her pictures".

After getting the first verification, I personally wouldn't ask for any more - some people like to do verifications, some people don't, so leave it up to them.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We usually send them a message saying thanks for a great time, we have verified you and would appreciate one back.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We usually send them a message saying thanks for a great time, we have verified you and would appreciate one back. "

Yes, this is acceptable. I have a few now so not so bothered anymore. I did ask for 1 as I'd left one myself.

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