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My partner wants to try dogging

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By *tevebackagain OP   Man
16 weeks ago

near horrabridge

My partner said to me she wants to try dogging it came out of the blue what should I do

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By *tan696969Man
16 weeks ago

Hartlepool

Talk it out. If you’re not comfortable with it then you need to communicate that and take it from there.

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By *kibirdWoman
16 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)

Okay, so they want to try it, how about you? Is it something you want as well? Time for some honest communication about what you both want and boundaries if it happened then go from there

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
16 weeks ago

Central

Research it,if interested, including safety.

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By *tevebackagain OP   Man
16 weeks ago

near horrabridge

Spoken to her about it and it seems she did some research and want to try it but on her own

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By *kibirdWoman
16 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)


"Spoken to her about it and it seems she did some research and want to try it but on her own "

Okay, same question stands, how do you feel about especially if she’s on her own . Do you already do solo meets ?

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By *tevebackagain OP   Man
16 weeks ago

near horrabridge


"Spoken to her about it and it seems she did some research and want to try it but on her own

Okay, same question stands, how do you feel about especially if she’s on her own . Do you already do solo meets ?"

Yes we do she said she wants to do it film it and show me we live separate lives and get together at weekends I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet

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By *kibirdWoman
16 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)


"Yes we do she said she wants to do it film it and show me we live separate lives and get together at weekends I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet "

The only thing I’d say about dogging is that it invites all kinds of risks as you can’t control who else might be about too. If you want it to be with someone you trust, this could be difficult to achieve

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By *tevebackagain OP   Man
16 weeks ago

near horrabridge


"Yes we do she said she wants to do it film it and show me we live separate lives and get together at weekends I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet

The only thing I’d say about dogging is that it invites all kinds of risks as you can’t control who else might be about too. If you want it to be with someone you trust, this could be difficult to achieve "

agree I said that if it’s what she wants I need to be

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By *kibirdWoman
16 weeks ago

Gillingham ( Dorset, not Kent)


"agree I said that if it’s what she wants I need to be"

Sounds like it’s something you both need to talk about and go through the details of how it would work for you both but that’s just my humble opinion

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By *iyguyMan
16 weeks ago

dundee

To be fair, you are on a swingers site, so hardly a bolt from the blue I would think! Do you want to? Do you want her to? Surely an open and honest discussion with her is what is required?

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"My partner said to me she wants to try dogging it came out of the blue what should I do "

You have a profile on fab but you are struggling to figure out how to react?

If you had a profile on a home baking site I might understand your confusion but this is a swingers site!

Or is it just that you want to keep this all secret from your partner?

Lots of questions appear in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Kelly would NEVER go dogging on her own.

Firstly, she can't drive(bit of a handicap,i know)

Secondly,she wouldn't feel safe at all.

Each to their own though,but please think long and hard before you try it.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).


"Kelly would NEVER go dogging on her own.

Firstly, she can't drive(bit of a handicap,i know)

Secondly,she wouldn't feel safe at all.

Each to their own though,but please think long and hard before you try it."

Exactly this. As a woman, I can't think of a less safe thing to try "on my own" for the first time.

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By *ilbert777Woman
16 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I'm not saying this is what it is, but I do not want to try a gang bang, that's not to say I don't have fantasies about it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
16 weeks ago

Central

If it's with someone she knows, it would probably be better to use a place that's not known for it. Ie just a very quiet remote spot.

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By *oucancallmeAlMan
16 weeks ago

east anglia

Dont its grey cold dark and in the main inhabited by old men in their Nissan Dukes.

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By *ONDONCOUPLE111Man
16 weeks ago

london

We only go dogging occasionally maybe 2 times a year in the summer, I always go and make sure Shell is safe and I also make sure its condoms only for sex ,if your Mrs goes alone I guarantee she will get carried away and be bearbacked in the first 10 minutes... we have a few couples we meet and have a few house party's which is great fun ,but evey now and again my naughty mrs wants complete strangers and this is in my opinion what dogging is .. be prepared for your Mrs to be the complete center of attention especially if you are the only couple at the site .. our meets start we us having a kiss n cuddle in the car i tend to use toys on her and stuff we then gage who is around the car... we start with just the window open and move on from there ... it can be hit or Miss but its great fun ... but remember safety first ... be prepared to see your loving wife take lots of cock

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By *arleycplWoman
16 weeks ago

Frodsham


"My partner said to me she wants to try dogging it came out of the blue what should I do "

Well as you list dogging as an interest then go for it

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By *amsoonMan
16 weeks ago

Stornoway

My wife suggested dogging to me when we first married to my surprise. Which led to us having a couples profile on fab for many years. Not something she would do on her own.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
16 weeks ago

Leeds


"I’m ok as long as it’s with someone you can trust so I suggested that we pick someone together for her to meet "

I thought the whole point of dogging was having sex with random strangers.

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By *a LunaWoman
16 weeks ago

Wales

I think you both need to rethink the safety aspect.

It’s not likely it will be one fella there, it could be many. And some folk forget their manners and go deaf at hearing the word “no”. She would be in a very vulnerable position on her own.

There are some weird people out there, it’s not exactly 100% safe with two of you, but at least one of you could drive you both away should it get too much.

And are you sure it wasn’t just a “in the moment” fantasy and she didn’t actually mean it?

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By *omsarah73Couple
16 weeks ago

Suffolk

Talk about it and then see if it’s something that you BOTH want to do and if you feel happy with it.

Than go from there.

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By *tevebackagain OP   Man
16 weeks ago

near horrabridge

Did it last night but I went with her

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By *allySlinkyWoman
16 weeks ago

Leeds

How did it go ?

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By *ertcoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

We love it can be lots of fun,but if it's something you're not comfortable with don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Don’t let her go alone

She needs a chaperone as some guys don’t know the word no

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By *oopleMan
16 weeks ago

Durham /Newcastle

I've taken mine a few times and you definitely need to be with her

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By *inoc2185Man
16 weeks ago

Shropshire

Most important thing is to talk about it, establish and rules and hard nos. Dip your toe lightly and try to make the first experience a good one.

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By *elightfulMan
15 weeks ago

Ipswich /Colchester

Wow, I'd love my wife to do that.

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By *ung nine inchMan
15 weeks ago

leeds

Hot

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By *enny48Man
15 weeks ago

Easingwold

We love it

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