FabSwingers.com forum: My profile

By *om9o OP Man
17 weeks ago

Lincoln

Been on here a while now and just had no luck, can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong. I've not been like on all the time, when I joined I was going through a break up from a 10 year relationship. Any help would be appreciated, I'm just lookingfor some good company, I'm on more now as I'm in a better head space. SO PLEASE COME AND TEACH ME. TY

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By *uperstar76Woman
17 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Teach you what?

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By *eachbums40Couple
17 weeks ago

Midlands

"Been on here a while now and just had no luck, can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong. I've not been like on all the time, when I joined I was going through a break up from a 10 year relationship. Any help would be appreciated, I'm just lookingfor some good company, I'm on more now as I'm in a better head space. SO PLEASE COME AND TEACH ME. TY"

What exactly did you want teaching?

Sex? How to write a decent profile??

Please remember, this site is about initial attraction.

Good attractive photos, and a profile that stands out.

Too many people come on here, make no attempt to make themselves look good, then start asking why they get no attention.

Take a look at the very best male profiles on here. They are what you are up against. Then compare your own.

Ask yourself how you compare. Given a choice how would you choose??

So start of by clarifying. What do you want teaching??

Good luck in getting it right.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
17 weeks ago

Narnia

You're making the same mistake that 99% of male profiles do - it's basically a list of things that you want rather than what you can offer (and TBH you don't sound convinced that you even want those things very much).

You get bonus points for face pics but you need a couple which are less moody and more smiley. Need to see your TEETH.

Added bonus points for giving an indication of your body shape that isn't six-pack narcissism.

Even more bonus points for not having a dick pic on public view.

The profiles which get attention are the ones that stand out - confident, cheeky, funny, whatever. They are very carefully crafted and not banged out in 5 minutes using ChatGPT.

Your approach also matters. Cut n paste will get you nowhere, "hey" will get you nowhere, "free tonight" will get you nowhere. Doing it right is a LOT of work.

Finally, be realistic about how difficult this is for single guys. The chances of meeting someone is probably less than 1 in 100, so getting those 99 rejections is normal.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
17 weeks ago

Narnia

Take a look at the very best male profiles on here. They are what you are up against. Then compare your own."

Agreed. Buy it's also worth knowing that "the best" does not mean looking like Orlando Bloom and having a 10inch cock. Some of the most successful guys here are very ordinary looks-wise.

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By *lapin1234Man
17 weeks ago

Lincoln

The ratio of men to women on this site makes this place close to unfeasible for what you're looking for tbh.

Of course there's improvements you could make to your profile, it's a bit crude, your profile is short, your pics are low effort and you look miserable (my profile isn't good myself), but even if it were good you probably wouldn't have much luck. If I were you I'd try more traditional means of meeting women and other apps, I wouldn't invest in this place too much.

And we can't blame the women on this, they are bombarded with hundreds of messages a week and need to make quick decisions, or don't get around to reading the message at all. The verification system is also a self fulfilling prophecy as a woman doesn't want to meet someone not verified but then men can't get a verification from a woman that they aren't an insane loser.

Ultimately more and more men are being pushed out of the dating and hookup scene and it's not a great direction for society, not sure where it leads tbh.

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By *acavityMan
17 weeks ago

Redditch

It’s a scoreboard

And single men start with a negative score

How do you improve your score?

Have a picture, not a blank square.

Have a decent picture, not a dick pick.

Have a username that seems appropriate (not ‘womb-raider69’ or “thunder cock’)

Write something in your bio about what you’re looking for

Re-write your bio, focusing on what you can offer to potential partners and what makes you the person they should choose

Send short messages that show you have read their profile

Give up and just have fun in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Profile is very unattractive the wording on it. Tells absolutely nothing, its very vague and having "am super horney I love eating out for aslong as you can handle" is very off putting. Get to a club, get some verifications

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, take out the 34, as you're 35 according to your prefilled in bio.

I'd also take out the eating out bit and actually write a bit about you. What you're into, what you'd bring to meets etc.

In your pics maybe add one or 2 that show you smiling.

Well done for having a variety of pics though, over cock shots.

You have to try and sell yourself op as there are so many men here, looking for the same as you.

Good luck.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Well done for having a variety of pics though, over cock shots.

Is ten face pics out of 13 variety ?

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By *r SproutMan
17 weeks ago

M54

Copy my profile = win

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