FabSwingers.com forum: Single/solo men - how many meets per month/year?

By *parky123 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Lincoln

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By *parky123 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Lincoln

Single/solo men - how many meets are you getting on average per month or per year as a direct result of messaging through this site?

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By *en_Dover79Man
18 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

0 I go to clubs and get my meets that way, Messaging is pointless on here, I don't do it

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By *olfiMan
18 weeks ago

Leeds

Not had a meeting off here yet.

Still working up the balls to go to a club

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By *en_Dover79Man
18 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

"Not had a meeting off here yet.

Still working up the balls to go to a club"

you'll be fine get gone, I am a nervous guy in everyday life so if I can then anyone can. Trust me

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By *ussyeater27Man
18 weeks ago

London/Murcia/ All over for work

It’s all about patience and location I’ve had a few but been on a couple of years

As another guy has said clubs are the way to go been to two now and both good experiences and got action at both one in London and the other day in Manchester

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By *tephenDandoMan
18 weeks ago

Cardiff

Completely new to the scene. Im Cardiff based - how do you find out where the clubs are and do you just turn up?!

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By *olfiMan
18 weeks ago

Leeds

"Not had a meeting off here yet.

Still working up the balls to go to a club

you'll be fine get gone, I am a nervous guy in everyday life so if I can then anyone can. Trust me"

I've been to one of the local clubs, but solo on a kink night. They're quite different, as people usually have scenes arranged before and not always open to strangers joining.

I'll get there eventually, I just need to get myself ready for it mentally lol

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By *lan157Man
18 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I only send a message if I perceive myself as being a good fit for the woman's profile as written otherwise there is really no point. Consequently not very often.

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By *olfiMan
18 weeks ago

Leeds

"Completely new to the scene. Im Cardiff based - how do you find out where the clubs are and do you just turn up?!"

You can usually find the clubs on Google, a lot of them have their own websites with details.

There is a club review section on here, so you can see what other swingers actually think of them.

There may be some nights where single guys aren't allowed to turn up, but a lot of the nights should be alright

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By *ED_10019Man
18 weeks ago

Boston

"Single/solo men - how many meets are you getting on average per month or per year as a direct result of messaging through this site?"

You're not far from me, so you will know that Lincolnshire is even more hard work than most other places, purely as a result of population density.

Ive had a couple of meets by direct messaging, but the travel distance never helps. Might be slightly better for you in Lincoln, but probably not!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
18 weeks ago

Coventry

When I was a single about once a week, sometimes a couple. Some regulars, some new/one off. Not all off the fab site. On occasion got to a club a couple of times too as intrested in moresomes and the wider swinger lifestyle too.

I was a single parent back then and a shift worker. Mix that with many of the women around my age also being single mums it was difficult to align calendars. In fact I had to be creative, for example fitting in slots in school hours. I had a biweekly weekly thing going for a bit on a Sunday morning. The weekends when my kids were away she'd just come round and get into bed with me for a few hours. So having a diverse sea to fish in suited my needs and theirs. I was always open about not being exclusive and that was fine (including with the women I met not on Fab). Plus I really loved the variety and still enjoy sexual variety today (the beauty of this lifestyle in a relationship)

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By *acavityMan
18 weeks ago

Redditch

It’s been a while. But I’m not desperate.

Nearly got a meet at Christmas, but it fell through.

I can’t help thinking that I have aged out of a lot of lady’s preferred age range.

I still get plenty of offers, but mostly from people who haven’t read my profile.

But forums and chat are also good.

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By *ellhungvweMan
18 weeks ago

Cheltenham

On average five or six times a month but those are mainly with regulars. Maybe meet half a dozen or so new people through messaging every year but I don’t tend to push the messages too often. Clubs and parties can be fun.

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By *parky123 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Lincoln

Cheers all, glad I’m not massively behind the curve haha. Will continue with clubs

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By *9alMan
18 weeks ago

Bridgend

"Completely new to the scene. Im Cardiff based - how do you find out where the clubs are and do you just turn up?!"

there is a club in Newport called Greenhouse bi nights on a Saturday are pay on the door

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By *egoMan
18 weeks ago

Preston

maybe 1-pa and some club action. I never go to a club as a single male, only chaperoning curious friends.

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By *etro manMan
18 weeks ago

manchester

Club list on fab swingers is helpful it’s more about the time getting there as I don’t drive so train bus or a ride on the metro is good

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By *oiluvfunMan
18 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Cheers all, glad I’m not massively behind the curve haha. Will continue with clubs"

Which clubs do you go to as a solo guy? My self confidence couldn’t take the clubs any more….🫣

I have two ladies I have private meets with regularly. They know I’m in Fab, but I don’t meet just anyone for the numbers. Fab is a distraction from ‘normal’ life, and is about meeting nice, likeminded people, not racking up ratings on a scoresheet…..👍

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By *uthenticDreamsMan
18 weeks ago

manchester

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By *radually_RetiringMan
18 weeks ago

Bury

None, every time I've been on here.

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By *ara DosCouple
18 weeks ago

Here, There, Everywhere

I personally feel it’s how you sell yourself. Think of your profile as your gateway. Think about what you say and what pictures you add to your profile

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By *oiluvfunMan
18 weeks ago

Birmingham

I personally feel it’s how you sell yourself. Think of your profile as your gateway. Think about what you say and what pictures you add to your profile"

Scrolling through your veris from the single guys you’ve met, you’re a good advert for the WWW event at the VA (great for the Southern lads), otherwise it’s post face pics in public (not great for everyone), or bareback anal pics (which turns off most in here) 🤷‍♂️

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By *avrick180Man
18 weeks ago

Pontypool

No meets in a long time

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By *ungle JesusMan
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

Zero, this gets used to look for events, and keep in touch with friends. All my meets have been clubs, or started from a club conversation

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