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"I think most the photos ur seeing they know at guy or regular I know clubs it depends on the woman but most do safe sex " Ok, good to know. | |||
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"We prefer bb and have never encountered any issues playing that way in clubs. I struggle to understand how a club could actually enforce a bb ban? " Not a ban. It is in the club’s rules that you use condoms other than with partner. Ofcourse no can check what happens in the private rooms. | |||
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"I think this is a very dangerous take, I’ve seen just as many bb pics and vids with white guys I don’t think skin colour has anything to do with it. Especially the black demographic on here is MUCH less it doesn’t make sense. " | |||
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"The age old subject lol The ex wife and I were swinging, mostly with men, for 40 years. Never met another couple, whether on meets, parties or groups, that used condoms. We started while still in Africa, never saw her with anyone using a condom." Looking back now do you think it was irresponsible? | |||
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"The age old subject lol The ex wife and I were swinging, mostly with men, for 40 years. Never met another couple, whether on meets, parties or groups, that used condoms. We started while still in Africa, never saw her with anyone using a condom. Looking back now do you think it was irresponsible?" Any random sex is irresponsible if you pick at it. So many things we do in life is irresponsible. Would I change it, no way at all. | |||
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"We prefer bb and have never encountered any issues playing that way in clubs. I struggle to understand how a club could actually enforce a bb ban? " We are a bare couple too and our profile states that, however we still get some surprised when we tell them bb only | |||
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"Hi xxx, I have been looking at the pictures in Fabs and I see bareback sex is quite common with black guys and it seems many women love it. What do the ladies and couples love mostly?? Is it bareback with creampies or safe sex?? How is it in Club setups? Some clubs in Europe would not allow BB sex at all. I have had mostly safe sex and BB very few times.. Would love to hear your opinions. Let us not be Judgmental about preferences of others "The Ex wife and I started when we were in the southern end of Africa. Never met a black guy willing to use a condom and it suited us. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple she enjoys playing with guys bare and natural, for me as a cuck there’s nothing better than having watched her be fucked and satisfied, the guy withdrawing and his cum leaking out her pussy, especially a BBC where there is that colour contrast. " We are very similar to yourselves Just make sure no alcohol is involved, we stupidly mixed drinks and sex for a full week in Lanzarote and my wife forgot to take her pill on a number of days due to too much wine and gin. We now have a mixed race son, due to a few nights of foolish fun | |||
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"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm." agree with this. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple she enjoys playing with guys bare and natural, for me as a cuck there’s nothing better than having watched her be fucked and satisfied, the guy withdrawing and his cum leaking out her pussy, especially a BBC where there is that colour contrast. " Absolutely agree to this | |||
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"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm.agree with this." Sounds fabulous but getting 6 sounds impossible  | |||
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"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm.agree with this. Sounds fabulous but getting 6 sounds impossible "That was in the days we were in Africa. Plenty of them out there. We were also part of a secret group of whites that loved black cock, so plenty of opportunity there. | |||
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"There’s a large number of couples who seem to have little care about sexual health. Almost every message I receive from a couple mentions bareback and a direct offer to meet without even seeing my face, asking me any questions about myself etc. Pretty shocking. That’s why I hardly meet anyone now. My health is important to me " There are also a large number of people on fab who naively believe that condoms provide a kind of all around force field. Total immunity. Regardless of how haphazardly the condom is used. On the other hand bareback couples often only meet people with recent verifiable std checks and get them regularly themselves. Neither provides a 100% guarantee of safety but the safety line is just drawn differently. I will accept criticism from a person in a monogamous relationship but find it insufferable from another swinger. | |||
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"There’s a large number of couples who seem to have little care about sexual health. Almost every message I receive from a couple mentions bareback and a direct offer to meet without even seeing my face, asking me any questions about myself etc. Pretty shocking. That’s why I hardly meet anyone now. My health is important to me There are also a large number of people on fab who naively believe that condoms provide a kind of all around force field. Total immunity. Regardless of how haphazardly the condom is used. On the other hand bareback couples often only meet people with recent verifiable std checks and get them regularly themselves. Neither provides a 100% guarantee of safety but the safety line is just drawn differently. I will accept criticism from a person in a monogamous relationship but find it insufferable from another swinger." I agree. I find people that play raw get tested more and more than happy to share recs TS test Vs people that use condoms and when I ask for a test, it's always a struggle. I have my next round this Monday and always show off when talking | |||
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"There’s a large number of couples who seem to have little care about sexual health. Almost every message I receive from a couple mentions bareback and a direct offer to meet without even seeing my face, asking me any questions about myself etc. Pretty shocking. That’s why I hardly meet anyone now. My health is important to me " After reading your profile you state your looking for any couple... We are the opposite, we first built Trust and friendship then eventually protected sex, and continue seeing and building trust, so that we can enjoy unprotected sex knowing they only see us, and we only see them Trust, and friendship allows this, rather than a one off meet with someone you just pull out of a hat. | |||
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"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe' "I totally agree ! I only do oral w/o and swallow for men we know and trust - the list is very short 😂 Otherwise it’s protected too. | |||
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"We have alternated down the years. When I could get pregnant always safe sex. Then went thru a period if BB and guys cumming in me -what woman doesn’t prefer that ! But eventually went back to safe sex coz of the stress of chasing guys for current - not historic ! - STD tests So now, much as I prefer everything about BB sex, we always use condoms. Although they are the thinnest I can find to make it feel as natural as possible. I would rather have sex for years with condoms than catch something and have to go through all the stress of treatments etc As for blk guys - yes my preference is sex with blk guys thru choice. Lots of reasons inc the so-called urban myth - which the ladies here could confirm or otherwise lol Interestingly I have found blk guys cum tastes sweeter somehow and is much nicer to swallow as a result - another reason for my preference I guess Em x " Thanks for the appreciation of taste of black cum | |||
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"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe' "You’re much less likely to catch something from oral though. | |||
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"Agreed that probably everyone would ideally prefer BB, but only if you were assured that participants are clean." I think that we need to stop referring to clear of STIs as "clean" Get checked, treatment for anything that is needed. Take responsibility for our sexual health. It is not somehow unclean,dirty or clean. | |||
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"Nothing better than watching your wife with 5 or 6 black men taking turns at your wife. Glistening wet cocks giving your wife orgasm after orgasm." Longing to find a wife to live this lifestyle with. So hot. | |||
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"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe'
You’re much less likely to catch something from oral though. "Some of us use condoms for oral too  (clubs only gal).
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You have to grin when reading some of the comments. The ignorance of the subject on STI's is fascinating albeit very worrying.
There is only ONE safe sex act and that is one partner and no others. Even for those who suggest condoms for oral as well | |||
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You have to grin when reading some of the comments. The ignorance of the subject on STI's is fascinating albeit very worrying.
There is only ONE safe sex act and that is one partner and no others. Even for those who suggest condoms for oral as well "Hence I said “safer” and not safe
It’s worrying you think 1 partner is a safe sex act given you can’t 100% control their behaviour
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"Hello everyone: Having being involved with a sexual health charity on a voluntary basis (with no racial bias) BB sex has risks regardless of colour or race. At the time (20 years ago) Men from sub-saharan Africa had the highest HIV transmission rates and were thought to be the highest risk group. Quite clearly with mass immigration amongst other factors since then; things have changed but the stigma clearly has not. Regardless of the colour of someones skin-Play safe xx" Then practice what you preach Barebacking some woman on your profile??? Fcks sake. | |||
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"The ex and I joined a club while in Oz. Strange set up as they said they run on a few very strict rules. 1: Club meets at various houses was only for meeting each other, no sex only meet and arrange for later. 2: No BB sex. (We had been told it wasn't checked so BB was normal) 3: No one was allowed to talk to another mans wife without the express permission from her husband. The meets were set up so the men were always naked and the women were dressed sexy/slutty. Half way through the night, the ex had gone into the lounge where there were some sitting around watching porn on a TV. I was outside talking with a couple and some woman came out and told me the club chairman and another man were chatting up my wife in the lounge without asking me first. So I went in for a look and they were both standing on either side of her with their hands up her skirt and she had hold of their cocks. When they saw me walk in they both quickly removed their hands and pretended not to be guilty lol. I walked over to them and said, you might want to be a bit discreet as someone had reported it to me and I walked back outside. The couple asked me what had happened so told them and they said, they have probably gone into one of the bedrooms and should we go spy on them. They took me round the back of the house and peeped through one of the bedroom window to see the 2 of them doing the ex BB. Both I and the other husband got hard watching so his wife bent over to be spit roasted by us while watching my ex being fucked. "love reading this. group sex and watching others is hot | |||
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"what ever the colour its condoms for us" Indeed. And flavoured condoms are all different colours so you can have whatever colour cock you fancy. Even match it with your outfit. Green or blue perhaps!😂 Of course, we all prefer the feel of BB but for us the risk far outweighs the reward. | |||
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"what ever the colour its condoms for us Indeed. And flavoured condoms are all different colours so you can have whatever colour cock you fancy. Even match it with your outfit. Green or blue perhaps!😂 Of course, we all prefer the feel of BB but for us the risk far outweighs the reward. " Never thought of that -I use them too. Flavours soon wear off tho lol | |||
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"I don’t know why people risk getting a sti. I’ve been turned away because I insist on safe sex with anyone other than my partner. No one likes condoms, I get that but it’s not worth the risk. " Condoms are not going to stop you from getting all STIs. It's not safe sex. It is just safer. Regular full testing at your sexual health clinic is better to be doing than just relying on a condom. | |||
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"So many turn a blind eye to the fact you can catch and spread most diseases from oral alone, yet think wearing condoms is 'safe' "Which is why, regrettably, I use (flavoured) condoms for oral sex too, although I would much rather not for that either. Even so, I still get tested regularly. | |||
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"I don’t know why people risk getting a sti. I’ve been turned away because I insist on safe sex with anyone other than my partner. No one likes condoms, I get that but it’s not worth the risk. Condoms are not going to stop you from getting all STIs. It's not safe sex. It is just safer. Regular full testing at your sexual health clinic is better to be doing than just relying on a condom." But testing doesn’t stop you getting anything at all, just tells you when you already have it! Condoms are not 100% safe, but do usually stop most things. I do both. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple she enjoys playing with guys bare and natural, for me as a cuck there’s nothing better than having watched her be fucked and satisfied, the guy withdrawing and his cum leaking out her pussy, especially a BBC where there is that colour contrast. Absolutely agree to this " Thank you. | |||
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"I only fuck black guys and only bare " My girl | |||
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"I will admit that like all women, I prefer bard and a guy cumming inside me but only do safe unless we really know a guy well. BB is so much nicer but safe means I get laid much more often which is why we are here tbh ! But for last few years we have only had meets for me to have sex with blk guys - which is now my preference Em x " That can be the experience tyat a lot of women prefer, black guys, my hotwife especially likes the toned bodies of younger black guys. | |||
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"I only have one bareback partner at a time. It's usually someone long term. The sexual health clinics that I've been to in London advise condoms. I tend to follow medical advice. In my poly pod of swingers- all Londoners, we've had gonorrhea, HPV and HSV positives. Mainly through oral. I tend not to have bareback gangbangs with BBC. Black Caribbean people (my ethnic group) in London/South east have the highest positives- source: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/sexually-transmitted-infections-south-east-data/spotlight-on-sexually-transmitted-infections-in-the-south-east-2022-data#:~:text=Figure%207.,in%20the%20South%20East%2C%202022&text=Figure%207%20is%20a%20bar,groups%20(425%20per%20100%2C000). ""Figure 7 is a bar chart showing rates by ethnic group per 100,000 population of South East residents diagnosed with the new STI in 2022. It shows the rate of new STIs is significantly higher among the black Caribbean ethnic group (1,428 per 100,000) and the black African ethnic group (1,085 per 100,000) compared to the white (393 per 100,000) and other ethnic groups (425 per 100,000)."" Get tested regularly as we as swingers are a high risk group. Oral, Penile, Vaginal and Anal. Monthly if super active. Porn stars run test every 2 weeks. Certain exclusive sex parties in London do onsite instant testing even if you use condoms. Get vaccinations and Prep if you can. The rest is up to you. " Thank you; an intelligent, well informed, reasonable, and articulate comment for a change!😘 | |||
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"The colour of the Cock is irrelevant - just saying "Saying 'just saying' doesn't alter the fact that is relevant for the people to whom it is relevant. Maybe not particularly for you and others for whom it is not relevant. Those who only want black cock do so because that is what they want and for them it is relevant. Just saying (for the sake of logical argument)! | |||
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"No one plays it safe… delusional if you think you are. if you suck it, lick it or kiss it you’ve a chance of picking up something a sti check is only at good between the time of screening and the next encounter who’s playing the exact same rule. Oh yeah maybe on webcam but you’ve gotta make sure you don’t do yourself a mischief " Agreed
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"No one plays it safe… delusional if you think you are. if you suck it, lick it or kiss it you’ve a chance of picking up something a sti check is only at good between the time of screening and the next encounter who’s playing the exact same rule. Oh yeah maybe on webcam but you’ve gotta make sure you don’t do yourself a mischief
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But it is for each person to weigh up the risks for themselves as how far they go. In the 40 plus years the Ex wife and I played around, we rarely met other couples who used condoms."So you keep telling us. I'm sure the stories about barebacking in Africa at the height of the HIV epidemic sound cool in your head, but it portrays you as being dangerously reckless. You can post all the cherry picked stars you like, but having unprotected sex with total strangers is Russian Roulette pure and simple. | |||
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"No one plays it safe… delusional if you think you are. if you suck it, lick it or kiss it you’ve a chance of picking up something a sti check is only at good between the time of screening and the next encounter who’s playing the exact same rule. Oh yeah maybe on webcam but you’ve gotta make sure you don’t do yourself a mischief
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But it is for each person to weigh up the risks for themselves as how far they go. In the 40 plus years the Ex wife and I played around, we rarely met other couples who used condoms.
So you keep telling us. I'm sure the stories about barebacking in Africa at the height of the HIV epidemic sound cool in your head, but it portrays you as being dangerously reckless. You can post all the cherry picked stars you like, but having unprotected sex with total strangers is Russian Roulette pure and simple."In your eyes and your opinion. Let people have their own opinions without you making the whole situation feel bad for everyone | |||
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"No one plays it safe… delusional if you think you are. if you suck it, lick it or kiss it you’ve a chance of picking up something a sti check is only at good between the time of screening and the next encounter who’s playing the exact same rule. Oh yeah maybe on webcam but you’ve gotta make sure you don’t do yourself a mischief
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But it is for each person to weigh up the risks for themselves as how far they go. In the 40 plus years the Ex wife and I played around, we rarely met other couples who used condoms.
So you keep telling us. I'm sure the stories about barebacking in Africa at the height of the HIV epidemic sound cool in your head, but it portrays you as being dangerously reckless. You can post all the cherry picked stars you like, but having unprotected sex with total strangers is Russian Roulette pure and simple.
In your eyes and your opinion. Let people have their own opinions without you making the whole situation feel bad for everyone"This is a prime example of a generational and cultural Gap. I grew up in a time when Barbados had the highest Hiv and Aids Rate in the Caribbean. It was scary and controversial as hell. The government has a massive battle on its hands between the barebackers and the far right religious fundamentalists. Neither wanted to listen to the government statistics about condom wearing. The barebackers didn't want to use condoms, and the religious fanati.....fundamentalists wanted everyone to abstain. Both unrealistic for the majority of the population. Well eventually, when both parents to all the children started dying is when they both relented and changed their opinion/belief/preference and the government started handing out free condoms widespread and the rate dropped. It's never a problem to most people unless they are directly affected. I was in secondary school when we met a couple dying of Aids in the 90s. A black married man and woman and the husband was fond of barebacking. I couldn't imagine as a kid both my parents dying and those parents told us that their children would be orphans soon enough. I care about my partners and their wives and their children. Just because some people only care about their pleasure doesn't mean that things cannot go catastrophically wrong with barebacking multiple people or in some cases just one person. I watched a documentary recently about Daryll Rowe and the impact he had on all the gay men he barebacked knowing that he had HIV and that his viral load was high. There are some who don't know and then they are some who intentionally want to infect unsuspecting barebackers as a way of getting their own control and power back. Most of the barebackers I've met in the swinging world generally have been straight or gay white British men who are Boomers or older GEN X born 1946-1973 which is a certain level of privilege for that cohort. Millennials Born from 1980 and Gen Z born from 1997 are less about that bareback high-risk life. Most of the black men I've met in the swinger clubs and the vanilla world never bareback in the UK and Barbados But I don't go to specific bareback nights/private parties. South Africa still has the highest number of people living with HIV/AIDS, 9 million. Cultural attitudes to sex matter based on statistics. Barbados changed its attitude and now has one of the lowest number of people living with HIV/AIDS: 2100. The UK population is 116,000. Consider that all the other STIs and STDS are more common than HIV/AIDS in the UK population. I mean if you like taking antibiotics all the time... I don't as it's against medical advice, because then when you really need the antibiotics, they don't work. Medical Advice is also an opinion too. | |||
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"I only fuck black guys and only bare My girl" Lucky you | |||
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"Must be a massive number in the cylinder with the Ex wife then. She only did BB and most were with strangers for 40+ years. The worst she got was Chlamydia, does that count?" How did you find out she had it? Did you, one morning, wake up and say "You feel a bit clammy, dear"? | |||
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"When you have sex for the first time with your partner, you don't know each other. When you have casual sex with a friend or a friend of a friend, neither. When your partner is fucking with someone else (wether you know or not) you won't never be a 100% sure. Therefore, just try to have a good hygiene and be tested regularly. You wouldn't eat something rotten or with mould, right?" If the hunger imperative was as desperate as the Fab sex drive, people would probably eat anything! | |||
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"Hi xxx, I have been looking at the pictures in Fabs and I see bareback sex is quite common with black guys and it seems many women love it. What do the ladies and couples love mostly?? Is it bareback with creampies or safe sex?? How is it in Club setups? Some clubs in Europe would not allow BB sex at all. I have had mostly safe sex and BB very few times.. Would love to hear your opinions. Let us not be Judgmental about preferences of others "The name of my Estate Agents! | |||
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"I’ve found myself more and more recently wanting to try this. Sadly fab seems to suggest all black guys just pound the hell out of someone - with their socks on - and think that’s great sex!" 😂😂😂😂 | |||
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"We love playing bare with black guys we know, wife loves the feeling and cuck loves the cleanup" My wife's the same Roll on Manchester 3rd, 4th and 5th July, 3 night hotel stay and hopefully my wife will get all the Black cocks she needs | |||
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"We have alternated down the years. When I could get pregnant always safe sex. Then went thru a period if BB and guys cumming in me -what woman doesn’t prefer that ! But eventually went back to safe sex coz of the stress of chasing guys for current - not historic ! - STD tests So now, much as I prefer everything about BB sex, we always use condoms. Although they are the thinnest I can find to make it feel as natural as possible. I would rather have sex for years with condoms than catch something and have to go through all the stress of treatments etc As for blk guys - yes my preference is sex with blk guys thru choice. Lots of reasons inc the so-called urban myth - which the ladies here could confirm or otherwise lol Interestingly I have found blk guys cum tastes sweeter somehow and is much nicer to swallow as a result - another reason for my preference I guess Em x Thanks for the appreciation of taste of black cum" | |||
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"We love playing bare with black guys we know, wife loves the feeling and cuck loves the cleanup" Same for us, as a cuck I do love the clean up ! | |||
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"I don’t get it. White woman love black cock. Yet they marry white guys. Then go searching for black cock. Why not marry a black guy in the first place. " You’re assuming people always marry their cravings instead of their comfort 😄. Marriage guarantees a ring, not necessarily an orgasm 😄 | |||
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"I will admit that like all women, I prefer bard and a guy cumming inside me but only do safe unless we really know a guy well. BB is so much nicer but safe means I get laid much more often which is why we are here tbh ! But for last few years we have only had meets for me to have sex with blk guys - which is now my preference Em x " You have stated twice in this thread that all women prefer bb and feeling someone cum inside them. This is simply not true. Speak on your own preferences and don’t be misleading. I don’t want jizz anywhere near me. I don’t want the risk of pregnancy, I don’t want the risk of STIs and I don’t like the texture, the stickiness. I understand it’s a biological necessity to the male orgasm but it is a massive drawback for me in having sex with men, which I otherwise very much enjoy. I had exclusively safe sex (condom use) with my ex-husband whom I lost my virginity to until we wanted to try for a baby. Condoms are not a big deal. It feels so juvenile for people to be arguing about what a mood killer they are because barrier methods when used correctly massively lower the risks. One thing I’ve learnt on here is that lots of people are massive liars. I have combatted this by abstaining from sex altogether and relying on my toys for my sexual desires. With discussions like this, I don’t see that changing any time soon. My view is that condoms should be the rule, not the exception when having casual sex. It’s madness to me that people would behave otherwise. | |||
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"I will admit that like all women, I prefer bard and a guy cumming inside me but only do safe unless we really know a guy well. BB is so much nicer but safe means I get laid much more often which is why we are here tbh ! But for last few years we have only had meets for me to have sex with blk guys - which is now my preference Em x You have stated twice in this thread that all women prefer bb and feeling someone cum inside them. This is simply not true. Speak on your own preferences and don’t be misleading. I don’t want jizz anywhere near me. I don’t want the risk of pregnancy, I don’t want the risk of STIs and I don’t like the texture, the stickiness. I understand it’s a biological necessity to the male orgasm but it is a massive drawback for me in having sex with men, which I otherwise very much enjoy. I had exclusively safe sex (condom use) with my ex-husband whom I lost my virginity to until we wanted to try for a baby. Condoms are not a big deal. It feels so juvenile for people to be arguing about what a mood killer they are because barrier methods when used correctly massively lower the risks. One thing I’ve learnt on here is that lots of people are massive liars. I have combatted this by abstaining from sex altogether and relying on my toys for my sexual desires. With discussions like this, I don’t see that changing any time soon. My view is that condoms should be the rule, not the exception when having casual sex. It’s madness to me that people would behave otherwise. " All too true!😘 | |||
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"BB Preferred for me too " We learned the hard way that bb and consumption of alcohol is high risk. 9 months later we had an addition to our family due to forgetting to take pill on a number of days. | |||
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