FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help

By *aughtyvibes76 OP Man
19 weeks ago

Near you

Is there anything I can do to my profile to help get more replies? Or is it just a case of you ladies getting too many messages to answer them all?

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By *a LunaWoman
19 weeks ago

Wales

I think the text is ok, you might want to change the dick pics up a bit? Some prefer to see clothed pics. One or two dick pics is alright but other than that it could get a bit samey?

I think you also need to just have patience. Attend a few socials or clubs in your area, if you can, and see how you go. Sometimes it can take ages to get a meet, it’s not a reflection on you just that men outweigh women on here by quite some margin.

Good luck and persevere!

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
19 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

As well as the dick pics, you are only looking for 18-99 year old women and have one veri from 3 years ago.

Clubs or socials are probably your best bet as Luna mentioned.

Best of luck OP

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Bristol

Ditch the dick pics

Ladies don't like them.

Show off your body, wear nice clothes.

Be suggestive and saucey and funny

Women love cake as well.

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Cheshire

When we first started, we read loads of profiles, of all persuasions. It really helped us pick up tips. You can see the successful ones if you really drill into them. Things like a balanced number of veris over a reasonable time frame is useful to look at.

And of course, there's no point in doing that unless you apply the tips you pick up directly to your profile. Keep updating, refreshing & adding.

Ours is probably a bit long-winded, but there are 2 of us & we both have things to say about what we'd like & our values.

One other thing. Do you have a superpower? A friend of ours has a massive thing he offers, no not the obvious, but a skill in a certain type of massage. Don't claim you have it if you don't, though. It's embarrassing to be found out when you meet someone.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
19 weeks ago

Tamworth

Are you using your profile to tell people what you’re looking for and what you offer? This is how people will gauge compatibility and decide whether or not to reply.

Don’t be side tracked by the ‘so many messages’ argument. We spot the good messages from potentially compatible people. Everyone will have a filter that helps them narrow things down - for example I instantly delete anything I can read without opening it (good morning, hi etc.). Others will delete messages from people with cock profile photos or silhouettes and so on.

Focus on what you can control, which is how well you sell yourself.

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By *ortheastguy99Man
19 weeks ago

Sunderland

I agree have only been back on fab for a few months after several years away and I got a meeting last sat but when I was last on I think it took about 6 months before I got a meet, the problem is if you don't get a meet you cannot get a verification and for very good and obvious reasons many ladies will not meet or even accept messages from guys who have not been varied.

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By *ungle JesusMan
19 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Ditch the dick pics

Ladies don't like them.

Show off your body, wear nice clothes.

Be suggestive and saucey and funny

Women love cake as well."

So all this time I should have been offering cake too? 🙄

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Are you using your profile to tell people what you’re looking for and what you offer? This is how people will gauge compatibility and decide whether or not to reply.

Focus on what you can control, which is how well you sell yourself. "

Never a truer word said 👏

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By *aughtyvibes76 OP Man
19 weeks ago

Near you

Thanks for all the help people, I've ditched the dick pics and will look to add more body and clothed pics soon. As for only having 1 veri from 3 years ago I can't get any new veris if I don't get any replies to messages but I will try harder, thanks again

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By *ML49Man
19 weeks ago

north west

"Is there anything I can do to my profile to help get more replies? Or is it just a case of you ladies getting too many messages to answer them all?"

Open another account so you can feel what its like to receive a message. Failing that just send a message to yourself via your profile.

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
19 weeks ago

London - South East and West

You say you are looking to meet people with a similar mindset, but don't say what that is....

Mrs DD

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