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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This topic may have done to death so we do apologise in advance but we have been looking for a single straight or play straight female to join us for quite some time now and have had no luck at all. We would really welcome any advice in how to find someone please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't actually say you would really like to find a single female. Maybe if you gave a hint of what role the straight single female would have. If she isn't bi, she won't be playing with the lady........are you wanting to watch her have sex with your man while you watch etc ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're looking to meet a single female as a couple, wouldn't it be a good idea to have a few pics of the male half on your profile too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never ceases to amaze me the amount of couples who just think single bi fems are on here to satisfy their needs. I speak for many when I say I'm not interested in making your partners birthday fantasy a reality!

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It would be primarily a threesome but with both women giving more attention to him. We have had MMF many times but I would like to try him being the centre of attention for a change. I understand that this can be seen as every mans dream so hope it doesn't come across as conceited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It never ceases to amaze me the amount of couples who just think single bi fems are on here to satisfy their needs. I speak for many when I say I'm not interested in making your partners birthday fantasy a reality!

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

They are looking for a single straight girlie, hence I was asking what role a single straight woman would play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi"

Soooooooooooooo, what ya gonna do with a single straight girlie then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi"

Shuffles off into the corner , anyone wanna join me ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spoil him for a change, but this topic seems to always cause some controversy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet with a couple with a straight fem most bi women wont,the whole point of meeting couples for women is they get the best of both and straight women tend to only meet men.

Good luck with that one but as someone else said...most will just think its to play out his fantasy and pass you by

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you're looking to meet a single female as a couple, wouldn't it be a good idea to have a few pics of the male half on your profile too?"

Agreed, yes..we have private face pics of us both but I see your point, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would never meet with a couple with a straight fem most bi women wont,the whole point of meeting couples for women is they get the best of both and straight women tend to only meet men.

Good luck with that one but as someone else said...most will just think its to play out his fantasy and pass you by"

I completely understand that and thank you but I am able to play out my fantasies of being with him and multiple guys...just curious as to why is it frowned upon the other way round?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno i just guess for guys the thought of other men being there does nothing for them if straight...and a male friend of mine said its just sex and doesnt matter how many guys are there so long as they do the deed.

For a woman if they want sex they can get it so easy so would choose what does it for them and in a straight womans case that would be one or more men not a man and a woman and hence why most couples meet bi women and straight couples meet other straight couples i would say so there is something for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

Soooooooooooooo, what ya gonna do with a single straight girlie then ?

The same as a straight mmf I expect,its not unheard of to have an ffm with the guy being the complete centre of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

Soooooooooooooo, what ya gonna do with a single straight girlie then ?

The same as a straight mmf I expect,its not unheard of to have an ffm with the guy being the complete centre of attention

I realise the ffm bit, I have done it myself in the past as a straight single female. I was trying to point out to the op that it would be good if they put on their profile, what they wanted from a single straight female

but they ignored me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

Soooooooooooooo, what ya gonna do with a single straight girlie then ?

The same as a straight mmf I expect,its not unheard of to have an ffm with the guy being the complete centre of attention

Exactly

maybe not unheard of but definitely difficult to arrange!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

Soooooooooooooo, what ya gonna do with a single straight girlie then ?

The same as a straight mmf I expect,its not unheard of to have an ffm with the guy being the complete centre of attention

but they ignored me

Sorry, not ignoring you and will add it to our profile and keep hoping ... thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty single Bi Females on here we have met few ... be genuing guys none pushy these girls aint daft they can see straight through u couples hubbys fantasy .... x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Our advice would be to find what you are looking for is going to be very very tough on the Internet.... As you have found.

Get out in the real world and start visiting some clubs. There are no expectations so you don't ever 'have' to play. But talking to a woman face to face you know she is genuine, she knows you are genuine. Much more chance of success...

Still gonna be hard to find what you are after though we think.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep..more pics of partner needed to attract other fems x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our advice would be to find what you are looking for is going to be very very tough on the Internet.... As you have found.

Still gonna be hard to find what you are after though we think."

Thank you, we have been to parties and clubs so some more socializing may be in order

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Your most welcome.

Which clubs have you tried?

We have been to Vanilla Alternatives a few times and absolutely love it there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep..more pics of partner needed to attract other fems x"

On my 'to do' list ... thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if your'e not looking for bi ladies at all it might be an idea to take off the bi friendly and curious bit as if you are looking for a threesome that may attract more bi fems then straight ones.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe one of the problems is that although it's quite easy for one woman to engage with two straight men (spitroast anyone?)

it's not so easy in a ffm situation if the women are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what's so bad about letting someone act out a fantasy???

At the end of the day, if there was no fantasy involved in any way, shape or form, then sex would be very boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see what's so bad about letting someone act out a fantasy???

At the end of the day, if there was no fantasy involved in any way, shape or form, then sex would be very boring."

Its not so much the fantasy being a problem,but ive been in situations where its plain its all for the guy and the woman is uncomfortable and it makes it awkward...also when there is only interaction between one party to another you can feel a bit of a spare part and why go for 50% attention during a meet when you can get a guy and have 100%

Like someone said its probably not impossible and probably going to be a club situation rather than on here but these are all little things that i think will hinder the chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a former single lady my advice would be more pics of Mr and try a club or social so that ladies can get to know you first and feel comfortable. It can be quite intimidating meeting a couple you don't know. I've done this before and it's great fun spoiling the guy. Good luck. Ms

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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I have read this thread with great interest and am impressed by the way all answers were dealt with by the OP; respectful, understanding and polite. I am bi (and wearing a silly hat I know) but I have in the past had FFM where although the F was straight, she was happy enough to receive some oral attention, which made for an enjoyable time for all. The M was particularly aroused to see me with his partner - I am sure he felt all the attention and pleasure was his. In the same way a bi man will be able to play straight in certain situations, so can a bi woman.

Your pics are gorgeous and it would indeed be great to have a couple of nice sexy and sensual shots of Clyde.

Xx Bambi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you Bambi I really appreciate your comments...and the advice given by everyone who's responded, cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe one of the problems is that although it's quite easy for one woman to engage with two straight men (spitroast anyone?)

it's not so easy in a ffm situation if the women are straight. "

until recently all my experiences were with straight women and me not touching them. It was great..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see what's so bad about letting someone act out a fantasy???

At the end of the day, if there was no fantasy involved in any way, shape or form, then sex would be very boring.

Like someone said its probably not impossible and probably going to be a club situation rather than on here but these are all little things that i think will hinder the chances "

I could maybe understand that if it was the male half on here and just bringing another female home, but this is the female half putting in all the leg work, so I think her being uncomfy would be out of the question.

FFM doesn't have to involve everyone having a bit of the pie (for want of a better phrase), and I'm sure it'd be just as good for two women to share a man.

I'm not trying to be awkward or difficult, I just don't understand/agree with a lot of the rational on here, or anywhere come to think of it. Then again, I think I just like to go against the grain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Steve, that was pretty much my way of thinking too but it may seem we're on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to play devils advocate too...

Would a bi female not feel like she just putting on a show for the males benefit?

There's going to be little scenarios in every way you look at it. Why not just forget about the what if's and just get on with things and just have fun. Far too many negative/stuck up people in this world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Steve, that was pretty much my way of thinking too but it may seem we're on our own

your not. I love sharing a guy.. it's great to pleasure a man between two.. sometimes 3 women.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As a single straight female, I can honestly say that there would be no appeal for me, I'm finding it hard for a decent one on one, never mind taking a back seat during a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to find a single male that can keep up with me (my sexuality to one side) so a single man that can genuinely keep up with 2 women

Play straight??? No as a bi female I have too play with both

or I turn a funny colour and eventually become transparent or something

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"I've yet to find a single male that can keep up with me (my sexuality to one side) so a single man that can genuinely keep up with 2 women

Play straight??? No as a bi female I have too play with both

or I turn a funny colour and eventually become transparent or something

You could never vanish in the ackground sexy lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've yet to find a single male that can keep up with me (my sexuality to one side) so a single man that can genuinely keep up with 2 women

Play straight??? No as a bi female I have too play with both

or I turn a funny colour and eventually become transparent or something

You could never vanish in the ackground sexy lady!

Arr thank you

Text me re chams a week on Monday if you fancy a trip?

Im sure foxy will enjoy the place a little quieter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks Steve, that was pretty much my way of thinking too but it may seem we're on our own

your not. I love sharing a guy.. it's great to pleasure a man between two.. sometimes 3 women. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no pics of male half on profile = less interest from any straight fems...

I thought that would be pretty logical to anyone really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

Shuffles off into the corner , anyone wanna join me ?!

Im with you sista!! and agree 100% xxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im a straight female and have happily helped couples who wanted this....

But only at my local "cub" in a private room......would never go out my way to meet them alone....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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It is unfortunate that 2 days into this thread it has become yet another one where advice is given, agreed by OP and totally ignored.

So, at the risk of repeating something that has been said earlier, if you want to attract straight women take and add pics of the MALE in your public library x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's being done Bambi, camera poised and ready this weekend

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Some bi fems are only interested in meeting genuine bi fems!

I've not said i'm looking for a bi fem nor am I bi

Soooooooooooooo, what ya gonna do with a single straight girlie then ?

To use a common label here, I'm straight but that doesn't mean I recoil in horror and disgust at a womans naked body. My profile says 'situationally bi' because I have indulged in the past in soft play with a woman and liked it.

It does not make me bi or straight, it just means that in a MFF scenario,we all get to enjoy ourselves.

I like being naked with other naked people and I dislike being labelled.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"It's being done Bambi, camera poised and ready this weekend

Ah! Ok! Sorry...just me being impatient to see your man xx if he is as gorjus and sexy as you, you should find someone with hopefully more ease xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just put up some pics of me now...god I hate having my picture taken but took the advice given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just put up some pics of me now...god I hate having my picture taken but took the advice given

no thanks..the female halfd pics kept me hard

thanks

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Just put up some pics of me now...god I hate having my picture taken but took the advice given

Mister is hot! well worth the wait xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just put up some pics of me now...god I hate having my picture taken but took

the advice given

And lovely pics they are too

Good Luck in your search x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh thanks Bambi

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Ahh thanks Bambi

Lovely pics indeed...you're just so far away!! *sigh*

I am confident you will find what/who you are looking for...

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