FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on my profile

By *heHornySpark28 OP Man
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

Coming into the new year I’m hoping I can spruce up my profile or even change it as not having much luck understand it’s a male dominated website with a big ratio difference so needing some tips on how to stand out and anything I should add or change on my profile to help that

thanks for the advice fabbing

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Actually not a bad profile & refreshing to see you aren't just a "dick"

Mrs

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By *harAndBryCouple
20 weeks ago

Downham Market

Profile pic (the last pic in your gallery) isn't the best and looks a bit like someone asked for a pic while you were in the car, and your text could use a little clean up with grammar.

Biggest red flag for us would the the desire to take a conversation off site. We find that generally means is getting bombarded with "what you doing?" messages and questions on how naughty we've been. Then when someone doesn't show up for a meet we can't report it as there's no message history for admin to refer to.

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By *heHornySpark28 OP Man
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

All advice taken onboard, but as for the taking the conversation off sites more just been for the reason that most of the women I’ve spoken to on here or try having a conversation with is getting sent 100 messages at once from men so a lot of the time my conversations just gets lost in there with the rest even when we’re mid conversation that’s all

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

I've never felt the need to take the conversation off site.

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
20 weeks ago

Barnsley

If we like someone we also like to take the messaging off site. So much easier to use telegram and create a group chat

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By *aandLoCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

Really nice start on the bio.

Maybe highlight your personal qualities more in a way that would draw us to you, rather than another guy.

You've got a great build, you're tall and come over as confident, but not arrogant. Sell it!

And please for the love of Fab use punctuation. L x 😘

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Grammar is a big one for profiles, although I don’t struggle with it and accept it’s not everyone’s forte. I’ve taken advice on my profile, and I think it’s ok, however still open to suggestions.

Sell yourself, be confident and see where it goes. It’s a waiting game so keep updating your status and someone will notice.

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By *egnMaxCouple
19 weeks ago

East Midlands

"If we like someone we also like to take the messaging off site. So much easier to use telegram and create a group chat"

As a couple, this works for us too, but only if everyone is ok with it. It’s so much clearer to see who is messaging who.

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By *una_RaineCouple
19 weeks ago

worcester

For us we get a lot of men messaging us even though we aren’t actively looking for single men, but I get it on my solo profile too.

A lot of men don’t read my bio, which is obvious in the first message because I have a code phrase, secondly I want a recent photo of a face which again a lot of men don’t do, it’s nothing or dick pics -.-

For messaging wise, men that stand out to me are one that asks me questions about us/myself, tells me they are interested, one that makes the effort talking to my partner too

And I’d actually appreciate it if a man asks to buy us a drink at a pub for a social. It shows you are making an effort, it’s a green flag you want to meet first rather than expecting play.

Respect for my partner is definitely extremely important, he’s not a cuck and doesn’t get off to bulls messaging telling me how much they want to fuck me (his mrs)

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