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By *ength300 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Whitton

Happy new year everyone...This year i was thinking of hitting a few swingers clubs and parties. I have never been, what shall i expect?

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Happy new year op.

At a club, simple answer expect nothing. Go and chat to people , be friendly, respectful and treat it as a night out and you may catch someone's eye.

My advice would be to research the club you're looking to attend, for their rules/etiquette before you go ie dress code.

Parties I don't know, they're not My thing tbh.I've seen a few where it's expected everyone plays at them. Maybe look at any events advertised in your area and contact the organisers to see if they can tell you how their events pan out etc.

Have fun.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

People usually need to get themselves known at clubs before they get party invitations.

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By *weetpea_123Couple
20 weeks ago

lancs

Advice from a couple about clubs

Go and introduce yourself to people and be friendly kind and respectful.

Our biggest problem in clubs especially with single men is they don’t talk to you or approach you in a friendly manner and it makes it difficult to find the good males

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By *asual ConnectionMan
20 weeks ago

Chester

As a relative newbie myself, this sounds very good advice.

Will attempt to do this myself, although I am shy in that sort of environment.

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By *weetpea_123Couple
20 weeks ago

lancs

Everyone has the same interest in a club, get a couple of drinks in you try talking to others men game of pool if they have on

Most people are friendly

Hope you have some luck

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By *orthernJayMan
20 weeks ago

Hyde

Are you comfortable and confident to walk into any bar, anywhere, and strike up a conversation with strangers; if the answer is no or you’re not sure then don’t waste your time and indeed significant money at a club.

Practice interacting with strangers for no other reason than gaining confidence before going anywhere near a club. They can be hostile environments for guys who lack confidence or have dysmorphic opinions of themselves so be prepared to be ignored and not let it bother you.

Golden rule, have zero expectations, simply enjoy the meet & greet and the environment; anything else is a bonus; and “no” really does mean “NO”

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
20 weeks ago

Essex

Some really good advice here all we will add is smile, the amount of guys who just stony face stare and it’s off putting. If you see someone you like smile and say hello

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