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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
31 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Hubby is wanting to try more anal play and happy to oblige however he is very very tight 😂 Lucky him! Any recommendations for lubes and creams that will relax his bottom a bit: and if anyone has any anal toy recommendations fire away!

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By *lenderfoxMan
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I highly recommend Liquid Silk, it's far better than any other lube i've used

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By *eadyPlayerOneMan
31 weeks ago

Loughton

Pjur back door it’s silicone based so not ideal if you’re using toys, if you are Lubido Hybrid Paraben Free Moisturising Creamy Gel Lube – 250ml both on Amazon

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By *aven3Man
31 weeks ago

Stoford

Usually use Liquid Silk.Dont need much.Have a lot of toys.Like the inflatable dildos and the thrusting ones, particularly .

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By *ullhullhullMan
31 weeks ago

hull

Coconut oil for cooking is amazing. Doesn't dry up and smells great

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By *estinysswingersCouple
31 weeks ago

Worsley

Council lube.

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By *uliette500Woman
31 weeks ago

Hull


"Coconut oil for cooking is amazing. Doesn't dry up and smells great"

Just dont use with latex condoms. It can degrade the latex and cause the condom to split.

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By *enelope2UWoman
31 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Enjoying it..no lube required

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By *njoysfunMan
31 weeks ago

telford

Liquid silk is very good

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I use BUTTR fisting gel, doesn’t dry up quickly and is very slippy which helps with the larger endowed entering smoothly

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By *una_RaineCouple
31 weeks ago

worcester

I brought an anal butt plug that lights up and flashes colours but it also spins in many settings and can be controlled on your phone or by the button, my partner used to too while I was wanking him off and I have never heard him literally scream in please through anal toys before, I knew it was mind blowing for me using it but that was next level!

We also got a cock ring/butt vibrator dildo which thrusts which was so good but prefer the spinning butt plug

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By *urioustwo123Couple
31 weeks ago

Haywards heath

That sounds a great toy, where did you get it from, we love anal play always looking to expand our range.

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By *aturemaleMan
31 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I brought an anal butt plug that lights up and flashes colours but it also spins in many settings and can be controlled on your phone or by the button, my partner used to too while I was wanking him off and I have never heard him literally scream in please through anal toys before, I knew it was mind blowing for me using it but that was next level!

We also got a cock ring/butt vibrator dildo which thrusts which was so good but prefer the spinning butt plug "

Can you specify what these toys are?

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By *ANDCOCouple
31 weeks ago

South Somewhere

Liquid Silk - end of! Easy one.

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By *lemFandango88Woman
30 weeks ago

Thirsk

Liquid silk is good for a bit of anal play however if you are into fisting or in general just want bang fir your buck. You can buy powder that you add water too to make a PH friendly Lube. It's basically what vets use to shive their arms up cows.

It's called Agrigel and it's way more cost effective.

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By *lemFandango88Woman
30 weeks ago

Thirsk


"Liquid silk is good for a bit of anal play however if you are into fisting or in general just want bang fir your buck. You can buy powder that you add water too to make a PH friendly Lube. It's basically what vets use to shive their arms up cows.

It's called Agrigel and it's way more cost effective. "

Apologies for the typo's. I'm tired.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Cannock

We would say liquid silk too

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By *ust_jackMan
30 weeks ago

Plymouth

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By *ust_jackMan
30 weeks ago

Plymouth

Pjur back door or Pjur analyse me works great as a massage oil too

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By *ronmant16Man
30 weeks ago

Sheffield

Coconut oil is great, cheap and tastes ok too, not condom friendly though so bear that in mind

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By *eyeYCouple
30 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Tight for now by the sounds it 😉😈

Another vote for Liquid Silk 🍑🍆

If you need any help, just ask xx

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By *ick_RyderMan
1 week ago

Blackpool

I have found that lard is a great lube, especially with big cucumbers.

I've just bought some Cobeco Male Butter lubricant and it feels amazing with my 8 inch dildo.

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By *razymindMan
1 week ago

Stafford,Weymouth, Dublin


"Enjoying it..no lube required "

Thats naughty

But also met a number of women that love it without lube …

Well some pussy juices mixes always and lubes

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
1 week ago

SW Scotland

Another vote for liquid silk ! Also does great for fake cum too

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
6 days ago

South East


"Hubby is wanting to try more anal play and happy to oblige however he is very very tight 😂 Lucky him! Any recommendations for lubes and creams that will relax his bottom a bit: and if anyone has any anal toy recommendations fire away!

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Liquid silk

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
6 days ago

South East


"Another vote for liquid silk ! Also does great for fake cum too "

This is so true haha

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By *illiams 300TV/TS
4 days ago

Bradford

Ive always used baby oil find it okay

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By *inkywife1981Couple
4 days ago

A town near you


"Council lube. "

Spit ?

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By *arkAdonis2026Man
3 days ago

Burnley


"Council lube.

Spit ?"

Presumably. Most of the ones you can buy from here are shite. There's one called Insomnia that makes the others mentioned here look like "council lube" but you can only get it imported from Japan, so its quite expensive and can be hard to get at times. Worth it though, it's more than capable of living up to it's name I assure you...

Even regular sex is better with a quick squirt, I've had some funny looks when whipping out a bottle of it, some women take it as an insult, but they all ended up converts.

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required

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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
2 days ago

Nottinghamshire


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required"

Very attracted and wanting to play however the ass isn’t self lubricating like a vagina and he tenses due to feeling it may hurt so to make things easier……I use lube for anal myself. He’s 9 inches and without lube can be uncomfortable initially

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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
2 days ago

Nottinghamshire


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required"

As the guy this thread is about.. we have all of the above .. and more…

So thank you, however I’m definitely not going with this advice haha thanks.

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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
2 days ago

Nottinghamshire


"Another vote for liquid silk ! Also does great for fake cum too

This is so true haha"

We have liquid silk and can confirm it’s the best lube. We tried a couple others and they were sticky and dried up quickly. Bonus points that it looks like cum too added little fun 🤣

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By *acksmith1980Man
2 days ago

north devon

Coconut oil - 100% natural

Helped open me up beautifully.

I’ve heard less good for condoms but don’t need them for anything but actual cock

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By *allandy64Man
2 days ago

Sheffield

Coconut oil here too. Great for both of us....

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By *nnandElleCouple
2 days ago

Brackley

Crisco vegetarian "lard" - and I'm not even joking.

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By *ickylouCouple
2 days ago

birmingham


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required

Very attracted and wanting to play however the ass isn’t self lubricating like a vagina and he tenses due to feeling it may hurt so to make things easier……I use lube for anal myself. He’s 9 inches and without lube can be uncomfortable initially "

9” without lube. Jeepers my eyeballs would be staring at each other.

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
2 days ago

Gravesend

Another vote for Liquid Silk. You can get it on Amazon as well 😜

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By *heekycppl2016Couple
2 days ago

Worthing

We use liquid silk xx

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required

Very attracted and wanting to play however the ass isn’t self lubricating like a vagina and he tenses due to feeling it may hurt so to make things easier……I use lube for anal myself. He’s 9 inches and without lube can be uncomfortable initially "

It isn't that's simply zero chemistry and no patience 11.5 inches. Maybe you'll get lessons viewing my cam sessions one day

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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
2 days ago

Nottinghamshire


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required

Very attracted and wanting to play however the ass isn’t self lubricating like a vagina and he tenses due to feeling it may hurt so to make things easier……I use lube for anal myself. He’s 9 inches and without lube can be uncomfortable initially

It isn't that's simply zero chemistry and no patience 11.5 inches. Maybe you'll get lessons viewing my cam sessions one day"

So you are telling me that we have zero chemistry 😂😂😂

And anyone can take any size without lube. Yes of course because we are all the same aren’t we 🙄.

Not sure I need lessons thanks as long as you are happy with gaping your asshole dry you do you. Everyone’s different and I asked for lube recommendations because that’s our preference. So perhaps start a new post advertising your expertise I’m sure you will be inundated 😘

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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
2 days ago

Nottinghamshire


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required

Very attracted and wanting to play however the ass isn’t self lubricating like a vagina and he tenses due to feeling it may hurt so to make things easier……I use lube for anal myself. He’s 9 inches and without lube can be uncomfortable initially

9” without lube. Jeepers my eyeballs would be staring at each other. "

Exactly. Hence wanting to use lube. But apparently using lube means we have no chemistry or patience and I need lessons 😂🫣

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 days ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required"

For anal?

Noooooooooooooooo

Liquid silk or uberlube are my preferred, and help him out by stretching him fully first.

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By *inkyukxxx OP   Couple
2 days ago

Nottinghamshire


"Attraction and chemistry... nothing else is required

For anal?

Noooooooooooooooo

Liquid silk or uberlube are my preferred, and help him out by stretching him fully first. "

Exactly. Thanks xx

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