FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback pls

By *rOrgasmLover OP Man
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

Before I start I just wanted to point out I get that there are like 1000 male profiles to like 1 female/couples profiles and get that there are probably 98% of males that are probably better looking than me so I'm fairly clued up in that sense and not deluded lol

The thing that I am baffled and confused with is that about 99% of my messages go unread or unreplied especially when they view my profile. I have tried every approach possible in the opening messages from polite,friendly and relating it to their profile to conversational to dirty and direct (especially if their profile status is recently updated with something like "looking for a quick fuck n cum now, msg if interested") but still i rarely get a reply whether it's just been read or opened hours, days later.

So my question is to you all what the fu++ is wrong with my profile? Lol is it too much, too little, too ugly, too evasive, too big too small anything just to help my head understand what if anything either I'm doing wrong or is wrong with my profile.

I see many guys profiles who've been successful with many meets and veris from all different shapes, sizes, colours, creeds the lot so I'm thinking it's gotta be me or my profile that ain't cutting the cloth. I do fairly fine away from here and I have to be semi discreet for obvious reasons like most others are.

So please review away give me your nicest or harshest feedback I'll try to take all on board even the one size doesn't fit all it'll help me understand better.

Ta fabbers x

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By *cottish guy 555Man
20 weeks ago

London

Visit clubs and organised group socials. Don't just rely on messages on here.

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By *rOrgasmLover OP Man
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Visit clubs and organised group socials. Don't just rely on messages on here.

Definitely on my to do list, just plucking up the courage of going solo lol

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair

You've already intimated that the odds are stacked against you: there are far more singleton men trawling this site than women (and couples). Your message will be one of several in their inbox and most women look at the profile first before even opening the message...assuming they feel inclined to do so. Even with filters applied it's a tasking effort on their part.

If they've looked at your profile and not opened/replied then take that as a response. Clearly they found nothing of interest in your profile or your message. You're doing nothing wrong by sending polite messages but even that won't garner sufficient attention for the reasons given above. (Hopefully you're messaging those whose interests align with yours and there is a level of compatibility)

How do you feel that you and your profile stands out compared to your peers? What is unique about you or your profile that will pique the interest of the people you are messaging...?

Your profile is...ok...but it's nothing spectacular; it's quite generic. The grammar could be better...

"Easy going laid back and fun kinda guy": generic. They all say that.

"Big cock and knows how to please a woman and love making her cum lots": you come across as some kind of champion lover.

"I have previous experience": in what? What does this even mean??

Your narrative is quite bland.

Your photos: you've been here over a year and your gallery is uninspiring, OP.

There's much work to be done. I wish you all the best.

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By *hortieWoman
20 weeks ago

Northampton

You are trying too hard now.

Chill.

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By *rOrgasmLover OP Man
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

"You've already intimated that the odds are stacked against you: there are far more singleton men trawling this site than women (and couples). Your message will be one of several in their inbox and most women look at the profile first before even opening the message...assuming they feel inclined to do so. Even with filters applied it's a tasking effort on their part.

How do you feel that you and your profile stands out compared to your peers? What is unique about you or your profile that will pique the interest of the people you are messaging...?

Your profile is...ok...but it's nothing spectacular; it's quite generic. The grammar could be better...

"Easy going laid back and fun kinda guy": generic. They all say that.

"Big cock and knows how to please a woman and love making her cum lots": you come across as some kind of champion lover.

"I have previous experience": in what? What does this even mean??

Your narrative is quite bland.

Your photos: you've been here over a year and your gallery is uninspiring, OP.

There's much work to be done. I wish you all the best."

Thank you, your feedback is appreciated and noted. Definitely agree with all of what you said.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

There are more things that raise questions than give me a reason to respond. The photos don’t look like the same person which would be my number one reason on the profile not to answer. I would remove the mention of a your cock size. It’s not congruent with the photo.

But, in all honesty, we don’t answer any unsolicited messages from guys that manage to get around the filters to be honest. We only respond to those who respond to events/meets we put up as we’re only looking when we’re looking.

I hope you find what you’re looking for.

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