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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham

Does this scenario seem legit or a scam

So I got contacted by a profile recently. It has some verifications, looks pretty legit and is photo verified, but is only a couple weeks old. But ever the optimist i responded, the chat seems legit and she seems friendly but cautious as to being expected. Here's where things become strange to me I'm apparently not meeting her as she isn't looking for anything but is looking for fun for her male friend. I'm supposed to go to a hotel let him suck me off cu in his mouth and leave, hmm ok bizarre but I asked more about it and she apparently will go back once I've gone and kiss him and swallow my load from him she also says if this happens right then she'll meet me solo. I'm now sat here wondering if this is legit and I should go for it or if I'm being set up for something

Anyone else had anything like this pop in there inbox?

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By *ilbert777Woman
20 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I feel she doesn't exist... am I too cynical?

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By *ebauchery DivineWoman
20 weeks ago

Down in Dickleburgh Drive


"I feel she doesn't exist... am I too cynical?"

Nope! I agree she doesn't exist.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

A woman who will meet you as long as you have some sort of sexual activity with her male friend?

I would put money on that not being genuine

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By *ink vixenCouple
20 weeks ago

Medway

Get her to give you a video call. Simple.

If she exists and you ants this then it shouldn’t be an issue.

Expect a million and one reasons why she won’t though.

Also be very cautious of hotel meets if it’s not your room.

Hidden cameras are very easy to come by now.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

I mean for starters how long is he expected to hold your cum in his mouth ?

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham

I took feel like this is a set up and that's why I'm treading carefully as for asking for a video call she has agreed but after the meet she'll video call me again I'm not believing this but also intrigued as to if this has been asked to anyone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I took feel like this is a set up and that's why I'm treading carefully as for asking for a video call she has agreed but after the meet she'll video call me again I'm not believing this but also intrigued as to if this has been asked to anyone else "

I have seem posts from other men who have been asked this.

We have also been asked to meet guys before we are 'allowed' to meet their partners to check if she will like us . Our reply is usually 'do we look as if we've just sailed down the Cuckmere on a tea tray?'

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham

Think I'll just stop messaging it then and report. No point wasting time if it's more scam then legit lol thanks I kinda knew it wasn't real but just had to get others to confirm

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By *urreyGuy19792Man
20 weeks ago

Egham

I've had similar, where it's a guy who claims he has "loads of female friends who want to play" but insists on a solo meet first... yeah, the above seems a bit dodgy...

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By *r not quite virginMan
20 weeks ago

rochdale

Request a video call first to make sure shes real

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By *a1970Man
20 weeks ago

East cork

Video call is fantastic idea.... I bet she will diapear

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's not a woman op, sorry.

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By *enelope2UWoman
20 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

A fool is visible by the seconds on fab.... enjoy

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham

Tbh it was obvious from the start I just feel embarrassed that I let my stupidity lead

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
20 weeks ago

Tamworth

Listen yo your instinct!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Tbh it was obvious from the start I just feel embarrassed that I let my stupidity lead "

Don't feel embarrassed at least you asked. Something was telling you it was dodgy and you checked

If you knew the scams we had to warn my parents about after they fell for the same one twice. My dad recently got caught in the Apple pay card scam but fortunately the bank stopped his card.

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By *rasshopper201Man
20 weeks ago

kendal

It’s a scam she doesn’t exist and I’d be very suspicious about meeting him I’ve had plenty of this in the last couple of months ask him for a photo of him and her naked bet you dosnt send one ask for proof it never comes believe me they panic and normally disappear

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

Central

People do have a variety of kinks but so-called couples, where the woman asks for women or others, to meet the husband alone, is a fairly active one, especially when the 'wife' is busy or working away. There will be some genuine, decent, honest people who potentially get to open up their relationship this or similar ways but I assume that most are a little light on the truth.

You could always ask for a social first too,as well as a video call.

If your cum is particularly lovely in taste, it's going to be hard for many not to swallow it

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By *ad NannaWoman
20 weeks ago

East London

Tell "her" you'll only do it if she watches in person.

Watch how quickly you'll be blocked.

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By *DW1983Man
20 weeks ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen or Sheffield

Yeah, I'm sure it's a scam.

"Let my male friend suck you so I know you're real then I'll meet you, honest"

"I'd love to meet you but need 20 quid for the babysitter. Honest."

...and all the rest...

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By *layfullsamMan
20 weeks ago

Solihull


"Does this scenario seem legit or a scam

So I got contacted by a profile recently. It has some verifications, looks pretty legit and is photo verified, but is only a couple weeks old. But ever the optimist i responded, the chat seems legit and she seems friendly but cautious as to being expected. Here's where things become strange to me I'm apparently not meeting her as she isn't looking for anything but is looking for fun for her male friend. I'm supposed to go to a hotel let him suck me off cu in his mouth and leave, hmm ok bizarre but I asked more about it and she apparently will go back once I've gone and kiss him and swallow my load from him she also says if this happens right then she'll meet me solo. I'm now sat here wondering if this is legit and I should go for it or if I'm being set up for something

Anyone else had anything like this pop in there inbox?"

Scam all over it to me, more chance of Elvis being found alive running a chip shop on planet Pluto

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By *aomilatteCouple
20 weeks ago

Midlands

It's a Man behind the profile. You should be aware that many profiles have false verifications, it's very common for Men to set up another profile and verify it themselves. Some will also give a false verification to receive one as they think it looks good on their profile. Photo verification counts for nothing, we recently saw a photo with another face photo shopped onto their body.

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By *ellhungvweMan
20 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It’s a bloke. “She” doesn’t exist.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Utero


"Does this scenario seem legit or a scam

So I got contacted by a profile recently. It has some verifications, looks pretty legit and is photo verified, but is only a couple weeks old. But ever the optimist i responded, the chat seems legit and she seems friendly but cautious as to being expected. Here's where things become strange to me I'm apparently not meeting her as she isn't looking for anything but is looking for fun for her male friend. I'm supposed to go to a hotel let him suck me off cu in his mouth and leave, hmm ok bizarre but I asked more about it and she apparently will go back once I've gone and kiss him and swallow my load from him she also says if this happens right then she'll meet me solo. I'm now sat here wondering if this is legit and I should go for it or if I'm being set up for something

Anyone else had anything like this pop in there inbox?"

Are you desperate?

Do you get a kick out of meeting complete unknowns?

Prepared to waste time and money on a no show?

If so, crack on by all means.

I’m sure it’ll be fine.

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By *herryEatersCouple
20 weeks ago

East Cheshire

Fantasy BS, will never happen. So many fakes and fantasists on here now !. Genuine and 'sane' folk are the true unicorns now...

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
20 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

The rule of thumb sadly is that if it seems too good to be true it normally is

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

He may also be a Prince from a North African country!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
20 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Fake!

We get these - a 'couple' where the 'female' is looking to arrange a solo meet for the male

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham

Update she's refused to send me any pics of herself. Became really aggressive when I asked for her to watch us and refused that and now says I'm not real and that I'm the time wasting one. I even suggested moving to telegram or WhatsApp but nope she doesn't have either. I really should have just not replied.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Update she's refused to send me any pics of herself. Became really aggressive when I asked for her to watch us and refused that and now says I'm not real and that I'm the time wasting one. I even suggested moving to telegram or WhatsApp but nope she doesn't have either. I really should have just not replied. "

That would have been the best course of action. It's a guy, there's no woman, don't get drawn further in. Have you reported and blocked the profile?

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By *a1970Man
20 weeks ago

East cork

Scam

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By *harAndBryCouple
20 weeks ago

Downham Market


"Update she's refused to send me any pics of herself. Became really aggressive when I asked for her to watch us and refused that and now says I'm not real and that I'm the time wasting one. I even suggested moving to telegram or WhatsApp but nope she doesn't have either. I really should have just not replied. "

Never, never move to an external messaging platform until after you've met and want to stay in touch. Keeping everything within Fab means that admin have access to the conversations when you report them.

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By *host63Man
20 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Scam

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham


"Update she's refused to send me any pics of herself. Became really aggressive when I asked for her to watch us and refused that and now says I'm not real and that I'm the time wasting one. I even suggested moving to telegram or WhatsApp but nope she doesn't have either. I really should have just not replied.

That would have been the best course of action. It's a guy, there's no woman, don't get drawn further in. Have you reported and blocked the profile?"
yup I've reported and blocked the account

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By *irty Gentleman LondonMan
20 weeks ago

Online


"Get her to give you a video call. Simple.

If she exists and you ants this then it shouldn’t be an issue.

Expect a million and one reasons why she won’t though.

Also be very cautious of hotel meets if it’s not your room.

Hidden cameras are very easy to come by now. "

I always ask for a video call with the lady to confirm it's not just the mans fantasy x

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By *nnandElleCouple
20 weeks ago

Brackley

its 100% a bloke that wants a blowie - end of.

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By *ellinever70Woman
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Update she's refused to send me any pics of herself. Became really aggressive when I asked for her to watch us and refused that and now says I'm not real and that I'm the time wasting one. I even suggested moving to telegram or WhatsApp but nope she doesn't have either. I really should have just not replied. "

Further back you seemed to have accepted you'd been duped.

What made you persist?

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By *ottom charlieMan
20 weeks ago

Washington


"Does this scenario seem legit or a scam

So I got contacted by a profile recently. It has some verifications, looks pretty legit and is photo verified, but is only a couple weeks old. But ever the optimist i responded, the chat seems legit and she seems friendly but cautious as to being expected. Here's where things become strange to me I'm apparently not meeting her as she isn't looking for anything but is looking for fun for her male friend. I'm supposed to go to a hotel let him suck me off cu in his mouth and leave, hmm ok bizarre but I asked more about it and she apparently will go back once I've gone and kiss him and swallow my load from him she also says if this happens right then she'll meet me solo. I'm now sat here wondering if this is legit and I should go for it or if I'm being set up for something

Anyone else had anything like this pop in there inbox?"
it sounds like a guy just wanting to suck guys off... same sort of senario as meet the guy of a couple and she will turn up for the 2nd meet,,, strong smell of bullshit,,

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Chatham

Stupidity tbh lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

O o O oo

It is normally a bloke or possibly a woman being coerced into starting a profile for the man. You have done right by reporting in any case

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