FabSwingers.com forum: Club partner

By *reamyChocolate OP Couple
21 weeks ago

carleton

Hi I'm looking for a club buddy, to accompany me to Pandoras on theme nights,I'm male, prefer a fem partner, and purely a plantonic one, or maybe a guy,but one who wouldn't expect sex, unless I wanted it.

Thanks

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Tamworth

I think you’ll struggle to find this by arrangement, it’s better to let it develop organically.

I don’t want to babysit someone all night when I don’t know how they’ll behave and if they’re able to be respectful. I don’t want to share a locker and bar tab with a stranger and from a practical point of view, many clubs now require couples membership and that’s more expensive, as is entry.

Saying that, I hope I’m wrong so good luck OP.

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By *iss DevilWoman
21 weeks ago

Bedford

"I think you’ll struggle to find this by arrangement, it’s better to let it develop organically.

Saying that, I hope I’m wrong so good luck OP. "

This! Also, OP, why can't your wife/partner go with you?

Also, you'd like a woman to accompany you but just as a platonic "+1". What's the point? Why can't you go on your own?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
21 weeks ago

Coventry

I think your best way is to make freinds in scene first. Personally I wouldn't partner up with someone I didn't know just base of an online request. However there's definitely a few good freinds I've made on the scene (some who are purely platonic) who I'd happily go to a club with if they asked.

Also as a former single guy on the scene don't fear going as a single. Yes it can be a bit draughting and hard work but it's also really good just to doing things by yourself and stretch your comfort zone.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"One who wouldn't expect sex unless I wanted it".

She gets no say in the matter ?

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By *iss DevilWoman
20 weeks ago

Bedford

""One who wouldn't expect sex unless I wanted it".

She gets no say in the matter ?"

I think that part of the comment was referring to a male "companion".

Anyway, OP, I just read your profile properly - well, checked the labels as I read your profile before. You identify as gay yet want a female partner to accompany you to Pandora's? Why? Is it because it would be cheaper than going as a single man, or there would be no restrictions regarding ratio/as a "couple", you could attend any event?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

""One who wouldn't expect sex unless I wanted it".

She gets no say in the matter ?

I think that part of the comment was referring to a male "companion".

Yes on re-reading it you are right. Apologies OP.

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By *nlyessexCouple
20 weeks ago

Hornchurch

I have been lucky have known a guy we regularly play with but also my husband lets me go to clubs with him as we both trust him

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By *estinysswingersCouple
20 weeks ago

Worsley

You’re on a couples profile? What’s wrong with your existing partner?

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By *estinysswingersCouple
20 weeks ago

Worsley

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