FabSwingers.com forum: First Introduction message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking for a few tips please on writing an introduction message that I can sent to ladies and couples.

Thanks

Dave

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well you have a few veris so you can't be doing much wrong.

Definitely read all of their profile and then expand on the things you might have in common. Inject a little humour and hey presto you have yourself a shag, errr sorry, you might get a reply

By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

well being a cynic does it matter

reason being been reading threads like this for years i have come to the conclusion just be respectful not rude and keep it clean never a one liner

what a lot of fabbers tend to do is keep changing their 1st contact message to try and get a response

now thats were you all going wrong

we all know there is a high percentage of time wasters on these kind of sites which does spoil it for the genuine fabbers

so sending a cracking message to a time waster will never get past 1st base

so in view of this most profiles are pretty much the same in one way or the other.... and a true fabber expects a certain type of respect and that you have paid attention to there profile and that you fit their criteria

this is not any hole is a goal kind of lifestyle some might like that but most don't

i hope this makes sense suppose i will get slated through this but who cares its my opinion

so the moral is read profiles , fit criteria , and be respectful and be your true self

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women always send one liners (sometimes one 'worders') ..it's amazing that they delete similar messages sent to them?!

To be honest mate I'm not that sure it matters ..just be polite. They'll either like your profile or they won't. That said I've only had two meets in several months so perhaps I'm not the best advice giver... lol

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people will check the senders profile before replying to a message so my advice would be to make sure it's informative so people can see straightaway if you appeal or not. Personally we don't mind short messages as long as they're polite and addressed to both of us. Ms