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By *outhlincsmale OP   Man
21 weeks ago

leasingham

Ok , I’ve been on here a few years on and off, when I do see a profile I like and message, we get chatting and when we get to the stage of exchanging pics I either get ghosted or a not my type ,

Ok I carry a few extra pounds , working on that, but didn’t think I was Quasimodo ( think he’d have more look)

What are people looking for ,seen worse in my opinion looking guys getting dozens of varification.

Any advice , can’t afford a facelift, can afford a paper bag though.

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By *CExeCouple
21 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Profile text all looks good, the photos aren't marvellous though.

Honestly, while there always has to be an attraction, I'd suggest that most proper swingers on here will always have personality and connection as the most important things.

You say you can't change your looks, but you can change your look to an extent. Photos where you're well dressed rather than a tracksuit...photos in a nice surrounding rather than a close up of a hairy nob for example. Fab is fab, great sometimes, crap sometimes and hard work for single blokes. Engage on the forums, get on the cams and get to a club and keep an eye on local meets.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
21 weeks ago

near lincoln

Hi, your photos are off putting for most couples. They are just of your dick. When we log on here we see a 1000 pics just like yours.

If you want to entice people you have to stand out and make your self desirable.

Most people’s initial reaction to opening your message will be your profile thumbnail as well. If a woman or couple has 50 messages to look at the likely hood is they will go for the message that has a photos they like to open up first.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. This includes not having the physical attraction to most of them.

Adjust your expectations to include this and you may get a more comfortable experience

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By *heffielderCouple
21 weeks ago

sheffield


"Profile text all looks good, the photos aren't marvellous though.

Honestly, while there always has to be an attraction, I'd suggest that most proper swingers on here will always have personality and connection as the most important things.

You say you can't change your looks, but you can change your look to an extent. Photos where you're well dressed rather than a tracksuit...photos in a nice surrounding rather than a close up of a hairy nob for example. Fab is fab, great sometimes, crap sometimes and hard work for single blokes. Engage on the forums, get on the cams and get to a club and keep an eye on local meets."

Great post and great advice.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
21 weeks ago

Isle of Man

You're cheating, puts people off

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By *ellhungvweMan
21 weeks ago

Cheltenham

On the positive side at least you like to think you are clean. Maybe you could get tested and find out definitively?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
21 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Your profile is bland. You don't show any public photos. The fact that you are in a relationship will put some off (10/10 for honesty though). You're in the majority looking for the minority, so you need to bring your A game - you're not! If we were looking to meet single males, we woukdbt be interested. Good luck.

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
21 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

Silhouette profile and cheating. We personally wouldn't even read a message from a profile like this, let alone respond.

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Silhouette profile and cheating. We personally wouldn't even read a message from a profile like this, let alone respond. "
. This

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By *inkPomPomWoman
21 weeks ago

Isle of Man


"Silhouette profile and cheating. We personally wouldn't even read a message from a profile like this, let alone respond. . This "

Same tbh

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

You're a cheat.

Mrs

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