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By *ove2watch OP   Man
21 weeks ago

weymouth

Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then?

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By *emlock HarryMan
21 weeks ago

cullon

I'm totally the same, could never look at a guy but i do like a bit of cock..

I consider myself bi, not gay ..

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By *i-subhubby.Man
21 weeks ago

Slightly round the bend.

I think i am the same, wen i see a guys cock.

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By *ove2watch OP   Man
21 weeks ago

weymouth

If I’d meet bi couple I could even fuck this bloke if he’d like

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By *iHungMan
21 weeks ago

Blackpool

Same here, would love a bi MMF, play with his cock while she pegs me.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
21 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "

bi-curious, heteexible, etc...yeah. Women touch me ands I feel nothing. I have no arousal when I touch women.

My brain only like penis. Not interested in someone else's boobs or pussy at all.

Even if I play with a pre-op transwoman, my brain still thinks it's a man with long hair. which is awkward.

Transmen are hot but I get nothing from a pussy. I still want a real cock.

It's just brain wiring.

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By *effdelightMan
21 weeks ago

Grimsby


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "
I'm the same haha

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By *S_71Man
21 weeks ago

leeds

Im the same, im not attracted to men as such but im definitely attracted to a gorgeous cock, and love to suck

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By *ofuMan
21 weeks ago

london

I like the cock rather than the body it’s Attached to

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By *ofuMan
21 weeks ago

london


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then?

bi-curious, heteexible, etc...yeah. Women touch me ands I feel nothing. I have no arousal when I touch women. Lucky you finding femme trans women

My brain only like penis. Not interested in someone else's boobs or pussy at all.

Even if I play with a pre-op transwoman, my brain still thinks it's a man with long hair. which is awkward.

Transmen are hot but I get nothing from a pussy. I still want a real cock.

It's just brain wiring."

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "

I’d say there’s loads of guys like this, stuck in limbo lol

Some will go on to realise they’re bi, some back to straight after some experimenting. Some doomed to wander the earth n a state of perpetual confusion.

My advice is, don’t worry about labels, especially from other people trying to impose their own worldview on anyone who’ll listen. Just enjoy what you enjoy

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By *YDB75Man
21 weeks ago

East Yorks

What do you want to be ?? Or not to be??

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By *tockingsstephTV/TS
21 weeks ago

northampton

I don’t get turned on by men but I do by cock

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By *8warrenMan
21 weeks ago

.

I don’t find men attractive but I do love to suck and be sucked , I’m Bi

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By *ayotter31Man
21 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

It doesn't make you anything you don't want to be.

If a meat eater goes to a vegan restaurant a couple of times a year, it doesn't make them a vegan.

You set the parameters for your own identity : no one else.

If you do decide you'd like to officially join the LGBT Team - We'd be glad to have you, but it's fine if not too

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By *ornym66Man
21 weeks ago

Col /ips

I've been in a threesum where he was not bi but seeing his wife suck he big cock got me horny I don't like men so I then years later had my cock sucked by a bloke it was good I would like to try cock in a bi threesum tho

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
21 weeks ago

London


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "

Maybe or bi-curious at least. I wouldn't get hung up on it - just enjoy it.

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By *om.stockingsMan
21 weeks ago

mold

Love cock encased in tights

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By *iddle ManMan
21 weeks ago

Walsall

You can be whatever you want to be. Regardless how you feel or how anyone else wants to label you.

If you want to be bi, so be it, straight, gay or a purple dinosaur. It's just a label.

Go have fun.

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By *adhouse91Man
21 weeks ago

ashford

Hard to say i started off that way but as i got more and more comfortable i started admitting to myself that i was actually attracted to some men, i think someone called it internalised homophobia, I know im bi because i still find women attractive and enjoy having sex with both men and woman. I think you just need to find your what your comfortable and ignore the labels for now while you work things out, and have fun with it while you do because whats the point otherwise?

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By *pitfire 500Man
21 weeks ago

Belper

I once had a blow job from a tv at the attic in derby and it felt good so much so j would be prepared to give a bi man in a man/woman relationship the same

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By *artorialMan
21 weeks ago

weymouth

Labels again - who cares, you do you. If you find cock attractive superbe if you don't also superbe.

If you keep looking you'll find your tribe

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By *ature male OldhamMan
21 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

If you enjoy it just do it no labels required... life's too short

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By *istransCoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Royston

Genital preference and labels of sexuality are all subjective.

Whatever you understand yourself to be, that’s cool.

A particular set of genitalia doesn’t always speak for the gender of the person that has them when you consider trans people too.

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By *ittlelad69Man
21 weeks ago

clay cross

Exactly the same here

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Must say i do like a nice looking cock but dont fancy men

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By *ntman83Man
21 weeks ago

Walsall

I think I fall into this category, especially a nice cock in sexy knickers. Would love to be pegged to but not sure about a real cock fucking me but what to try sucking 1 ideally in an mmf

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "

Erik is exactly the same. He can appreciate a good looking man, or a good physique, but he doesn't swoon for them like he does a woman.

Put a nice dick in front of him though and you visibly see him get horny looking at it lol!

Whatever that is, is what he is.

Freyja x

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By *aulupforitMan
21 weeks ago

Corbridge

I agree to certain extent about labels but if you can nor even put bi or bi curious on your profile.I just wonder what else are you lying about if you can not get the basics right.Yes I know some women do not like bi men and that is probably the reason why they put straight.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
21 weeks ago

Rotherham

I only find females attractive, I've only dated women, I've never had a Dom or met a man alone I therefore class myself as straight....however whilst in cuckold relationships my role included being a service submissive I sexually pleasured my gf on demand and her bulls as required.

I wouldn't be too hung up on labels, especially these days .

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By *iHungMan
21 weeks ago

Blackpool

Agree with all those saying to forget about labels, I find a good chest & cock a turn on but don’t find myself attracted to men in general. Would love to try a bi MMF or maybe a male on male massage m.

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By *abrina222TV/TS
21 weeks ago

Deptford

Trans sexy girls with a juicy cock are perfect for you x

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By *ornyBerksMan
21 weeks ago

Didcot

I feel exactly the same

No physical attraction but yep when I see a nice cock yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I know so many lads who are the same….don’t fancy men but love cock fun…..I have one lad who just loves sucking a cock nothing else

Also have an older guy who is straight but loves to be seen naked

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By *omRachCouple
21 weeks ago

Wirral

You dont need to brand/tag yourself, just enjoy what you do

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By *rasshopper201Man
21 weeks ago

kendal

Im the same love looking and playing with cocks and giving pleasure to him but looks arnt important to me in fact I prefer normal type of men not Greek gods with bodies to match older guys mostly

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
21 weeks ago

Chatham

I don't find men attractive whatsoever so won't kiss, but a cock is a different thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

A few guys I've met are bisexual but heteroromantic. It's all cool. Just knowing what you like is half the battle 😊

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By *lwayslooking22Man
21 weeks ago

newcastle

I’m more interested in mans cock than face! Would still kiss them but rather be sucking! Love a guy in lingerie

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By *artytymemeMan
21 weeks ago

Mansfield

Love chatting with men and watching cocks.

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By *lwayslooking22Man
21 weeks ago

newcastle

Nice dick!!

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By *smiaTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Ilkeston

You can be what feels right to you. Labels dont have to define who you are if you dont want them to. Do what makes you happy life is too short not to

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
21 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Same here

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By *ihimbiherCouple
21 weeks ago

lightwater


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "
absolutely and enjoy every minute.x

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By *erlicanMan
21 weeks ago

Newbury


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then?

Erik is exactly the same. He can appreciate a good looking man, or a good physique, but he doesn't swoon for them like he does a woman.

Put a nice dick in front of him though and you visibly see him get horny looking at it lol!

Whatever that is, is what he is.

Freyja x"

This is me to a T. I see some cocks and to my astonishment - considering I've always thought of myself as hetero - my cock reacts and I definitely want to touch and feel and suck; in fact just TYPING that is arousing. I so want to find a couple to play with on that basis.

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By *lim_funMan
20 weeks ago

Hebden bridge

I think I'm just greedy, sissy holes call to me

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
20 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent

Sexuality and desire can be such a broad spectrum that simple labels often don't do it justice. I (mr) consider myself bisexual in the most typical sense, as I find men and women attractive and play with both equally. We have found many straight guys that we've played with are curious to try things when in an environment that they feel comfortable enough expressing it, and a lot of the time it's nothing more than a desire to try sucking, I wouldn't consider them bisexual, more bi-friendly. But at the end of the day, the label is nothing more than an indication what you prefer and should only matter to yourself and those you wish to share that side of yourself with.

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By *inycock197Man
20 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

Same with me....I don't find guys attractive but cock is a different matter

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By *uriouscouple4fun2022Couple
20 weeks ago

Kempston

I started off like this really. Seeing cock in porn. Wanting to experience it. I do find some men attractive but mainly I like a nice cock.

Try playing with a guy, see if you like it..if not don't do it again.

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By *ohn1953Man
20 weeks ago

Abergele

No I always enjoyed pussy but over the years I do enjoy sucking on a nice cock and having my cock suck too. But I still class myself has bi curious and I definitely not gay .

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By *iHungMan
20 weeks ago

Blackpool

I’m not attracted to men in general but a smooth slim body with a big cock is a huge turn on for me. Not had a chance to play with a guy like that yet though.

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By *oonbath89Man
11 weeks ago

radstock

I’m straight have no intention of sucking or fucking a bloke , however if I was having a threesome with a guy hand his wife , if the moment is right I’d probably let him suck me

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By *irsttimers3338Couple
11 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I do like watching a nice cock fucking a pussy and then see it slide out and watch him finish off over her

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By *ovechix69Man
11 weeks ago

north Northumberland

Definitely don't find men attractive but sex with a man is very different to female sex .

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By *una_RaineCouple
11 weeks ago

worcester


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "

I’d personally say that’s hetexible, I would define bisexuality more like would you be in a romantic relationship with both genders?

In your case it doesn’t sound like it, whereas hetexible would indicate your open to doing things with your own gender if the mood is right which can be occasionally or as often as you like

But maybe that’s just me?

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By *bione_1Man
11 weeks ago

Broxbourne

I don't fancy men or want a relationship with guys .

happy to have a few beers instead watch football .

but I do love to watch bi mmf porn .

I've never sucked cock but would love to during mmf meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

See I don’t get aroused at either but enjoy playing but only when part as a couple, so am I bi?

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By *B GamesCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol/Cornwall

I (Minky) think that for some men it is linked to the excitement of seeing their own cock in an aroused state. When they see another hard cock they get the same wave of excitement and arousal, despite having zero interest in the male it is attached to. Sort of like Pavlov's dog (classical conditioning).

Are you Bi? Maybe not, are you cock obsessed? Probably!

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By *bione_1Man
11 weeks ago

Broxbourne


"I (Minky) think that for some men it is linked to the excitement of seeing their own cock in an aroused state. When they see another hard cock they get the same wave of excitement and arousal, despite having zero interest in the male it is attached to. Sort of like Pavlov's dog (classical conditioning).

well said Micky

Are you Bi? Maybe not, are you cock obsessed? Probably! "

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
11 weeks ago

watford

I like other cd/tv’s cock I’m bi

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By *ay2571Man
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I always find it interesting how we try to label everything!

I am bi. I enjoy sex with men and women (preferably at the same time)

for ease of things i would say that any male who likes to play with cock is bi. but there is a scale

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By *s-two-75Couple
11 weeks ago

no clubs, no meet!

Do you find every woman you see attractive?

Don’t maybe you’ve just not seen the guy that ticks your boxes yet 😜

Don’t presume if someone is bi they fancy every member of the same gender, same as you wouldn’t find every woman attractive as a straight person

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
11 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

See I’m the opposite, I love to look at a woman, love to kiss a woman, love looking at breasts but no interest in looking at a pussy or pussy pics do nothing for me at all?! Still will play with one for her pleasure but I’m more top Bi.

Belle.

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By *aciallovrMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I am happily married husband and find my wife incredibly sexy. I love the hotwife and cuck scenarios which we roleplay and I fantasise eating another mans cum from her pussy after she enjoys herself.

I see it as a massive turn on and my mind tells me that tasting his cum mixed with her juices is just me experiencing the situation and being part of her enjoyment and pleasure.

In the heat of the moment and being turned on watching them cum, I would see no issue in lickiing her juices off his cock and possibly sucking him clean too.

It would be all part of the moment.

I wld also lick her to get her wet for him and suck him to get him hard for her and then hold his cock to guide him in. All in the name of her pleasure.

I don't find guys sexually attractive, but watching a cock cum or being wanked or sucked is a turn on I have to admit.

So I don't want to label myself other than a husband who would enjoy the shared experience of watching his wife being pleasured for her enjoyment and then cleaning up both after.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
11 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"I am happily married husband and find my wife incredibly sexy. I love the hotwife and cuck scenarios which we roleplay and I fantasise eating another mans cum from her pussy after she enjoys herself.

I see it as a massive turn on and my mind tells me that tasting his cum mixed with her juices is just me experiencing the situation and being part of her enjoyment and pleasure.

In the heat of the moment and being turned on watching them cum, I would see no issue in lickiing her juices off his cock and possibly sucking him clean too.

It would be all part of the moment.

I wld also lick her to get her wet for him and suck him to get him hard for her and then hold his cock to guide him in. All in the name of her pleasure.

I don't find guys sexually attractive, but watching a cock cum or being wanked or sucked is a turn on I have to admit.

So I don't want to label myself other than a husband who would enjoy the shared experience of watching his wife being pleasured for her enjoyment and then cleaning up both after.

"

Wow that’s hot and what a lovely husband you are to her

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By *oluptatemMan
11 weeks ago

rugby

I count myself as bi. I prefer women for partner / wife and prefer sex with a woman. I don't fancy men and would not want a relationship with one, but I do enjoy wanking and sucking a nice cock and find it very satisfying

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By *100Man
11 weeks ago

Essex

lol fab and all the cocks on here taught me to appreciate a nice cock

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
11 weeks ago

West London

I’m not attracted to men in the slightest but I love the look of a strong, powerful hard cock and I’ve sucked a few guys which was really horny and erotic.

Don’t really care what it makes me, it’s just something I’ve done and enjoyed

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By *irgilMan
11 weeks ago

london

Any big white cock in here? would love to hear from some

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By *arrySwindonMan
11 weeks ago

Swindon

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By *arrySwindonMan
11 weeks ago

Swindon

Is there anything hotter than letting a couple suck your cock together? Zero interest in guys however i do enjoy some cock play in a threesome. Especially if it turns the lady into a puddle of lust

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
11 weeks ago

London


"Any big white cock in here? would love to hear from some"

Can't message you though! You have blocked guys!

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
10 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

I put myself as bi as I will play with cock but like some have said I don't find males attractive. I enjoy looking and touching cock and having the same done to me. I have even looked for a local guy for mutual cock play but it's illusive.

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By *antric mature masseurMan
10 weeks ago

London and elsewhere

It's all a spectrum.

If any male was locked up in gaol for 10 years, they would probably engage in bi play.

I've played with many MF couples and sucked both, it just seems natural without having a label of bi or not. The F usually enjoys watching and often holds the partners cock up to be sucked by me.

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By *BC CUCKOLDMan
10 weeks ago

northend

Cock the best

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By *irexMan
10 weeks ago

Hertford

I agree, I do enjoy a good looking cock to play with or suck, fit bodies too, but I don’t find men attractive in any other sense.

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By *londebiguyMan
10 weeks ago

Southport


"Hi guys I don’t find men attractive when I look at face… but when I look at cock is completely different story. Am I bi then? "

Maybe.

Though you do not really need a label to enjoy yourself and life life how you want to live it.

Just enjoy it.

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