FabSwingers.com forum: Fisting advice?

By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

Anyone into stretching and fisting?

She's sooo turned on by it ,we both love it ,but find the aftermath is a bit nasty for a good few days ...we use water based lube ,I've tried rubber gloves to reduce bacteria...anyone have experience they can share? Thanks

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By *sexman1Man
22 weeks ago

north oxfordshire

PM me as can not chat to you

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By *appy68Man
22 weeks ago

derby

don`t rush it work up to the whole hand starting at 1 then more fingers making her wet even better if she squirts natural lube never rush done it lots of tiem and always works well never failes to make he cum.

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

You miss my point . She takes my fist ,loves it ,it's just nasty down there afterwards for a good while ..the balance is disrupted ..

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
22 weeks ago

The lost village

If you are using lube and gloves the only things foreign to effect balance you are introducing is them.

Try another lube and some hypoallergenic medical gloves maybe?

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By *hortieWoman
22 weeks ago

Northampton

My only immediate piece of advice after reading thread thus far, is all else being scrupulously clean, have you checked for any allergies to the gloves you've been using so far??

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

Good thought

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

Also a good thought ,that's what I came here for ,thank you

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By *iganpairCouple
22 weeks ago

Wigan, Lancs.

What you mean its nasty

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

Use your Imagination?! I'm guessing you don't do this ?

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
22 weeks ago

The lost village

Marigolds and WD40 are not your friends

(the less helpful comment)

Bear

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
22 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Wrong lube - get ph balanced vaginal lube like Yes VM which is slightly acidic. Yes it’s expensive but oh so worth it.

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

Brilliant, I will order some now . Have looked at other couples lubes and combinations..thanks for the heads up

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

My guess is that something you're using is causing BV. Is the 'nasty' you refer to a smell?

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
22 weeks ago

Southampton

That's it ..trying to find something that works ,hence the post ...love the moment, but there's gotta be a better after .. we watch husband fist wife , can't imagine they have the same problem...thanks for tye reply

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
22 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

If the change of lube doesn’t work, it’s also worth getting tested for BV and Mycoplasma hominis which can free go hand in hand but need different antibiotics. Alpha Biolabs £59 test covers off the mycoplasma which the NHS and free tests don’t cover.

There is also a ph balanced silicone lube from Pjur. You can get yes prescribed for your doctor too if you suffer dryness etc.

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By *arleycplWoman
22 weeks ago

Frodsham

"Brilliant, I will order some now . Have looked at other couples lubes and combinations..thanks for the heads up "

Try reply + quote so we know what your replying too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also op if 'things get nasty' afterwards it might be best to stop doing it and see a doctor before attempting it again

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Southampton

"Also op if 'things get nasty' afterwards it might be best to stop doing it and see a doctor before attempting it again "

She is immaculate at all other times,so don't imagine there's anything long term going on ..I'll mess around with the different lubes as suggested..thanks all for the ideas

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By *iam4Man
21 weeks ago

Chiswick

I have wide hands, so I always start out slow. I use latex gloves and silicone based lube. It may affect the gloves but in the short run it is fine. The silicone gives extra slipperiness which helps in getting the whole hand in. Plus reapplying it after a while helps, keep the in out movement slow so the tissues of the vagina can move. Above all, smile, your having fun.

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By *tretch-her1981 OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Southampton

"I have wide hands, so I always start out slow. I use latex gloves and silicone based lube. It may affect the gloves but in the short run it is fine. The silicone gives extra slipperiness which helps in getting the whole hand in. Plus reapplying it after a while helps, keep the in out movement slow so the tissues of the vagina can move. Above all, smile, your having fun. "

I have huge hands ,she loves it so much ,even punch fisting makes her cum over and over . I've had some good suggestions, and they are all ordered and on the way ready for Christmas

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By *enelope2UWoman
21 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Then it's her diet and hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Just take a good run up 😂

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
21 weeks ago

London - South East and West

Im 3 months in to HRT for the peri menopause. Im a few years older than your partner, but it can start in my 40s.

The loss of oestrogen thins the skin. It literally can be rubbed off sometimes with toilet roll. Loss of oestrogen also causes drier skin that looses its elasticity. Less elastic skin, that is drier, that is thinner, can more easily tear leading to bacteria getting into your skin and urethra. This causes increased UTIs.

I've had increased UTIs for the whole time I was on Fab. I thought I had thrush or Vaginal BV, but it was vaginal atrophy due to peri menopause.

No amount of lube will help stop the skin damaging if its loosing elasticity.

I'd suggest your partner starts to look at the various symptoms of perimenopaue (no joke, there are about 40) and or ask the doctor for topical oestrogen, which you syringe into your vagina, which moisturises it and puts oestrogen directly into your vagina and labia.

Mrs DD

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By *elkieWoman
21 weeks ago

Durham

"Im 3 months in to HRT for the peri menopause. Im a few years older than your partner, but it can start in my 40s.

I've had increased UTIs for the whole time I was on Fab. I thought I had thrush or Vaginal BV, but it was vaginal atrophy due to peri menopause.

No amount of lube will help stop the skin damaging if its loosing elasticity.

Mrs DD"

All of this. My experience is that punch fisting or anything that introduces air into my vagina is incredibly drying, leads to tears and if I follow that with sex and spunk, I get an unhappy vagina. (fisting without the spunk is fine) It’s just part of getting older

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By *offees1878Man
21 weeks ago

liverpool

I'd love to try being fisted

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By *igad999Man
21 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Done it few times with the wife.

She has to be so relaxed and turned on so it’s always at the end of long foreplay or even after long fucking she’s wet and turned on

Takes a while to get past the 4th finger but once in there push in a bit and literally she can’t control herself and that’s with no moving etc too

Lovely view of the gape when I pull out too

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By *oastal1968Man
21 weeks ago

London/Stafford

Take your shoes and socks off.

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By *730tMan
21 weeks ago

stamford

I love fisting

My ex took it well , slim petite.

Miss it

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By *eepgliderMan
20 weeks ago

Chacewater

I have never known of this being a problem. I used to provide vaginal fisting quite often. Some desperate cases could be "done" with no artificial lube (that is baaaad!). We used to have "Swiss Navy" () for less desperate cases. Generally used water-based.

FWIW

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By *aandLoCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

Does she take any supplements like Cranberry, D Mannose or Optibac for Women? I used to frequently get water infections after intense sessions. The supplements have helped.

It is also worth maybe her getting a test for peri menopause as if she has started that phase of life, tears and damage are more likely with vigorous internal play, and hence the uncomfortable symptoms.

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By *eejay2015Woman
20 weeks ago

somewhere in Buckinghamshire

I was thinking OPTIBAC FOR WOMEN too.

Totally unrelated to your ladys problem, I know but I suffered the most painful vulval thrush after a course of antibiotics a few months ago, those probiotics were such a godsend I've continued taking them.

They can be bought from pharmacies or A mazon.

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