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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi

ive just joined up to this (week ago) and so far bar one lovely couple ive met ive had no other luck.

i know there are alot of timewasters on here but how does a genuine single bloke get a response so far all my message are either ignored or deleted.

hey

hows you? new to this site just seeing if you fancied a chat sometime?

whats wrong with that any tips please

thanks ideally looking for women or couples into watersports or strap on play but just a response and a chat would be nice lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the general consensus will be one week-one meet, you're doing pretty well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that is the message you are sending out there is no wonder it gets deleted. It's boring, impersonal, unimaginative...

But you've been on a week and had a meet, most blokes would love that sort of success.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i know what your saying but as a newbie ive sent alot of messages trying make some new friends and see if anything comes of it if not then no probs just stay friends and the only response iv had was off this couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any tips then

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any tips then

thanks "

Put more effort in like most genuine single guys have to

One meet in a week stop complaining...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im not complaining just asking for tips on how to get responses

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Blimey! Most blokes would kill for one meet in a week! Some have been here a year without even a sniff!

Personally I wouldn't reply as I dont like your pics. Several views up your bum hole will be off putting for many.

Good luck anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks for the advice

x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If that is the message you are sending out there is no wonder it gets deleted. It's boring, impersonal, unimaginative...

But you've been on a week and had a meet, most blokes would love that sort of success."

And

Do whatever you did to meet the lady you had sex with.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile is bland and unimaginative, and if you sent me that message with that profile, I'd just delete.

Make yourself stand out, put some of your personality into your profile and into your messages.

Also get some more pics, we all know you have a cock, we don't need to see it from various angles, however proud of it you may be. Get some torso shots, use your imagination.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

was more of a break the ice meeting she was curious.about seeing her man with another bloke

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

sweet little thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks for the tips ill have a rejig of my profile and take some new pics

x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

At least we have a guy who asks for advice and then actually listens and makes changes!

Good move removing the bum hole pics....much better!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

best to get advice and tips and make changes then to sit there with the wrong approach wrong pics etc

god isnt it obvious im a newbie to all this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a meet already is good in the time u have been here...dont be greedy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol nothing wrong with a bit greedyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say your not complaining but your profile status is a moan/complaint about how hardt it is to get a meet plus delete the bits that say no time wasters. Do you really think a time waster will look at that and think, "oh, I better not contact him then"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ye thats my fault sorry put that up other day forgot to take it down.

thanks for letting me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the general consensus will be one week-one meet, you're doing pretty well! "

Spot on

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

If you sent me that message it'd be straight in the delete pile, zero imagination or any indication that you're interested in me other than the fact I have a vagina.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks for the advice ill put more thought into it

x

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