FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice and possible coaching

By (user no longer on site) OP
23 weeks ago

Hey all,

Is it possible to get some advice on my profile

In regards to coaching - I know the ratio to men is a lot higher to women

What I’m asking is what do you say to women/couples that really catch the eye

Thanks all x

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By *aven RedWoman
23 weeks ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

Have a look through all the threads offering profile advice about bios and pics. Good luck on here x

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By *ink vixenCouple
23 weeks ago

Medway

You’ve been here nine weeks and still have “to be updated x” as your bio.

It would seem that you don’t have the time to make even the smallest effort.

Do you truly expect others to?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Zero effort on your profile blurb, face pixelated on your pics, there's nothing there that would entice me to meet you

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By *CExeCouple
23 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

A single male with no profile text and a handful of photos isn't going to stand out. You score a 0 out of 10 for that 'to be updated' line straight away.

Not being able to accommodate as a single guy is a red flag to most on here as it suggests you're attached and playing away.

Get on the cams and get verified. A photo verification means nothing really on a single male profile. If you have webcam verifications saying you're a decent guy, then you'll be able to build on that.

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By *harAndBryCouple
23 weeks ago

Downham Market

"Is it possible to get some advice on my profile"

What profile? That's not a profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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23 weeks ago

Central

Give the people who you want to meet what you assess is what they'd need, to make the right choice

As others have said, read the posts from others who struggled and the tips given to them and take it on board.

Ultimately, it has to be your insights and choices, otherwise it's not accurately your profile

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, do a search on the forums where other people have asked for similar advice. Peruse the forums and look at other men's profiles to get a general idea, a 'look and feel' of their profiles. Get some inspiration from these profiles, without having to plagiarise. Avoid the use of AI.

With that said you really don't have much of a profile to critique.

Whatever you decide to do good luck.

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By *enAdams87Man
23 weeks ago

Halifax

"Hey all,

Is it possible to get some advice on my profile

In regards to coaching - I know the ratio to men is a lot higher to women

What I’m asking is what do you say to women/couples that really catch the eye

Thanks all x"

You need to write a bio.

Your profile is your advert about you and you get one chance to sell yourself.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
23 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Profile sucks x

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By *izandpaulCouple
22 weeks ago

merseyside

Profile just shouts lazy, lazy, lazy.

A man that just can't be bothered, probably the biggest turn off ever.

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By *ose_53Woman
22 weeks ago

harrow

Four days from your original post and you still not changed a thing ….. why ? You are obviously not serious about how you project yourself on here.

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By *arkdawsonMan
22 weeks ago

around

"Hey all,

Is it possible to get some advice on my profile

In regards to coaching - I know the ratio to men is a lot higher to women

What I’m asking is what do you say to women/couples that really catch the eye

Thanks all x"

Give 3£ and I’ll be your personal hitch you will be beating them away mate !

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By *teveanddebsCouple
22 weeks ago

Norwich

[Removed by poster at 14/12/25 06:38:59]

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By *teveanddebsCouple
22 weeks ago

Norwich

The problem with telling people to 'search for other threads asking profile advice' is that they will get thousands of results that all say 'search for other threads asking profile advice'

What we need is a sticky giving that advice.

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By *ullsfan77Man
22 weeks ago

Torquay

You need to write that bio. That’s what garners interest and may spark a connection. Mine is probably not that inspiring but it is honest and doesn’t flower things up. I have also provided an explanation as to why I can’t always host. This seems to be very important on here, as to many, it’s a problem.

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By *harAndBryCouple
22 weeks ago

Downham Market

"You need to write that bio"

Guy asked the question six days ago. He's online right now and still not made any effort at all to update anything. He's absolutely advertising himself the right way.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"You need to write that bio

Guy asked the question six days ago. He's online right now and still not made any effort at all to update anything. He's absolutely advertising himself the right way."

There was also another thread, since deleted I think, where he asked the same question a bit later, didn't like the answers and it all got rather heated

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By *arkdawsonMan
14 weeks ago

around

"Hey all,

Is it possible to get some advice on my profile

In regards to coaching - I know the ratio to men is a lot higher to women

What I’m asking is what do you say to women/couples that really catch the eye

Stop using Minecraft pictures

Thanks all x"

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By *onMogsMan
14 weeks ago

Lincoln

I know I’m not op but I’ll happily take advice

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By *teveanddebsCouple
14 weeks ago

Norwich

Get on the cams and get verified. A photo verification means nothing really on a single male profile."

Neither does a Cam veri

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