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By *sm225 OP   Man
24 weeks ago

hull

I’m a 30 year old man iv always had the fantasy of been with a much older woman , just wondered if anyone had any advice on maybe how to go about this maybe we’re to start ?

Any advice appreciated

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
24 weeks ago

Debauchery

Maybe talk to an older woman but try not to make her sound like she’s just something you want to do to tick off on your bucket list.

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By *effdelightMan
24 weeks ago

Grimsby

Love older women. Love their bodies but also the insight into life and interesting conversations. Mostly been with older ladies for that reason x

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
24 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

I love younger men but most seem to think a six pack and pornhub style pounding for 5 minutes makes them amazing.

Bloody youth of today!!!!

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By *arkTemptMan
24 weeks ago

West midlands

Older women catch my eye instantly, not just for their experience, but for the way they carry desire with confidence, humour, and zero hesitation.

If you’re the kind of woman who knows what she likes and loves exploring with someone who can match your energy… you’ll find me exactly where you want me to be.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Find a woman who is attractive to you and contact her. Just be yourself and be aware that most older women can detect bullshit and pick up lines a mile away.

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By *enny48Man
24 weeks ago

Easingwold

Wife loves being a cougar

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By *23bbcMan
24 weeks ago

Romford

@_sm225 If that's what you really like I think this site is hands down the best for this! Also some clubs do cougar and cub nights!

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By *shford_5Man
24 weeks ago

Ashford

Always loved older women when a young man and lucky enough to experience a few and learn and be totally captivated by. Even now older there are still more mature and incredibly sexy women about. A naughty ex we had a few times with other guys, she preferred younger I preferred her with older, both were fucking wonderful..she's still a cougar now and I often wank thinking about her

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By *otstuff77Woman
24 weeks ago

to close for comfort

I've had a couple of younger guys (not at the same time, unfortunately🤭) since joining here... I don't think I'll be crossing them off anytime soon. It's a thumbs up from me

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By *otstuff77Woman
24 weeks ago

to close for comfort


"I've had a couple of younger guys (not at the same time, unfortunately🤭) since joining here... I don't think I'll be crossing them off anytime soon. It's a thumbs up from me "

Not much advice there ☝️ haha,sorry..

I'd say go for it,send a message. What's the worst that can happen 🤷‍♀️

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By *andb69Couple
24 weeks ago

leeds


"I’m a 30 year old man iv always had the fantasy of been with a much older woman , just wondered if anyone had any advice on maybe how to go about this maybe we’re to start ?

Any advice appreciated "

Here's some advice: just say "I'd like to fuck you because you're old". She'll be falling at your feet.

Seriously, do you think any woman will give you what you want because you have a kink for the old? Women want to be wanted because they are appreciated for being sexy, attractive, or beautiful, not because they are old.

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By *arkdawsonMan
24 weeks ago

around


"I’m a 30 year old man iv always had the fantasy of been with a much older woman , just wondered if anyone had any advice on maybe how to go about this maybe we’re to start ?

Any advice appreciated

Here's some advice: just say "I'd like to fuck you because you're old". She'll be falling at your feet.

Seriously, do you think any woman will give you what you want because you have a kink for the old? Women want to be wanted because they are appreciated for being sexy, attractive, or beautiful, not because they are old. "

Part one was hilarious part two pretty good point

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
24 weeks ago

marlborough

L is 10 years older than me and absolutely amazing. I have to work hard to keep up with her appetite which is just incredible.

She often tells me that she thought that she wasn’t attractive to men anymore and that when I started talking to her she wasn’t sure if I was interested or not, as it had been so long that a guy had paid much attention to her. I make sure she knows how beautiful and attractive I think she is on a daily basis.

I don’t think you need to do anything differently to attract an older woman, just be honest, tell her you think she is attractive and that you’d love to take her out. Be a gentleman.

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
24 weeks ago

Whyteleafe

One of my kinks is to be made love to in front of my husband. Sadly most young men on here seem to have no idea what that even means!

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
24 weeks ago

marlborough


"One of my kinks is to be made love to in front of my husband. Sadly most young men on here seem to have no idea what that even means!"

So you think he would want to watch you with me and L? Has he watch you with a couple before?

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By *shford_5Man
24 weeks ago

Ashford

One of my exes is a cougar, we broke up ten years back but still have to keep in touch with kids. She's 53 now, looks great. Was with a guy 22 years younger for quite a while and now she just has occasional younger guys. Love when she tells me, wish she told more details

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By *ister1Man
24 weeks ago

north west


"One of my kinks is to be made love to in front of my husband. Sadly most young men on here seem to have no idea what that even means!"

You need a older guy to do that xx

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By *immy 1968Man
24 weeks ago

Hessle


"I love younger men but most seem to think a six pack and pornhub style pounding for 5 minutes makes them amazing.

Bloody youth of today!!!!"

Maybe try a slightly older version 😜

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By *tanley blackMan
24 weeks ago

uk


"Maybe talk to an older woman but try not to make her sound like she’s just something you want to do to tick off on your bucket list. "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"I’m a 30 year old man iv always had the fantasy of been with a much older woman , just wondered if anyone had any advice on maybe how to go about this maybe we’re to start ?

Any advice appreciated "

Well my partner is 13years older than me (looks my age) we accidentally met in a bar and been together 4 years she’s amazing and my best friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"I’m a 30 year old man iv always had the fantasy of been with a much older woman , just wondered if anyone had any advice on maybe how to go about this maybe we’re to start ?

Any advice appreciated "

And may I add it’s amazing 😂🤣 passion is unreal x

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By *oungstud012124Man
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

Snap always dated couple years older but want a mature or cougar myself for long term

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By *izandpaulCouple
24 weeks ago

merseyside

Bit of advice from an old lady.

Go to a club, slide up alongside a mature lady that takes your fancy.

Whisper into her ear "Hi, I find you incredibly sexy as you smell and look like my nan just before she dropped dead"

The gushing will be in torrents.

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By *aandLoCouple
24 weeks ago

Southampton

I like younger guys provided they are articulate and can hold a conversation beyond "seen my 6 pack?"

And if you actually refer to me as 'older' or 'mature' etc that's an immediate thanks but f##k off. 😡

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By *b-92Man
24 weeks ago

Manchester

I definitely have a thing for cougars and older women, I can't resist

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By *immy 1968Man
24 weeks ago

Hessle


"I like younger guys provided they are articulate and can hold a conversation beyond "seen my 6 pack?"

And if you actually refer to me as 'older' or 'mature' etc that's an immediate thanks but f##k off. 😡"

Stunning 😍

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By *heboobieloverMan
24 weeks ago

Hamilton

As a 44 year old I've been meeting offer woman since I was 19 and dont think ill ever grow tired of ot. Best times of my life have been when my body has been wrapped around a sexy older ladies legs

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By *aughtyFreddoMan
24 weeks ago

Coventry


"I like younger guys provided they are articulate and can hold a conversation beyond "seen my 6 pack?"

And if you actually refer to me as 'older' or 'mature' etc that's an immediate thanks but f##k off. 😡"

Love your profile

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By *eerkat1234Man
24 weeks ago

wimborne


"I love younger men but most seem to think a six pack and pornhub style pounding for 5 minutes makes them amazing.

Bloody youth of today!!!!"

That’s the problem with youth of today. Literally think of their cocks and that’s it.

It’s so much more than just wham bam Thankyou mam.

Just a shame I get put in that category cause of age

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By *el111Man
24 weeks ago

Essex/London

Always had a thing for older women

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By *ellicateMan
24 weeks ago

Forfar


"Bit of advice from an old lady.

Go to a club, slide up alongside a mature lady that takes your fancy.

Whisper into her ear "Hi, I find you incredibly sexy as you smell and look like my nan just before she dropped dead"

The gushing will be in torrents. "

Hahaha. So was his nan's without the Tena!!

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By *ars1981Man
24 weeks ago

Sheffield

Always loved 40 year old ladies - they're younger than me now though 🤣

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By *enny48Man
24 weeks ago

Easingwold

Wife is 53 but loves younger guys

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
24 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Always loved 40 year old ladies - they're younger than me now though 🤣"

I'm not

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By *JMidsMan
24 weeks ago

Warwick

Age is but a number and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The beautiful ladies I am usually attracted to happen to be older than me, but I never pay attention to age to be honest, a beautiful lady is a beautiful lady.☺️

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By *oonbath89Man
24 weeks ago

radstock

I’ve always like older woman ever since I fucked a mates mum when I was early 20s , but as people have said above , don’t make them feel like they’re just a fantasy , make them feel worth it and not treat them like a piece of meat

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