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By *izzachit OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Derry

For real though, its raw and honest but happy to recieve tips and tweaks

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By *he milf next doorWoman
25 weeks ago

bluebell woods

Dude rewrite it I see nothing that would entice me to message you it’s all waffle

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

It is certainly different, if a touch long.

We don't see any real problem with it if we are honest.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
25 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

If cringe is what you’re going for; you nailed it!

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By *risxbrisxMan
25 weeks ago

Bristol

Delete the 'not a' list imo..

It also reads like its written by a teenager not a man.

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
25 weeks ago

London

Good pics sense of humour profile summary, just location is a problem. Not a lot of people with think you’d fly or travel by boat to see them xx

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
25 weeks ago

Newry

I quite like it. But as a fellow Nordie the humour is relatable.

You'll see no doubt already from the few replies already that you'll never please everyone. My advice? If you're happy with it, run with it. You can always amend it as you go along if later you decide there's something you're specifically looking for (or not). Your profile doesn't have to be the finished article straight out of the traps - it can grow and evolve with you.

Good luck 🍀

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Tamworth

If you feel your profile represents you and your personality well, I wouldn’t change it. Your aim should never be to attract as many people as possible. It should be to show yourself off to the people you’re compatible with.

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By *harAndBryCouple
25 weeks ago

Downham Market


"Crimson_Rose: Your aim should never be to attract as many people as possible. It should be to show yourself off to the people you’re compatible with."

Very, very much this. Not seen it out like this before but totally agree.

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By *ickD80Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

This is one of the most original, non generic profiles i’ve seen for a long time. It’s not amazing and doesn’t really tell me much about you but the way it’s written tells me a lot more than the actual content. It gives the impression that you’re laid back, you don’t take life too seriously and you have a sense of humour….so if that’s what you’re like then it’s doing what it’s supposed to do.

The only negative comment i’d make is that you say you’re not in bad shape but you’re not in great shape either (or something like that) but your pictures show that you are actually in really great shape, so maybe you should consider removing that as it’s a bit contradictory.

And definitely bonus points for not using AI to write your bio like so many now obviously do.

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By *rMrsBiCardiffCouple
25 weeks ago

Roath

We dont know what you had before because now it says "fill in later" which isn't great.

But the problem with asking others what you should write is you are getting a snapshot of what they want to see, rather than what you want to portray.

And what you want to portray is paramount.

If you'd asked "how can I word this more to show I'm looking for "deeper connection than one off one night stands" or "one off no strings fun" then fair enough.

But people cant tell you how to word things to project what you are seeking unless you explain what you are seeking.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
25 weeks ago

Narnia

Change the "can travel" bit and add a "just ask" somewhere.

Then you've nailed it.

Oh, and send lots of HEY messages 👍

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
25 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

What you had before was 100% better than now. Like others have said it was definitely different and stood out in the sea of sameness. While it wasn’t for me it will be for others (several have said they liked it). You’re way more likely to get results by standing out.

It might be worth recognising that conversion rates are much lower here than on typical dating apps regardless. Being yourself will always be better than the same as the homogeneous hoards.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

Central

It should be your profile, not the concoction of others. Add to it as appropriate

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By *inkPomPomWoman
24 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Just had a look and its empty now, fill in later would be an auto pass by too

Not sure what was there before

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Just had a look and its empty now, fill in later would be an auto pass by too

Not sure what was there before "

It was good. Pretty funny actually, showed he had a sense of humour.

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