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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

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By *agiccasterMan
25 weeks ago

worksop

Bi guy here

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By *heSouthCoupleCouple
25 weeks ago

The South

Funny enough, we dont struggle for that, but struggle for couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Funny enough, we dont struggle for that, but struggle for couples. "

I guess you show off a lot more than us! Nice pegging video

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By *tacey_N_JaxCouple
25 weeks ago

Prescot

A club on a bi night would be a good idea

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By *acky RacersCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincoln


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

We have had our most successful and fruitful friendships with genuine bisexual guys who actually meet and play via bi nights in clubs and parties.

So many timewasters on here and single bi guys seem to be one of the most difficult groups to pin down...we've pretty much given up on here...

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By *unseeker87Man
25 weeks ago

belfast

Up for bi fun in Belfast. Love a good mmf

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By *orksfun68Man
25 weeks ago

goole


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

I’d of thought you’d be spoilt for choice it seems blokes outnumber women and couples by a fair bit on here. If anyone is interested drop me a message

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By *uriousCpl91Couple
25 weeks ago

Stockport

We are from stockport but we are both bi so that wouldnt fit your bill

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By *s-two-75Couple
25 weeks ago

no clubs, no meet!

We find clubs and bi nights are the best bet

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By *rasshopper201Man
25 weeks ago

kendal

Hi I’m bi and would love to meet you both but your age range dosnt include me I’d travel to your area and have done it afew times I’m genuine and honest and can hold a good conversation please check me out oh it might be a deal breaker but I’m cut downstairs

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By *issot60Man
25 weeks ago

south east

Wish I lived near you!x

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By *lwayslooking22Man
25 weeks ago

newcastle

Wish it was easy to find a couple looking for a bi guy

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By *onyHoveMan
25 weeks ago

North East

I've noticed a few around here in the north who seem sorted and sensible, and understand discretion etc.

Always happy to chat and see how we get along.

Good luck to all

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By *assiieneilxMan
25 weeks ago

Newcastle under lyme

I’m bi too

But also outside your age range too

I’m uncut

In fact you may have viewed my profile

But obviously not what you are looking for

I’ve found plenty of bi guys on here

There’s also plenty of fab straight too

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By *allum85Man
25 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm here

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By *ememberMan
25 weeks ago

here


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

Attending Bi events is always worth while .

James x

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By *heSouthCoupleCouple
25 weeks ago

The South

Thank you, yeah maybe, we dont mind showing off if it means quality responses.

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By *ucksguy2000Man
25 weeks ago

aylesbury

Single bi guy here

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By *akingtheplungeMan
25 weeks ago

kent

I love to meet a couple, curious and keen

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By *anny34500Man
25 weeks ago

Luton

Bi here

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Fab geography is so very frustrating xx

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By *ou only live onceMan
25 weeks ago

London

Seek and ye shall find!

👋🏽

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By *poolGuyMan
25 weeks ago

Liverpool

Us genuine single bi guys do exist who are interested in getting to know couples. But it's location and age restriction which we respect too.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Its a trap.. lol jokes

Might have to take a road trip

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By *KS88Man
25 weeks ago

Lancaster

M-F-M 😜

Dominant Lover

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By *oobaaMan
25 weeks ago

Sth Tyne

I dont get my hopes up here anymore, it simply isnt worth it.

If a meet happens then it happens.

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By * New YorkieMan
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Bi guy here with verifciations by meets. In Yorkshire and I travel as well. Love bi nights at clubs and party invites.

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By *s-two-75Couple
25 weeks ago

no clubs, no meet!


"M-F-M 😜

Dominant Lover "

Exactly what us Bi couples DONT want 😂😂😂. Hence the post 🙄

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By *ales690Man
25 weeks ago

N.Wales

Morning all

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By *orthampton jamesMan
25 weeks ago

Northampton

Bi man here looking for a fun couple, come say hello if you're interested

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By *pthemanorMan
25 weeks ago

Abingdon on Thames

Yoo-hoo

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By *uiceboxerMan
25 weeks ago

Hartlepool

Hi

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By *awpleasureMan
25 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Love to meet a bi couple for regular meets.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
25 weeks ago

andover

We have the same, struggle to find the right guy. Reading through though, might have to try a bi night

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

We have much more success at bi events than we do on here.

We have met genuinely bi guys on here but they are few and far between.

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By *99cjbMan
25 weeks ago

Grantham

Bi guy here in Lincs, looking for a couple, and happy to host. Would be interested in going to a club, but due to limited income, I’m generally priced out!

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By *aulnextMan
25 weeks ago

Hoar Cross Staffordshire

Recently enjoyed my first bi experience with a couple

It was so erotic!

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By *m3232Man
25 weeks ago

maidenhead

Bi here in Berkshire.

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By *ropenmindedMan
25 weeks ago

honley

I am bi

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
25 weeks ago

Newport

Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt. "

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me.

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
25 weeks ago

Newport


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me."

it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me. it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol"

I get that. My wife is bi too, so if we make it to a club or social together we won't be upping those numbers.

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By *igjim69newMan
25 weeks ago

Near Scunthorpe

Bi guy here xx

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By *inycock197Man
25 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

Find it hard to believe that a couple finds it hard to find a bi guy....I'm a bi guy and find it impossible to find a couple

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By *iguysMan
25 weeks ago

clayton le woods


"Find it hard to believe that a couple finds it hard to find a bi guy....I'm a bi guy and find it impossible to find a couple"
... ditto

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By *s-two-75Couple
25 weeks ago

no clubs, no meet!


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me. it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol"

This situation is more common than you think, we are similar, she likes to watch guys play and interact with hubby, only occasionally with certain guys will she join in and then only soft play.

But most bi guys are wanting the female to play with them as well.

This is where i believe the OP and many of us struggle

There are bi guys out there but both sides have to be attracted to them and they have to tick the boxes of only playing direct with the male which many don’t want as they want female contact which is understandable I suppose.

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By *nexpectedMMan
25 weeks ago

Here


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me. it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol

This situation is more common than you think, we are similar, she likes to watch guys play and interact with hubby, only occasionally with certain guys will she join in and then only soft play.

But most bi guys are wanting the female to play with them as well.

This is where i believe the OP and many of us struggle

There are bi guys out there but both sides have to be attracted to them and they have to tick the boxes of only playing direct with the male which many don’t want as they want female contact which is understandable I suppose."

I must be quite rare by the fact I’m quite happy for just MM fun with a couple…

I consider myself fully bisexual, so I’m equally satisfied in any scenario and I don’t need both partners to be physically involved to enjoy myself… and, I’ll add, I always respect the boundaries that the couple have stated. There’s no excuses not to.

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By *s-two-75Couple
25 weeks ago

no clubs, no meet!


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me. it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol

This situation is more common than you think, we are similar, she likes to watch guys play and interact with hubby, only occasionally with certain guys will she join in and then only soft play.

But most bi guys are wanting the female to play with them as well.

This is where i believe the OP and many of us struggle

There are bi guys out there but both sides have to be attracted to them and they have to tick the boxes of only playing direct with the male which many don’t want as they want female contact which is understandable I suppose.

I must be quite rare by the fact I’m quite happy for just MM fun with a couple…

I consider myself fully bisexual, so I’m equally satisfied in any scenario and I don’t need both partners to be physically involved to enjoy myself… and, I’ll add, I always respect the boundaries that the couple have stated. There’s no excuses not to. "

You are are rare breed sir

The amount of profiles we read that say, I’m bi but only when there is a female involved or I’m bi but not attracted to men 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

This to is really says well I’m really only interested in the women..

Either that or they are lying to themselves 😂

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By *nexpectedMMan
25 weeks ago

Here


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me. it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol

This situation is more common than you think, we are similar, she likes to watch guys play and interact with hubby, only occasionally with certain guys will she join in and then only soft play.

But most bi guys are wanting the female to play with them as well.

This is where i believe the OP and many of us struggle

There are bi guys out there but both sides have to be attracted to them and they have to tick the boxes of only playing direct with the male which many don’t want as they want female contact which is understandable I suppose.

I must be quite rare by the fact I’m quite happy for just MM fun with a couple…

I consider myself fully bisexual, so I’m equally satisfied in any scenario and I don’t need both partners to be physically involved to enjoy myself… and, I’ll add, I always respect the boundaries that the couple have stated. There’s no excuses not to.

You are are rare breed sir

The amount of profiles we read that say, I’m bi but only when there is a female involved or I’m bi but not attracted to men 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

This to is really says well I’m really only interested in the women..

Either that or they are lying to themselves 😂"

I just don’t see the point in any of the scenarios you’ve pointed out. Nobody benefits in the end… maybe I’m just old skool!

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By *ocker6104Man
25 weeks ago

Lincoln

Hi Wacky Racers, I'd love to come and play with you both but your profile blocks single men? Feel free to look at my profile etc and let me know if you're interested. Take care and good luck anyway. X

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By *heekyCharmMan
25 weeks ago

Colne


"Funny enough, we dont struggle for that, but struggle for couples.

I guess you show off a lot more than us! Nice pegging video "

I was gonna say this too!!

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By *omis.69Man
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

Finding genuine bi couples is also a nightmare

Many claim to be, but in my experience, husbands who like the thought but when you try to arrange a meet they go cold

Makes it a nightmare at times

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By *heonixrising500Man
25 weeks ago

Barnsley

I new to bi open to ideas

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By *ature male OldhamMan
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

Lot's of different views on this post which is great 👍 Personally I find that honesty is the best policy, my profile states that I am bi curious, yes I am attracted to both genders but have yet to experience any sexual contact with a man. Ideally my first experience would be with a MF couple for the reason mentioned above that I am attracted to both men and women. I appreciate that not everyone will agree with me but I would rather be honest. And yes it is very difficult to get a meet!

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By *wertyjk01Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow

Seems like everything has been said already, but I'll say my thoughts anyway as why not!

I too have found it difficult to find couples looking for a bi guy, I can understand how some of the timewasters on here give a sour perception of the male clientele of this site but the genuine and reliable bi guys are out there, myself included

Another good point which got touched upon earlier is the fact that when meeting a couple most would assume both M/F would be involved especially for a bi encounter, which could put some people off if they're just expected to play with the M half, I personally do not have this issue but I know friends on here who do think like that and will often turn down meets/conversations after hearing that's the case.

Also at least from my experience, I've found that the individuals I'm speaking to are usually interested in a single meet, a one off, whereas in a ideal world a long lasting friendship (if we get on of course) would be formed, but that's not the general consensus I've gotten, I'm happy to be proven wrong though!

Maybe one day I'll work up the courage to try a club, seems to be easier meeting genuine, reliable people that way.

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By *heekyCharmMan
25 weeks ago

Colne

If you’re a couple looking for a bi guy but the female doesn’t want to get involved, then you’d be better off with a gay guy, surely?

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By *idcot58Man
25 weeks ago

didco

I am bi but in south wales

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By *ottom charlieMan
25 weeks ago

Washington


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "
well your age range does limit the amount of genuine guys who can contact you,,, you can meet a few older guys upto 60 and maybe they will know the perfect guys who fits your needs

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"If you’re a couple looking for a bi guy but the female doesn’t want to get involved, then you’d be better off with a gay guy, surely?"

I do think this is quite an important point. I think everything should be discussed and agreed in advance, boundaries set etc. Bi to me implies both genders will be involved, if the F is only watching then I'd consider that an MM encounter with an F audience. Which I wouldn't be against necessarily, but if I was looking for a true bi encounter then while we were discussing it and setting boundaries, that might well put me off.

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By * New YorkieMan
25 weeks ago

Leeds


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt.

I realise I'm pretty new here, but I find this shortage of genuine bi men surprising. From reading comments on this post its obviously true but it does surprise me.

I'm bisexual but with limited experience with guys, but the idea of playing with a couple is very appealing. I honestly thought there were more like me. it seems alot of bi guys are either too afraid to kind of come out and admit it or are older men. When we go to socials we are normally the only female ( straight ) husband ( bi ) couple in the room lol

This situation is more common than you think, we are similar, she likes to watch guys play and interact with hubby, only occasionally with certain guys will she join in and then only soft play.

But most bi guys are wanting the female to play with them as well.

This is where i believe the OP and many of us struggle

There are bi guys out there but both sides have to be attracted to them and they have to tick the boxes of only playing direct with the male which many don’t want as they want female contact which is understandable I suppose."

I do enjoy just M/M play as well. 😉 But always more horny being watched or someone joining in, M or F.

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
25 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

I'd have thought people would be beating your door down. As others have said try a bi night at a club. Not everyone on here will waste your time but equally a lot do.

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By *oiluvfunMan
25 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

You have Northwich sauna right on your doorstep, shouldn't be difficult to find a bi guy in there...

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By *aughty-oneMan
25 weeks ago

Stansted

I just find it impossible to get anything, straight, bi or even human on this site. 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Inbox always open

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By *ecretsafe2025Man
25 weeks ago

Coventry

I’m in Coventry/ Solihull bi and curious

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By *s-two-75Couple
25 weeks ago

no clubs, no meet!


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

You have Northwich sauna right on your doorstep, shouldn't be difficult to find a bi guy in there... "

You be surprised how many none genuine bi guys go there following the ladies of the couple round like sheep but when she says play with him first they disappear 😂😂😂.

We have always had a good time there and met some nice folk regardless..

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
25 weeks ago

Ipswich


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

You have Northwich sauna right on your doorstep, shouldn't be difficult to find a bi guy in there...

You be surprised how many none genuine bi guys go there following the ladies of the couple round like sheep but when she says play with him first they disappear 😂😂😂.

We have always had a good time there and met some nice folk regardless..

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We had that at our last VA bi night. The single straight guys were after Bunny. She simply told them it they don't play with the boys then they're not welcome

Why go to a bi night if you are single amd straight??

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By *um_play_on_meMan
25 weeks ago

Shoe Town


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

You have Northwich sauna right on your doorstep, shouldn't be difficult to find a bi guy in there...

You be surprised how many none genuine bi guys go there following the ladies of the couple round like sheep but when she says play with him first they disappear 😂😂😂.

We have always had a good time there and met some nice folk regardless..

We had that at our last VA bi night. The single straight guys were after Bunny. She simply told them it they don't play with the boys then they're not welcome

Why go to a bi night if you are single amd straight??"

Because there isn't an extortionate joining and entrance fee

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By *ature male OldhamMan
25 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

On your profile you describe the scenario you are looking for as a MMF meet I'm not being pedantic but what you are really looking for is a MM scenario with the lady not participating with the invited male. Perhaps this is putting off some bi males looking for a full MMF scenario..maybe changing the wording might attract the type of man you are looking for..I'm not criticising..just offering an opinion.

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By *i_guy37Man
25 weeks ago

Oxford

I would say bi nights at clubs are still your best bet. Or if this isn't for you, try to meet local guys with a decent profile and veris who are willing to have a quick social meet first (to eliminate any time wasters).

Make it clear he should enjoy playing with the guy as well. When I've met bi couples, I generally start by sucking the guy off. It just seems a good way to start and I genuinely enjoy cock.

BTW I'll be at the VA bi night next Friday if anyone wants to chat.

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By *ung_londonMan
25 weeks ago

London

Yes a club bi-night is a good place to start! And there’s often a bit of chat on here around specific events which gives an opportunity to identify people who might be compatible and say a discreet hello to beforehand. Good luck!

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By *kejaMan
25 weeks ago

bangor

Uncut and bi but outside your age preference sadly

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By *ibroMan
25 weeks ago

essex


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

Cum say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

I don't get it!? This site is full with bisexual men or at least bi curious, even if their profile says straight... How?

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By *ikepdgMan
25 weeks ago

stockport

Genuine bi guy here

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By *mizhereMan
25 weeks ago

thame and surrounds

I'm bi m always have been always will be

No point in denying it

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By *pthemanorMan
25 weeks ago

Abingdon on Thames

Bi fella here. More interested in playing with Mr than Mrs, but happy to play my part.

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By *D07Man
25 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I'm bi but just oral. I love to suck dick

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By *etro manMan
25 weeks ago

manchester

Hi if you’re interested in reading my profile I have met a few couples and we all had a fun time over the years clubs .hotel .beach . Car both took turns to drive and bi panties sauna and just men party fun

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By *existentialMan
25 weeks ago

Didcot


"We have the same, struggle to find the right guy. Reading through though, might have to try a bi night"

You won't have any trouble. Try the Wicked and Remix nights at Swindon Swingers .... probably your most convenient club.

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By *existentialMan
25 weeks ago

Didcot


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

We have had our most successful and fruitful friendships with genuine bisexual guys who actually meet and play via bi nights in clubs and parties.

So many timewasters on here and single bi guys seem to be one of the most difficult groups to pin down...we've pretty much given up on here..."

This

And these two know what they are talking about

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By *ropenmindedMan
24 weeks ago

honley

Struggling to find bi couples

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By *eyeYCouple
24 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

We have guy's blocked, not because we actually want to but it's been a case of overwhelm.

We simply search as and when and message those with veri's and we feel have a similar attitude directly with face pic's of us.

Not had any problem other than diaries not aligning etc 😊😘

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By *omis.69Man
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

Genuine respectful discreet midlands based bi guy

And like most on here struggling for a genie couple for mutual pleasure

We can only live in hope lol

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By *andy199Man
24 weeks ago

bedford


"Struggling to find bi couples"
I’m bi curious with no actual experience and finding it very difficult to meet a (mf) couple that are willing to help gain that experience

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Genuine bi guy here just don’t flaunt it due to getting hammered of guys and prefer playing with couples only

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By *appyman3943Man
24 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Available if required!

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By *igjim69newMan
24 weeks ago

Near Scunthorpe

Bi guy here haven't been to a club in years love to be invited to bi party or something similar xx

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
24 weeks ago

Ipswich


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

You have Northwich sauna right on your doorstep, shouldn't be difficult to find a bi guy in there...

You be surprised how many none genuine bi guys go there following the ladies of the couple round like sheep but when she says play with him first they disappear 😂😂😂.

We have always had a good time there and met some nice folk regardless..

We had that at our last VA bi night. The single straight guys were after Bunny. She simply told them it they don't play with the boys then they're not welcome

Why go to a bi night if you are single amd straight??

Because there isn't an extortionate joining and entrance fee"

Well there are the same rules for VA on bi or straight nights. On bi nights you definitely aren't playing with us, so price seems a moot point

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By *ddyerdsThickCockBeastMan
24 weeks ago

Erdington

Lol bi guy here, and just an fyi you may be missing out on genuine bi guys aa you are blocking single men from contacting you on your profile!

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By *alisburybisngle4funMan
24 weeks ago

Salisbury

Genuine single bi guy here looking for more experience especially would love to find a hot couple with bi male

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By *r. MacMan
24 weeks ago

Bexleyheath

Single bi here love to have a regular couple

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By *ames2602Man
24 weeks ago

whittle


"Same here, bi male married couple here we don't want to meet other couples just bi men. Most of the time the guys on fab that say they are bi aren't and just say it to get to the wife or will only go as far as having Thier dick sucked lmao. Then the other types of bi guys we get messaging us are large older men out of our age range hairy big guys wearing lingerie. Then when we say sorry not our type they get butt hurt. "

Well Hello

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By *acky RacersCouple
24 weeks ago

Lincoln


"Lol bi guy here, and just an fyi you may be missing out on genuine bi guys aa you are blocking single men from contacting you on your profile! "

We had them unblocked when we were hosting a bi night at a local club...couldn't wait to put the filter back on...so many ugly cock avatars, straight men who don't read profiles and time wasters...we seriously aren't missing out...we like to curate our time on here to enhance our lives not ruin it with dick heads...

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By *eyeYCouple
24 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Lol bi guy here, and just an fyi you may be missing out on genuine bi guys aa you are blocking single men from contacting you on your profile! "

Oh dear boy, merely head to the search function, select guys, bi, age and distance.. So no, just in our time. 😘

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By *nnejohn469Couple
24 weeks ago

Wanstead, London

Hi we are close and have been offering for some time.

John

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By *iscreetfun6951Man
24 weeks ago

Doncaster

Mmmmmm pegging that's on the bucket list massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Anyone after a bi guy in Leeds?...

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By *um_play_on_meMan
24 weeks ago

Shoe Town


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

You have Northwich sauna right on your doorstep, shouldn't be difficult to find a bi guy in there...

You be surprised how many none genuine bi guys go there following the ladies of the couple round like sheep but when she says play with him first they disappear 😂😂😂.

We have always had a good time there and met some nice folk regardless..

We had that at our last VA bi night. The single straight guys were after Bunny. She simply told them it they don't play with the boys then they're not welcome

Why go to a bi night if you are single amd straight??

Because there isn't an extortionate joining and entrance fee

Well there are the same rules for VA on bi or straight nights. On bi nights you definitely aren't playing with us, so price seems a moot point"

At one club maybe. Northwich is £19 with no membership. Chams membership and entry for a single guy is much cheaper than a 'normal' night. A lot of clubs are similar.

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By *99cjbMan
24 weeks ago

Grantham


"Find it hard to believe that a couple finds it hard to find a bi guy....I'm a bi guy and find it impossible to find a couple"

That’s the same issue I have. More often than not I’m classed as too old.

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By *rontmanMan
24 weeks ago

Derby and often London

I’m a bi guy, but struggle to find couples.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
24 weeks ago

Northampton

Left a message a week ago, not a thing, hoped to at least have a chat, but no, I won't give in

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By *ddyerdsThickCockBeastMan
24 weeks ago

Erdington


"Lol bi guy here, and just an fyi you may be missing out on genuine bi guys aa you are blocking single men from contacting you on your profile!

We had them unblocked when we were hosting a bi night at a local club...couldn't wait to put the filter back on...so many ugly cock avatars, straight men who don't read profiles and time wasters...we seriously aren't missing out...we like to curate our time on here to enhance our lives not ruin it with dick heads..."

Oh that makes sense... i forgot straight men existed on here too my filters are set to bi couples and singles only 😂😂😂😂

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By *teelhorseMan
24 weeks ago

andover

Bi guy here

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By *ames2602Man
24 weeks ago

whittle

Geniune vers bi guy here in north west. Copules come say hi

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By *rightonsteveMan
24 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve been looking for a couple who want to meet a bi guy. It’s not easy.

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By *anny34500Man
24 weeks ago

Luton

Bi male here

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 weeks ago

London


"I’m a bi guy, but struggle to find couples. "

Yes. Finding a couple where I find them both attractive (and vice versa) is like the Holy Grail...

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By *inglemale6Man
24 weeks ago

near you

Bi male looking

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By *D07Man
24 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Bisexual but just oral in Huddersfield. I really love to suck dick

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By *anny34500Man
24 weeks ago

Luton

Hey

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By *alisburybisngle4funMan
24 weeks ago

Salisbury

Single bi guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us

We have had our most successful and fruitful friendships with genuine bisexual guys who actually meet and play via bi nights in clubs and parties.

So many timewasters on here and single bi guys seem to be one of the most difficult groups to pin down...we've pretty much given up on here..."

This is us as well. Club meets only really

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By *otopaxiMan
24 weeks ago

nostalgia

You have to _emember, in this dynamic there are three people that need to find each other attractive!

Far too many people think that if your genitalia matches what they are looking for they should want you, yes, there are people that are attracted to that, but there are also people that are attracted to people, he may be more attractive to me than her, and she may be more attractive to me than him…. Neither may be attracted to me! All eventualities are ok, don’t be offended in any of these, at the end of the day everyone has preferences, and if they don’t match there are plenty of people that will be attracted to you and them and him and her and blah blah blah….

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By *usty KnightMan
23 weeks ago

Nantwich

Are most looking for bi tops, bottoms or versatile?

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By *awpleasureMan
23 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Are most looking for bi tops, bottoms or versatile?"

I'd say bi tops as a lot of women like to watch their hubby getting fucked.

I'm bi vers

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By *penminded7Man
23 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Here

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By *ister_EMan
23 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Experienced Bi (Top) Portsmouth area.

Mainly into MMF 3sums and cuckold fun but also enjoy pleasuring and/or using a guy as his wife watches or film us

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By *etro manMan
23 weeks ago

manchester

Manchester n west I have been to a few clubs party hotel holiday etc meeting if my profile and pictures meet with you approval and you wish to ask me anything

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By *penminded7Man
23 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Im here say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Happy to meet/chat here in Surrey

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By *rindnbump V2Couple
23 weeks ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham


"We’ve really been struggling to find genuine bi guys, not just for a quick meet but who wanna get to know us "

We have the same problem x

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By *ames2602Man
23 weeks ago

whittle

Genuine vers bi guy here. Couples come say hi,if your in north west . Forget my profile,needs help updating.

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By *penminded7Man
23 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Very curious here

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Love to try my first bi to here in Glasgow coud travel for right couple and can host

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By *xstevenxxMan
22 weeks ago

dublin

Never going to be easy - just the joys of fab being overloaded with messers and picture collectors and the people that sting you along

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By *ropenmindedMan
22 weeks ago

honley

Any couples in west yorks

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By *havennaturistsCouple
22 weeks ago

Banff

68 and love servicing both sexes. Not unknown on the nude beach here lol

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
22 weeks ago

London

always here for the genuine people of the site x

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By *pikeyMan
22 weeks ago

chester

Curious here yet to explore my bi side

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By *en BaylissMan
22 weeks ago

leeds usually but sometimes ncl

Bi exhibitionist here love nude beaches

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By *penminded7Man
22 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Very curious here

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By *oltonman69Man
22 weeks ago

Wigan

I would love to find a couple to play with

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

Certainly Bi

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By *unseeker100Man
22 weeks ago

batley

Not hard to find on here

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By *aveonMan
22 weeks ago

Dartford

Totally bi here - check my veris

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By *ames WhyteMan
22 weeks ago

Near Manchester Airport

Happy to help couples locally.

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By *ilkey69Man
22 weeks ago

Barnsley

Bi guy here and always looking for a couple

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By *evelhazeMan
22 weeks ago

north staffs

I’m always looking to make new friends. X

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I’m bi xxx

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By *ropenmindedMan
22 weeks ago

honley

I am bi

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
22 weeks ago

Preston

Have you tried clubs and events etc ?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Would love to find a nice couple 50/60 where I could enjoy some bi play

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By *eturnofthe7Man
22 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Bi curious guy liking for couples

Have met fems and guys singularly

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By *ropenmindedMan
22 weeks ago

honley

Love to find a couple to play with

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By *ubic6Man
22 weeks ago

York

Bi guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I wouldn't trust bi guys personally, they're too handsome, sexy and annoyingly fun to spend time with

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By *pentoall555Man
22 weeks ago

benfleet

Bi guy here

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By *ananabrumMan
22 weeks ago

castle bromwich

Bi giy here - there seems to be huge number of bi guys on here who list their profile as straight.

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By *oyal FunMan
22 weeks ago

Coventry

Would love to find a regular bi couple on here

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By *aven3Man
22 weeks ago

Street

Older bi vers guy in Somerset.Seems there is very little interest from couples in the area.

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By *mizhereMan
22 weeks ago

thame and surrounds


"Bi giy here - there seems to be huge number of bi guys on here who list their profile as straight."

I can understand why as lots of couples won't meet bi men I'd rather be up front about it and let them decided

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By *xstevenxxMan
22 weeks ago

dublin

They just want the sex - and counsel care less

Being a bi top, it’s much better being honest and building up a bit of a connection with the cpl before play

If you can’t be honest saying ur bi I de be thinking what else are they not saying

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By *penminded7Man
22 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Very curious here

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By *ertcamembertMan
22 weeks ago

Reading area


"Have you tried clubs and events etc ? "
Some of my best horny experiences have been with bi couples I have met at clubs

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By *etro manMan
22 weeks ago

manchester

Hi just to add if you need a +1 in the Manchester area read my profile asking any questions club hotel etc text me

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By *unwanted34Man
22 weeks ago

Near Selby

Bi guy here for long term fun with couples x

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
22 weeks ago

watford

I’m vers x

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By *arly_tv31Man
22 weeks ago

Wrexham


"I’m vers x"
me too

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By *idcot58Man
22 weeks ago

didco

I am bottom bi but like to be sucked and rimmed

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
22 weeks ago

bristol

I’m genuinely bi, wish I could open up to my wife about my needs but difficult

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By *penminded7Man
22 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Very curious here for fun

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By *adhouse91Man
22 weeks ago

ashford

I know this is an old post but is it really that hard to find a consistant/reliable bi guy? Im bi 35m and only really been out/ok with it for about a year. So ive not had any expeiance with this yet

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"I know this is an old post but is it really that hard to find a consistant/reliable bi guy?"

I would have thought not, perhaps I'm giving others too much credit for reliability. In my recent experience it's been couples who after initiating contact, either go quiet or casually lie about their intentions. A character crapshoot

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By *ngelLordCouple
22 weeks ago

Newport

Would love to find few genuine bi guys for long term who we can rely and we can enjoy together

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By *awpleasureMan
22 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Would love to find few genuine bi guys for long term who we can rely and we can enjoy together "

Hi great profile and pics but its says you rarely make first contact and single guys are blocked from messaging.

I would make the 2 hour trip to visit you both.

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By *ropenmindedMan
22 weeks ago

honley

Bi guy here

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22 weeks ago


"Would love to find few genuine bi guys for long term who we can rely and we can enjoy together"


"Hi great profile and pics but it says you rarely make first contact and single guys are blocked from messaging."

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
22 weeks ago

London

Fully bi guy here - would love to meet a couple!

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By *ropenmindedMan
21 weeks ago

honley

Bi here

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
21 weeks ago

Ammanford

Bi here

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By *S_71Man
21 weeks ago

leeds

Bi male here, and much prefer a bi meet with a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Bi here"

Profile says straight

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

As above, if you are looking for a bi couple for man on man bi play, don't put straight on your profile.

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By *iHungMan
21 weeks ago

Blackpool

Bi curious here, open to bi MMF & moving slowly on a male meet.

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