FabSwingers.com forum: Bi male couples I need advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it wrong that I only like having a bi encounter when there is a lady present. I've chatted to quite a lot of bi couples that meet single men. And most apart from one amazing couple have spun me the line of. If you meet me first we can suck then meet my mrs the next time. I don't find it sexy if there isn't a hot lady there to watch it. Am I just a bit strange? I've been branded a time waster because someone's mrs was "under the weather" and I didn't want to play 1-2-1. Starting to feel a bit of an outcast now. Any thoughts or advice on this would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of those meets that the wife isnt up to it are usually single guys.

Just carry on and enjoy what you are doing.

If it works for you then thats all that matters.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Is it wrong that I only like having a bi encounter when there is a lady present. I've chatted to quite a lot of bi couples that meet single men. And most apart from one amazing couple have spun me the line of. If you meet me first we can suck then meet my mrs the next time. I don't find it sexy if there isn't a hot lady there to watch it. Am I just a bit strange? I've been branded a time waster because someone's mrs was "under the weather" and I didn't want to play 1-2-1. Starting to feel a bit of an outcast now. Any thoughts or advice on this would be much appreciated "

I think its horny watching two bi men having fun, so not at all wrong. As has been said, if the wife isn't present at the initial meet, then it aint a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be along hard slog, but when you do find that nugget of gold, a couple that do want to have bi fu then it is more than worth the pain and effort of searching!

I have met some wonderful people on this site, also though I have met a few timewasters, most you are able to suss prior to any potential meet.

I too have the same issue as I do not find men atractive, I do though find cocks and cum alluring and very horny, so to play with a couple is the most wonderful experience.

Being passive whilst being bi, I try and find either a bi oral male with fem or a active male with fem as I enjoy bigin oral and love to rec anal from men and or women with strap on's.

Keep searching, pan for that golden nugget, I am sure that you will get there, just takes some time!

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

I've only ever had bi MMF's no 1 on 1's. A pity too, I think a bi MM would be pretty excellent.

Alas, we only ever play together though.

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I wouldn't worry Steve, your desires are typical and your profile describes them honestly.

As mentioned before, it was most probably a single guy wasting your time.

Stick at it, there are genuine bi couples out there, although in our experience they're not always very local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with it mate, when I started swinging as a single male I did get a lot of this meeting the male first, I was a lot younger and more naive so went along any way as it turns out for me it was a 50/50 split between fakes and genuine cpls who wanted to be sure I was bi not just saying so to get my grubby mitts on the female, in this scenario the female would often appear once play had begun.

This is probably no help just my two pence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick with it mate, when I started swinging as a single male I did get a lot of this meeting the male first, I was a lot younger and more naive so went along any way as it turns out for me it was a 50/50 split between fakes and genuine cpls who wanted to be sure I was bi not just saying so to get my grubby mitts on the female, in this scenario the female would often appear once play had begun.

This is probably no help just my two pence worth "

agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

humm i now see from both sides of the coin .... as a single your best to go to a social or a mixed club and get to know a couple ??? .. as now I'm in a couple it is a bit daunting inviting a single male that you don't know from Adam in as there could always be a hidden agenda ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an arranged meet is an arranged meet...if i was meeting a cpl (bi or straight), I expect to meet that COUPLE..the one Iam interested in has to be there...the other of course is great to have a laugh with

so now the female half is absent..unless uve been exchanging stupidly long mails about sucking cock with the male half on the other end of the computer/texting..then yes...u are giving a false impression

I personally dont like anyone pretending they are bi or straight then essntially changing the goalposts in relation to meeting me

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