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Club etiquette/ the towel question

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By *allorean OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Bradford

I was just curious if someone can explain to me the etiquette of towels in swinger clubs?

I mostly go to kink events where people generally don't care if you're wearing anything or not but when I've been to swingers nights I've always noticed the men disapear and then reappear all just wearing towels.

If I was going to strip down I'd normally just walk around au natural but am I commiting a faux pas if I do that?

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By *onjonjon44Man
27 weeks ago

sheffield

Towel or shorts on in communal areas is a usual expectation.

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By *ellhungvweMan
27 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I think it depends on the club and what night. A dress down club probably wouldn’t bat an eyelid.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on the club and where you are.

You'd look a bit silly in the hot tub in a tuxedo.

The Attic has a dress code that is adhered to, so the best thing to do is look up what the club you're going to has to say

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Bedford

Some clubs have got rules regarding nudity, particularly at the bar. I guess it might be something to do with licensing?

I was also told off by a member of staff at a club for wearing lingerie instead of a towel. I was told they only allow lingerie to be worn on particular days, otherwise it's towels.

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By *lowercandyWoman
27 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I was just curious if someone can explain to me the etiquette of towels in swinger clubs?

I mostly go to kink events where people generally don't care if you're wearing anything or not but when I've been to swingers nights I've always noticed the men disapear and then reappear all just wearing towels.

If I was going to strip down I'd normally just walk around au natural but am I commiting a faux pas if I do that?"

Towel or boxers/shorts in the bar area is usual

Just because it's a club doesn't mean we all want to see every cock in there flopping around

And depending on the club you pick some bar areas also serve food so...

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By * and BCouple
27 weeks ago

Durham

I Mr B prefer a nice pair of Boxer shorts to a towel. Mrs F nice lingerie or sometime a very small, no very very small dress. Towels on some men are so funny as they seem to think adjusting the towel, basically flashing their bits, every 5 mins is a good look. I never pull my boxers down then back up for adjustment once never mind every 5 mins

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd also love to see some radical turn up with their own Masters of the Universe or She Ra towel

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

A towel is correct unless your an adonis who wants to pose in expensive boxers! Most men look a tit naked!! Leave something as a surprise for the ladies as I do

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
27 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"Some clubs have got rules regarding nudity, particularly at the bar. I guess it might be something to do with licensing? "

More likely to be because they don't want to expose their employees to more nudity than is necessary.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
27 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"Just because it's a club doesn't mean we all want to see every cock in there flopping around "

So walking round with an erection is ok?

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By *allorean OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Bradford

Cheers all, useful to hear everyones pov 🙂

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By *uenevereWoman
27 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Some clubs have got rules regarding nudity, particularly at the bar. I guess it might be something to do with licensing?

I was also told off by a member of staff at a club for wearing lingerie instead of a towel. I was told they only allow lingerie to be worn on particular days, otherwise it's towels. "

Do you mind saying which club this was? I've been to a lot of clubs and never come across this.

I find towels incredibly unsexy, not to mention difficult to keep in place.

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By *udandBryanCouple
26 weeks ago

Boston

This towel thing is one reason we won't go to a dress down club. We don't believe anyone looks their best with towel around them - too much like a gym changing room!

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By *iss DevilWoman
26 weeks ago

Bedford


"Some clubs have got rules regarding nudity, particularly at the bar. I guess it might be something to do with licensing?

I was also told off by a member of staff at a club for wearing lingerie instead of a towel. I was told they only allow lingerie to be worn on particular days, otherwise it's towels.

Do you mind saying which club this was? I've been to a lot of clubs and never come across this.

I find towels incredibly unsexy, not to mention difficult to keep in place."

That happened at Ignite, before it was rebranded as Ignite. Went on a Wednesday, was wearing a baby doll style dress/lingerie and was told by a member of staff that they only allow lingerie on Thursdays.

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By *octor ProdMan
26 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

Rules vary between clubs and can be strange. On a Friday night at Ignite I was told off for wearing a towel in the social area, 15 minutes later I am naked on the bed in the same social area with a couple I know going at it

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By *iss DevilWoman
26 weeks ago

Bedford


"Rules vary between clubs and can be strange. On a Friday night at Ignite I was told off for wearing a towel in the social area, 15 minutes later I am naked on the bed in the same social area with a couple I know going at it "

I sometimes have a feeling that rules vary from staff to staff in the same club, on the same night.

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By *alley cpl 69 uCouple
26 weeks ago

Bridgend

We only been to one club but quite a few times. It's towels or shorts you need a little zip pocket to keep your bits in lol. Some guys walk without towel but the women don't take much notice. It's a bit of a surprise what's under the towel if you get lucky.

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
26 weeks ago

London

At VA there are no hard and fast rules. If I am in the hot tub on Halloween bi night and I need a drink of water, I have no qualms going to the bar naked to get my bottle of water and then returning to the hot tub xx

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By *rthur WrightusMan
26 weeks ago

Round the Bend

Having visited several clubs over the years I found the use of towels, apart from the obvious plus some modesty in bar area, was also encouraged to be sat upon thus helping bare bums seating hygiene

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
26 weeks ago

Cardiff

Chams, the dress down clubs I've been too, people are occasionally naked in communal areas but usually not, depends on the vibe of the night, circumstances and how late it is

At the end of the night, a lot of people tend to be naked

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By *octor ProdMan
26 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work


"Rules vary between clubs and can be strange. On a Friday night at Ignite I was told off for wearing a towel in the social area, 15 minutes later I am naked on the bed in the same social area with a couple I know going at it

I sometimes have a feeling that rules vary from staff to staff in the same club, on the same night. "

Totally understand being clothed on a social evening or up to a certain time, but this is club that has naturist days. I also don't like either having to get undressed piling my clothes up next to me (I'm not a trousers round ankles person), or popping down to the locker room when invited to play. Totally understand that you don't want the hand under the towel brigade wandering around (especially if theres a buffet laid on), but I found it an odd rule.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
26 weeks ago

South Wales

In the clubs we’ve been to it’s normally a towel or boxers for the men…..occasionally you see people walking around naked but as a rule people wear the towel or their boxers xx 😘

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