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By *isterC83 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Kent

What would you do in this situation?

Happened a few times with different people

We all have a life away from here, myself included

But when you've messaged someone, with or without some back and forth, and get left read, to then get a reply weeks later, knowing they have been online multiple times in between, doesn't make me feel like I should be replying, which I havent

what's your take?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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27 weeks ago

East Sussex

What are you prepared to accept in terms of length of time before you receive a reply? Once you've decided that stick to it and ignore and responses that are outside your time limit.

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Bedford

Or delete anything from your "sent" box? Then if you get a reply, it's a bonus.

As you said, people have lives outside of this place, and life also has a way of taking over the headspace that "should" be for Fab. Plus, if it's a couple you messaged, they may not be living together, one of them may have read the message and was waiting to see what the other one thought?

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By *issmorganWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd take it that they'd lost interest tbh, if they've come online lots, bit not responded.

I wouldn't send anymore messages and I'd just delete any messages that were in the conversation we'd been having. Then put a note on their bio, so I remember for future.

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