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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tips please

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By *sMinxyWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lube, Lube and ohh yes... a bit more Lube xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hee hee of course..dont think hes gonna realize just how painfull it is first time ...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To much lube is never enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so is that all the advice i get...lube?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always practice on me 1st!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start small, use finger and then small dildo, gently working your way up in size, use lots of lube and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers giffo, but I dont need the practise..ermm dont fancy fingering him, and sod the small dildo i wanna go straight in with my strap on (see pics on my page)..LET HIM FEEL THE BURN!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with finger, lots of lube, relaxation, get some poppers and slowly!

Incredible experience for both of you if you take your time.

Can also get some butt plugs of different sizes to help to get him used to the sensation and also make him more flexable in that department.

Just have a good time!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

With lots of lube and done gently then it may feel 'different' but shouldn't hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tbh i think you are all being very kind!! I mean when i had to take his cock it was straight in all those yrs ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheers giffo, but I dont need the practise..ermm dont fancy fingering him, and sod the small dildo i wanna go straight in with my strap on (see pics on my page)..LET HIM FEEL THE BURN!!! "

Just then read this post of yours lol

Well, get some lube and tell him to brace himself!!

He's a lucky guy

Im always here as a stand-in if he cant take it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would suggest, that if you want him to let you do it again after this time, you use a much smoother dildo than you have in your pics.

I doubt he'll let you anywhere near him if you use that straight off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheers giffo, but I dont need the practise..ermm dont fancy fingering him, and sod the small dildo i wanna go straight in with my strap on (see pics on my page)..LET HIM FEEL THE BURN!!! "

I was going to say do it like you like it done! Based on the above just stick it in dry !!!!

In my opinion, lube, poppers and take your time. Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh i think you are all being very kind!! I mean when i had to take his cock it was straight in all those yrs ago! "

I wonder if he realises the sensation?

First time you think, wow, then followed by ow my god I need to poo lol, let him know that he will feel all sorts of sensations!

Anal from a lady, the most powerful orgasm experience ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh look im only joking guys, course Ill be gentle with him..doubt he cud take the old strap on ive got anyways..I bought that more to use on the ladies if honest!..xx Ill let you know how it all goes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh look im only joking guys, course Ill be gentle with him..doubt he cud take the old strap on ive got anyways..I bought that more to use on the ladies if honest!..xx Ill let you know how it all goes xx "

Have fun!

Jelous.com

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ultimatly id love too see a guy take him in the ass while he wanks himself to orgasm, while i sit opposite playing with a vibrator till i cum too...xx mmmmmmm..naughty me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultimatly id love too see a guy take him in the ass while he wanks himself to orgasm, while i sit opposite playing with a vibrator till i cum too...xx mmmmmmm..naughty me! "

Very nice!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultimatly id love too see a guy take him in the ass while he wanks himself to orgasm, while i sit opposite playing with a vibrator till i cum too...xx mmmmmmm..naughty me! "

Check your in box!!!! I bet there are a few emails lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nope James..not as yet!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start with finger, lots of lube, relaxation, get some poppers and slowly!

Incredible experience for both of you if you take your time.

Can also get some butt plugs of different sizes to help to get him used to the sensation and also make him more flexable in that department.

Just have a good time!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope James..not as yet!? "

Like a red rag to a bull lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The confidence to use it well. Go slow at first and keep your hands busy on him. Love our strap on!!

Lots of lube and tongue and a good harness!!

Have fun it's a great feeling for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultimatly id love too see a guy take him in the ass while he wanks himself to orgasm, while i sit opposite playing with a vibrator till i cum too...xx mmmmmmm..naughty me! "

would love to do that too. watch my fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hee hee of course..dont think hes gonna realize just how painfull it is first time ...xx"

it shouldn't be painful...unless that's what you're into

open him up first-lubed fingers while wanking his cock-maybe your tongue if you're into rimming until he's pushing back onto your fingers for more-read his body reactions as to how much it's turning him on...try to start with the dildo out of the harness initially as you have more control with your hands-just the lubed tip while he breathes and relaxes and if it helps him to bear down just a little bit like he was going to poo..,it opens the sphincter..,only when you can get it in smoothly with your hands should you put it onto the harness and push back into him...slow thrusts initially then get into your rhythm..,it's a lot harder work than you imagine! Keep reading his body reactions...

Most of all keep communicating...and enjoy! It's the most intense and intimate thing needing a lot of trust...I love it...

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By *illywizz1000000Man
over a year ago

north west

This is something ive wanted to try for a while. Its turned into a bit of a fantasy for me. I've been rimmed andnfingered but never taken. Dont fancy getting a man to do it as I think its very erotic for was woman to do a man... am I strange?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well heres the update from last night..he took it like a pro..started with small dildo and then he inserted two fingers..then asked for next size up dildo..wow he wudnt get off of it!!

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Its all in the hips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if he likes it that much get one of those rather nice double ended strap ons then at least you will be getting a good seeing to at the same time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he did suggest we use my double ended dildo next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the cat suit pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he did suggest we use my double ended dildo next time! "

Always a good choice fun for all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

meow!! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice to see so many horny ladies that enjoy this!!!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Ultimatly id love too see a guy take him in the ass while he wanks himself to orgasm, while i sit opposite playing with a vibrator till i cum too...xx mmmmmmm..naughty me! "

If you get him willing and wanting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he did suggest we use my double ended dildo next time! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meow!! xxx"

sort my husband out as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well heres the update from last night..he took it like a pro..started with small dildo and then he inserted two fingers..then asked for next size up dildo..wow he wudnt get off of it!! "

mmm one of teh hotter things ive read today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spit on his ass and get the biggest dildo you've got and shove it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spit on his ass and get the biggest dildo you've got and shove it in "

ouch

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

Done right it's not painful at all, but it is all about the tease.

A woman coming into the room wearing lingerie - or better pvc and thigh high boots - and with the strap on already in place is a damn sexy site.

Also teasing and building up to it. Use a finger or a vibe first and remember to play with the cock and balls at the same time.

Then be gentle with the head, but once that's in it should lossen up and then it's all about the thrust.

Also invest in a "me too" one so you can have some fun at the same time

It's naughty but done right my god does it make you cum HARD!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers last poet but dont think theyd do anything for me..i just cant wait to use my strap on!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on this lube him up and then let him have it, and if its the strap on in your pics you could do the same to me at some time mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck him good and hard ! If he's man enough to give then he should be man enough to take !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah thats kinda what i think ,, but in fairness shud only fuck him with something thats the same size as his cock..as thats all hes fucked my ass with! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just fuck him good and hard ! If he's man enough to give then he should be man enough to take ! "

Here here

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Use something that vibrates. We started with a rude boy I think it's called. A little prostate vibe and worked up to the wife's 8 inch vibrating strap on'see pics" lol wow you know when the orgasm is coming ha ha AWSOME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought hed be able to take it. I have a 9inch dildo that can be fitted to a strap on, ive had to take that before and once its eased in its all good to go hell for leather. I found myself fucking it back I wanted it so much.

Check it out I have a pic of it on my page.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Prostate massager are good for novices try a anal but plug befor work your way up my self and partner use a 18" dubble ended dilldo which we used on each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky guy...

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By *ob55Man
over a year ago

PE13


"tips please "
push it all in, not just the tip. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a little session yesterday we found her kneeling on a cushion and him lying on the sofa with legs up works very well.

Add a wand then your eyes may roll up in your head it was that good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...tell him to brace himself!

my fuckbuddy wants to do it on me..shes already had her fingers up me, and she said she was going to give me a massage lol

...feels very strange. Like im going to shit myself haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of lube is deffo the way to go cause if you don't it's gonna hurt him like hell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But with the right amount of lube as the above poster says, then a wild n kinky time to be had and lots of horny pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh i think you are all being very kind!! I mean when i had to take his cock it was straight in all those yrs ago! "
in that case bend him over and slip the tip in then Ram that baby home (no lube) he will squeal then

Lol

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