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PSA so-called sub men. Re:"I'm sub do xyz to me"

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By *rab_Bella OP   Woman
27 weeks ago

W London

I'm sorry to have to break it to you, but you're not sub.

Messaging someone with a long list of wants does not mean you are sub.

Messaging someone with "I want my ass abused by you" does not mean you are sub.

Messaging someone with "I want you to sit on my face" does not make you sub.

As a matter of fact, you are a bottom. You don't want to relinquish control. You just have a list of kinky activities that you want to do.

I'm tired of the constant messages like the above. I don't even state on my profile that I am dominant or seeking a submissive man.

Even if I was seeking the above why on earth would I do that with you? You're not even treating me like a human being.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
27 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Absolutely with you there

I have a sub cutie and he chats to me like a goddess, no demands in any way whatsoever

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By *inky PerkyCouple
27 weeks ago

Narnia

Dry your eyes, princess 😂😂😂

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By *vaRoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Ahh the old kink dispenser

Just block and delete

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
27 weeks ago

Hampshire

100% agree! It's so baggy and off putting 😒

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Tamworth

Nothing beats a man doing his kinks at you.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
26 weeks ago

Chatham

My favourite (sarcasm) is when your profile tells them your not dominant, the opposite in fact, you tell them your not interested in submissive men, and they still harass you for a meet.

The amount of submissive men who are so me subs is baffling. Half my block list are sub mine

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
26 weeks ago

London

Yes I get them all contacting me too, and I am a sub… but why expect they will read profiles lol xx

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By *offeeLoverMan
26 weeks ago

Cheltenham

You're right. Being a sub is about trust and respect. Also like what you said it's about giving control to someone else. You don't do that by having a list of wants and demands. Limits aren't the same as that. If they can't treat you like a person then they're not worth your time.

I think you get alot to submissive men because you have goddess in your name. Maybe state it in your profile title or something

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