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By *arkblack9382 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

Wilmslow

Any advice on how to get a response from people. I send face pictures but never get response. I'm polite so I guess I'm just ugly

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
27 weeks ago

Barnsley

Your profile has nothing on it, just you asking what's wrong with your profile? That's what's wrong.

And your only pic is of your cock.

As for you saying your are polite, what do you actually say to people? If we get a one line message we are not interested no matter how polite.

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By *uperstar76Woman
27 weeks ago

North Lanarkshire

Your profile only says what is wrong with my profile

People check out profiles 1st before deciding if they want to reply, as you dont actually have anything written about yourself or what you can offer and what your looking for and only 1 cock pic people will just reply to the profiles who have made that wee bit of effort im afrid

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By *he Silver FuxMan
27 weeks ago

Utero


"Any advice on how to get a response from people. I send face pictures but never get response. I'm polite so I guess I'm just ugly "

One ugly cock picture on your public profile

If you think that’s in any way attractive to a woman then you are wasting your time

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By *allySlinkyWoman
27 weeks ago

Leeds


" I'm polite so I guess I'm just ugly "

I don't think it's polite to send a first message with a penis profile pic.

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Bedford


" I'm polite so I guess I'm just ugly

I don't think it's polite to send a first message with a penis profile pic. "

But you know, he does send a face pic, too... His profile is extremely informative and his age range is very specific, too . (And I am not being sarcastic in the slightest).

I seriously don't get it what goes through men's heads when they choose their member as their profile picture, especially if it's the only photo or if, even worse, there is hundreds of them, including ones leaking cum

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By *orgetmeKnotCouple
27 weeks ago

Rainham, Kent


" I'm polite so I guess I'm just ugly

I don't think it's polite to send a first message with a penis profile pic.

But you know, he does send a face pic, too... His profile is extremely informative and his age range is very specific, too . (And I am not being sarcastic in the slightest).

I seriously don't get it what goes through men's heads when they choose their member as their profile picture, especially if it's the only photo or if, even worse, there is hundreds of them, including ones leaking cum

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Worse thing is, there are more profiles like that than there are good ones.

There's clearly a delusion that many men have when they sign up here, that they think the swinging community us full of sex starved women that will have sex with anybody like its a complete free for all.

Guys! Ask yourself this question....if you were here as a couple, would you have any interest in your profile? Do you think your wife/GF/SO would say "this profile is very tempting, we should spend time talking with this one over the other hundred in our inbox"?

Honestly, guys!....even we, the sex addicted deviants do have standards.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
27 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


" I seriously don't get it what goes through men's heads when they choose their member as their profile picture"

I always assume that it's because he's a total dick.

It's easy to do, and it's what most men do on their profile...

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
27 weeks ago

Newry

Many many people will look at your profile before they even venture to open your message.

Does your profile - at the minimum -reflect your personality and give a good indication of what you're looking for and can offer?

Do your photos give an idea of your overall body type?

At the minute, all your profile tells the prospective reader is that you have a penis that you want to stick in pretty much anyone. You need to understand WHY this isn't enough. A polite message isn't a lofty zenith. It's the bare minimum. And when that polite message has nothing substantial behind it, then you'll always be on the back foot.

But, like a majority of men who ask questions like this on the forum, I suspect your profile will remain as it is

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By *harAndBryCouple
27 weeks ago

Downham Market

The dick pic profile pic has gone, that's a good start and encouraging to see some changes being made? Well done OP.

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, I suggest you start by writing a profile. All that I can see so far is generic and repetition. You have no photos on display.

At the moment there's nothing that would appeal to your demographic.

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