FabSwingers.com forum: No meets for 66 year old………..

By *ornydidcot OP Man
27 weeks ago

didcot

I think it’s time for fab to put a new category on there site for elderly men and women,

All the peeps on here don’t consider people over 60 as a potential partner which is fine but surely there are people who would like to see older women/men hence a new category???

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By *lik and PaulCouple
27 weeks ago

cahoots

Might be for other reasons rather than age

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By *ornydidcot OP Man
27 weeks ago

didcot

"Might be for other reasons rather than age"

Like???

At the age I’m talking about most people would know the downside and advantages of an elderly playmate, so what other reasons could there be???

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I agree it might be helpful. However, I have now saved a search for the ages I want with a filter for those looking for men of my age. Certainly had more contacts than just scrolling through.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
27 weeks ago

cahoots

"Might be for other reasons rather than age

Like???

At the age I’m talking about most people would know the downside and advantages of an elderly playmate, so what other reasons could there be???"

You have a wife but don't say if she consents to you swinging alone. Everyone will be different but for us we would want to meet both people in a couple.

As far as age goes we do ok but pretty much exclusively go to clubs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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27 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's easy enough to find the over 60s if you want, a special category wouldn't result in more meets in my opinion.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Bristol

I've met many men over 60.

They're generally the most reliable and 'sane'.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
27 weeks ago

Hinckley

"I think it’s time for fab to put a new category on there site for elderly men and women,

All the peeps on here don’t consider people over 60 as a potential partner which is fine but surely there are people who would like to see older women/men hence a new category??? "

It might be to do with the fact that you are married.

To be clearer, does she know??

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Bedford

My FWB is 66 and sex with him is far better than with a lot of younger guys that I met, despite his quite recent prostate surgery. So not all is lost, just because you're over 60.

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By *aven3Man
27 weeks ago

Street

That's why there are so many bi and bi curious men.My 75 year old gay friend,gets lots of interest from younger men,as do I,at 64.

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By *ovinglife!40Man
27 weeks ago

Hinckley

"I think it’s time for fab to put a new category on there site for elderly men and women,

All the peeps on here don’t consider people over 60 as a potential partner which is fine but surely there are people who would like to see older women/men hence a new category??? "

I personally think a much better catagory would be for people who are playing away from an unaware partner.

At least we all know where we stand.

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By *issmorganWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's not all people op, some older couples and women will meet men over 60.

Obviously, you're less likely to meet women in their 20s and 30s, but there's men in their plates 60s on here still doing OK.

None of us will appeal to everyone, people are here for what they want and like & much younger people will gravitate to those not too far different in age I suspect.

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By *iss DevilWoman
27 weeks ago

Bedford

"I think it’s time for fab to put a new category on there site for elderly men and women,

All the peeps on here don’t consider people over 60 as a potential partner which is fine but surely there are people who would like to see older women/men hence a new category???

I personally think a much better catagory would be for people who are playing away from an unaware partner.

At least we all know where we stand. "

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By *en_Dover79Man
27 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

Pretend you are worth a few quid, build it they will 'cum' haha

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By *umagain58Man
27 weeks ago

London

"It's not all people op, some older couples and women will meet men over 60.

Obviously, you're less likely to meet women in their 20s and 30s, but there's men in their plates 60s on here still doing OK.

None of us will appeal to everyone, people are here for what they want and like & much younger people will gravitate to those not too far different in age I suspect. "

Exactly. I am not to everyone’s taste but do ok at over 60. I don’t worry about those who reject as that’s entirely for them to decide and I respect that. I think of it positively as I am not wasting their time and also mine - so think of it like they are doing you a favour. That gives you more time for the lovely kind people I have met on here

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By *inky PerkyCouple
27 weeks ago

Narnia

A 66 year old is not entitled to any more action than a 26 year old. Maybe it's not about numbers and more to do with the person. A brief look at your profile suggests it's yet another "lookal at my cock" affair. If you want to be part of the 95% of zero-to-no effort men who consistently get nowhere, then that's on you and nothing to do with age.

Sorry if that comes across as blunt.

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By *orknmindy21Couple
27 weeks ago

Newtownards

Im afraid fab Ireland can be a bit ageist compared to the UK was once told by a belfast bitch we shouldn't be on the site because we are as old as her parents well I'm feckin sorry honey we still fuck and like to mingle and we are probably both fitter than a lot of younger people 😉 😜

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By *essTTWoman
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

Playing away will put alot of people off also stating that you're vwe when we can see pictures might as well.

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By *ichael fun to be withMan
27 weeks ago

Rochdale

I to am from calderdale x sorry i cant reply on fab as out of age bracket xx

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By *inkPomPomWoman
27 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Maybe people just haven't fancied you? Plus the marries thing and you sound really entitled

Get a grip

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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27 weeks ago

Central

There's no reason for separate categories, shifting people into different silos! Just let people use the simple measurements known as years. when doing their searches

. Lots of people love over 60s but you will always have the vast majority of people of every age, not being mutually compatible with most other people. 18+ onwards, people just have preferences that maybe include 1% of other people.

You need to accept that it's better to have realistic expectations, as this will help to keep you in better shape. It's phenomenally hard work for all single men here.

Just keep your searches to match those with reciprocal interests and who want to meet people like you

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By *redwilma666Couple
27 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

"I think it’s time for fab to put a new category on there site for elderly men and women,

All the peeps on here don’t consider people over 60 as a potential partner which is fine but surely there are people who would like to see older women/men hence a new category??? "

Not the case in Central Scotland, @ 60 & 69 we are still busy. Maybe it's Location, Location, Location

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By *CBoyTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Rhondda Fawr

"I think it’s time for fab to put a new category on there site for elderly men and women,

All the peeps on here don’t consider people over 60 as a potential partner which is fine but surely there are people who would like to see older women/men hence a new category??? "

First you can search my age range and tick the box that says "wants to meet people my age".

Second. Consider putting more photos on your profile. People want more than a couple of dick pics. Photos that show your full body (need not be nude) but so they can see if your slim, fat or obesse.

Third. You cant accomodate ..when a single guy cant accomodate ...it's a bit of a red flag...why? Are you a cheating husband or in sheltered accomodation that doesnt allow visitors ? You dont need to put it in your profile...but tell people when you first contact them. Accomodation can be a deal maker or breaker. If you are cheating on your wife be upfront about it. A huge number of older guys on here are playing away from home because their wives have gone off sex because of the menopause. The wives may or mot know. But be honest with potential sex partners..

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By *inycock197Man
26 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

I find 65+ a massive turn on but the chances of getting a woman that age on here seems slim

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By *avexxMan
26 weeks ago

cheshire

im sorry to say but 60 onwards your old and thats it,, just come on the forums for some fun

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By *artorialMan
26 weeks ago

weymouth

As with many things folks have preferences some of which is age related. Doesn't mean you can't get any meets just that a little more effort needs to be made. Personally I've found clubs to be better but even then the dynamic/mix of people on the night can either work for you or against you just like being a teenager going to nightclubs sometimes you pull many times you don't.

It's life don't let it get you down

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