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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Hi guys going with my girlfriend to partners on Saturday and she really wants to try the dark room and maze... As do I ,, can somebody talk me through etiquette etc .

I know I will get some daft answers buy we could really do with the advice as we are quite new to all this, so please help us out here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last I heard the dark maze area was being changed and If memory serves removed to a degree.

Officially it is the same as anywhere, no means no, ask before touching, however, as with any dark area hands will wonder so you need to make sure she is happy being groped without being asked or she can hide behind you.

I only went in once and narrow passages and larger men deterred me from going in again. My personal thing though, I don't tolerate any hands on without talking to me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last I heard the dark maze area was being changed and If memory serves removed to a degree.

Officially it is the same as anywhere, no means no, ask before touching, however, as with any dark area hands will wonder so you need to make sure she is happy being groped without being asked or she can hide behind you.

I only went in once and narrow passages and larger men deterred me from going in again. My personal thing though, I don't tolerate any hands on without talking to me first "

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

How dark is it? Completely blacked out?

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Yeah pretty much pitch black ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would scare the shit out of me

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I couldn't do that, pitch black spaces give me claustrophobia

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Yeah pretty much pitch black , "

Sounds canny

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By *aybecoupleCouple
over a year ago

handlope

We absolutely love dark rooms. Discovered the one at Ab Fabs and we were nervousness at first but after a couple of visits just let our hair down. Hands everywhere but never too rough, after a while someone fingering wife while she sucked someone else. Then she sat on my lap letting me inside her while she sucked 2 more cocks. It was the horniest night we had for ages. And actually, we are desperate for more of this this weekend, if anyone knows where we can go closish to Devon???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We absolutely love dark rooms. Discovered the one at Ab Fabs and we were nervousness at first but after a couple of visits just let our hair down. Hands everywhere but never too rough, after a while someone fingering wife while she sucked someone else. Then she sat on my lap letting me inside her while she sucked 2 more cocks. It was the horniest night we had for ages. And actually, we are desperate for more of this this weekend, if anyone knows where we can go closish to Devon???"

Yup been in there myself - fun and erotic

Secrets have a dark 'grope' room - along with a cage - I could easily spend all night in there! - very naughty

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

In Europe most swinger clubs have a darkroom in one form or another. Some have a crawl in through a small entrance onto a bed, others a dark stand up corridor style area and quite a few other variations.

Our favourite are the type we have found in a couple of Spanish clubs where half of the darkroom is in the couples only zone and the other half in the mixed area separated by prison style bars, all in complete darkness. From one side the ladies can go right up to the bars and be groped (and grope) as much as they like, but when they've had enough take one step back and are out of range.

As for the etiquette, we think that the normal no touching without asking rule doesn't really apply in darkrooms. Dark areas are groping areas by design and if you don't want wandering hands it would be best not to go in.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Unfortunately the maze at partners the last time we went was a real mess, all broken panels and holes in the floor. It seems to be an area where certain guys think it is a free for all and can get away with touching and grabbing without being recognised, usually the guys that have not much chance of playing in the club so try to get a quick thrill in the dark area.

We certainly won't go in there again.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Unfortunately the maze at partners the last time we went was a real mess, all broken panels and holes in the floor. It seems to be an area where certain guys think it is a free for all and can get away with touching and grabbing without being recognised, usually the guys that have not much chance of playing in the club so try to get a quick thrill in the dark area.

We certainly won't go in there again.

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Unfortunately the maze at partners the last time we went was a real mess, all broken panels and holes in the floor. It seems to be an area where certain guys think it is a free for all and can get away with touching and grabbing without being recognised, usually the guys that have not much chance of playing in the club so try to get a quick thrill in the dark area.

We certainly won't go in there again."

Thankfully it's couples night tomorrow , first Saturday of the month so who knows ..... Here's hoping for a pleasant time xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you check with the club or search the posts as I am pretty certain there was a post about them removing/revamping the dark area, so you may find it is either closed off or simply not there any more

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

When I went at Easter there were plans in the bar area about proposed changes so worth ringing the club about if this has started. I did get my playmate who'd been before to take me in and show me round, it's very very dark and the corridors are very narrow, there is at least one bed area somewhere in the middle. Concur with other posters about it being in bad shape, broken panels etc in places, and it was bloody cold.

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"In Europe most swinger clubs have a darkroom in one form or another. Some have a crawl in through a small entrance onto a bed, others a dark stand up corridor style area and quite a few other variations.

Our favourite are the type we have found in a couple of Spanish clubs where half of the darkroom is in the couples only zone and the other half in the mixed area separated by prison style bars, all in complete darkness. From one side the ladies can go right up to the bars and be groped (and grope) as much as they like, but when they've had enough take one step back and are out of range.

As for the etiquette, we think that the normal no touching without asking rule doesn't really apply in darkrooms. Dark areas are groping areas by design and if you don't want wandering hands it would be best not to go in."

I'd agree with this post almost in it's entirity though I can't vouch for the Spanish element of it not having been.

I can't truely comment about Partners Maze as it's a long time since I was last there, but memory was it was very very narrow, with lots of touching taking place.

I currently enjoy eith Infusions Darkroom which is the crawl in type, when the lights are out it's pitch black and eerily erotic, when the ultraviolet is on, well lets just say it's fun but not as good fun because it's too light...

The other one is Xtasias maze and grope box which is pretty dark and has lots of holes which adds to the fun.

I would say that the normal swinging rules that you'd find elsewhere in the club are suspended in a dark room environment to a level. No would still mean No, but as a dark room normally has several people in at a time, you'd struggle to know whom you said no to and part of the reason for going into those areas of a club is because you want to be groped.

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Oh well if its closed, then we better grow some balls? I have only ever been soft swing as I get nervous lol ..... Or we could just blindfold ourselves and pretend ..... Still looking for a couple to talk to who will be there as I want to make it as normal for her as I can xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chuckles...the maze is being rebuilt to a couples room with mirrors if remember right ... there is the orgy room next to it a big round red bed take a blindfold with you and enjoy ... There are many from Fab at Partners on couples nights as we have found out put up a little note in events and meets and ask who else is going..

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Chuckles...the maze is being rebuilt to a couples room with mirrors if remember right ... there is the orgy room next to it a big round red bed take a blindfold with you and enjoy ... There are many from Fab at Partners on couples nights as we have found out put up a little note in events and meets and ask who else is going.. "

Will do xx thanks chick

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Ok , dark room gone now its just a shell, builders in Monday for 5 days doing renovations in that area.....

So that's that sorted x

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

If you don't want to be touched without asking don't go in a darkroom.

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By *edonism44 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

Pretty much realise that, was simply asking if there was etiquette ie you talk ask or some sign to say its ok to touch lol

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Pretty much realise that, was simply asking if there was etiquette ie you talk ask or some sign to say its ok to touch lol"

A darkroom is anything goes - don't expect etiquette.

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"That would scare the shit out of me "

Agree , I couldnt think of anything less erotic than not being able to see who's touching you . About as sexy as a glory hole

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By *s2_ukCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We love the darkrooms, only ever been to Xtasia and Jaydees but had fun in both. We were in the grope box last night at Xtasia and a guy started shining a torch through one of the holes, what's that about who takes a torch to a club??

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Is there any club that has a female version of a glory hole? Only it doesn't seem fair when gloryholes are really only for the benefit of guys. Shouldn't think it would be too hard to arrange.

And it would be fun to be a giver as well as a receiver!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there any club that has a female version of a glory hole? Only it doesn't seem fair when gloryholes are really only for the benefit of guys. Shouldn't think it would be too hard to arrange.

And it would be fun to be a giver as well as a receiver!

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i have had many a gud time in glory holes.with males or cpls on the other side.theres plenty of room for hands to come thru and cocks andeven a tongue or two

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I'm glad some one has, can I ask where? I love the idea of licking an anonymous pussy plus a little fingering as well.

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't trust guys in there, seen too many in clubs try and slip it in without a condom even in a well lit room.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I guess you could prevent that in the design stage.... ie have the girls gloryhole at eye level! Or more accurately mouth level.

Lol

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