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Meets and veri’s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago

Been on here a while now both as a single and couple and really struggling to get meets. Most won’t meet as I’ve no veri’s. Catch 22 🙈🙈

Anybody else have or had this problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

struggling with the same problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago

Nightmare isn’t it. So difficult for us solo male accounts

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By *umagain58Man
27 weeks ago

London

Yes it can be hard to get that first verify. Don’t give up though as trust me it’s worth the effort. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago


"Yes it can be hard to get that first verify. Don’t give up though as trust me it’s worth the effort. Good luck"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

Central

You can get a simple verification on cam, such as the Fab chat rooms. Get to socials and clubs to get friendly with people, who will verify you in person as real.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago

Think clubs might be the way forward tbh

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
27 weeks ago

Cardiff

I'd try attending a social, you get to meet others and they get to see how lovely you are .. and leave you a verification 🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Ive been left verifications that don't come to me, all I get is i need to be verified to manage my verifications

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
27 weeks ago

Coventry

When I was a single guy I didn't find not having a verification a problem. We all get our first somewhere from someone. To be fair I was never that bothered in collecting them going forward anyways. Wouldn't ask, I'd just reciprocate if one left for me.

Obviously a verification or two is a string to your bow. But hold out for a quality one. Just having a few met on webcam or generic I bumped into this guy at a club and seems a nice person holds not the same weight as a thoughtful genuine one from a very pleasant personal encounter. People know the difference from one's that actually say things about you than generic ones you've had to beg for.

As to getting meets just put the verification thing out of your head. A lot of the time that's not what's stopping you getting meets. Like I said we all get our first one somewhere. And even if it was you can't do anything about it so concentrate on working on the things you can improve.

Mr

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
27 weeks ago

Coventry


"Think clubs might be the way forward tbh "

Clubs are also just a great way to access the scene and get your face known. Word of mouth goes around and guys that people like, know and trust tend to do well in the club world.

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By *nspokenEdgeMan
27 weeks ago

Down


"Been on here a while now both as a single and couple and really struggling to get meets. Most won’t meet as I’ve no veri’s. Catch 22 🙈🙈

Anybody else have or had this problem? "

Yup!! Single guy problems!!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
27 weeks ago

Utero


"Been on here a while now both as a single and couple and really struggling to get meets. Most won’t meet as I’ve no veri’s. Catch 22 🙈🙈

Anybody else have or had this problem? "

Only about 80% of the single males on Fab. There’s plenty of advice that been given on the forums for years. Of course 99% of those men won’t do a damn thing about it

‘Victimhood is the egocentrism of the lazy and the entitled’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago

Well I’ve taken some of the advice and got chatting with a possible meet.

Thanks guys and girls

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
27 weeks ago

South Wales

Group socials are a great way to meet people and gets veris xx 😘

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By *iss KinkWoman
27 weeks ago

Up North

Go to a club. Just see it as a social and you will get veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago


"Go to a club. Just see it as a social and you will get veris"

Will have to look at ones near me

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By *questMan
27 weeks ago

peterborough

I was told that as well - you talk, you are respectful, etc.

In fact, all my verification shave come from club - one is from the club itself!

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By *inycock197Man
27 weeks ago

Melton Mowbray

I got a veri by having a wank on cam but very rarely get meets

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By *andystick72Man
27 weeks ago

kinky Street

I'm turning meets down

Can't keep up

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By *recticWoman
27 weeks ago

taunton

As a solo female, a guy not being verified doesn’t bother me at all. Guys with verifications with people that my inner snob have judged as skank will put me off. I do fall into a verification hole though and end up playing some weird degrees of separation game

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By *elboy1978Man
27 weeks ago

Jarrow

I have the same problem

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By *iddle ManMan
27 weeks ago

Walsall

Go to a club or a social, talk to people and remember people's fab names.

I never think to ask or remember, especially as everyone seems to have obscure fab names

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By *eekyscotMan
27 weeks ago

Rhyl

I'm having the same problem and the other thing I've noticed is that a lot of the time when it comes to actually deciding/agreeing when and where to meet I'm met with radio silence

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Same here, still hopeful though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
27 weeks ago


"I'm having the same problem and the other thing I've noticed is that a lot of the time when it comes to actually deciding/agreeing when and where to meet I'm met with radio silence "

Drives me nuts this

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By *umagain58Man
27 weeks ago

London


"As a solo female, a guy not being verified doesn’t bother me at all. Guys with verifications with people that my inner snob have judged as skank will put me off. I do fall into a verification hole though and end up playing some weird degrees of separation game "

Good to see nice person having an open view. I have a good number of verifications but still get those who think not really true. Give me your wife or gf and you will know

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By *allySlinkyWoman
27 weeks ago

Leeds


"Been on here a while now both as a single and couple and really struggling to get meets."

Have you had meets from your couples profile?

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