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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it " It's extremely unlikely you could do this without upsetting your ex. And you could try to keep it a secret, but you should assume she will find out. On the other hand, you seem to have misgivings about it anyway. There isn't anything wrong per se about a 50 year old guy having sex with a 30 year old girl he's not related to but if you have a pre-existing familial relationship some people will still see it as unacceptable. So really the question is, how hot is she? | |||
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"Personally I'd block her and move on. " This all day long | |||
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"Personally I'd block her and move on. " • I keep reading this as: Personally I'd bonk her and move on. 🏃🏻💨💨💨💨💨 | |||
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"Personally I'd block her and move on. • I keep reading this as: Personally I'd bonk her and move on. 🏃🏻💨💨💨💨💨" So does he  | |||
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"Personally I'd block her and move on. • I keep reading this as: Personally I'd bonk her and move on. 🏃🏻💨💨💨💨💨" | |||
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"What would your ex think. How honest are you both" that is what bothers me.if I wasn't friends still with her then I'd consider it but I'm still in contact with my ex gf and get in well with her as a friend and we have slept together a few times since we broke up,so yes it feels wrong to do that as shed surely be fuming if I slept with her daughter | |||
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"She did well to find you on here so quickly " she's local so probably did a search for local guys. | |||
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"that is what bothers me.if I wasn't friends still with her then I'd consider it but I'm still in contact with my ex gf and get in well with her as a friend and we have slept together a few times since we broke up,so yes it feels wrong to do that as shed surely be fuming if I slept with her daughter " Eeeek that's a definite no then !, but only you can make the decision... | |||
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"Thanks for advice.im going to speak to her and tell her it doesn't feel right as it wouldn't be fair on her mum.im flattered she even fancies me but yes I do think it's best " I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange? | |||
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"Thanks for advice.im going to speak to her and tell her it doesn't feel right as it wouldn't be fair on her mum.im flattered she even fancies me but yes I do think it's best I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange?" she doesn't know Ive slept with her mum since we broke up.its only been a couple of times anyway. | |||
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"she doesn't know Ive slept with her mum since we broke up.its only been a couple of times anyway." How do you know that her mum hasn't told her ? | |||
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"Looking at your profile I'd say this is a fantasy of yours!! "This all day | |||
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"…I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange?" It is almost certainly just a fantasy of his… not exactly unusual on here, sadly | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it " Hell no!!!!! | |||
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"…I think it's odd that someone's daughter would contemplate sleeping with a guy their mother was still seeing no matter how casually. Don't you find it strange? It is almost certainly just a fantasy of his… not exactly unusual on here, sadly" I thought exactly that, but I am bored of saying it. Good on you | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it " My initial advice would be to say "sorry not going to happen" and leave it there otherwise you are open to a world of drama How old was she when you got together with her mum? This could stir up more drama and false accusations | |||
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"She did well to find you on here so quickly " Sounds like the ex knows and is part of a set up to me….. block her and distance yourself | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it " Give it a, whirl. Nothing like taking a huge risk and enjoying a complicated life. What red blooded man wouldn't? Eh! | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it Give it a, whirl. Nothing like taking a huge risk and enjoying a complicated life. What red blooded man wouldn't? Eh!" One who values his friendship with his ex? | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it Give it a, whirl. Nothing like taking a huge risk and enjoying a complicated life. What red blooded man wouldn't? Eh! One who values his friendship with his ex?" Don't worry, was speaking for 'all red blooded men', not seiously advising the OP! | |||
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"Live on the edge, meet her, see how it goes and then update us. Tick mother and daughter off your bucket list. " Is it wrong to say I have done that? | |||
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" Is it wrong to say I have done that?" Yes, if they were both at the sane time | |||
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" Is it wrong to say I have done that? Yes, if they were both at the sane time" I refuse to answer that for fear of incrimination | |||
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"Live on the edge, meet her, see how it goes and then update us. Tick mother and daughter off your bucket list. Is it wrong to say I have done that?" Lucky you | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it " Go for it. You are all adults Smash it. I would | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it Go for it. You are all adults Smash it. I would" Sounds good too | |||
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"You know you want to do it, or you would have turned her down straight away, why are you looking for approval, you will regret if you don't and doubt you will get another offer in your life time with a young women." He's only 50 and she is over 30, hardly a massive or unusual age difference. I would hope that there is life in the old boy yet! | |||
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"No meets and joined 4 weeks ago, does this not fit in the stories section?" Think we would agree 🤔😉 | |||
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"No meets and joined 4 weeks ago, does this not fit in the stories section?" Think you have hit the nail on the head  | |||
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"I'm in a bit of a dilemma.i have an ex gf who's now in her 50s.i still get on with her ok and we chat and message each other on a regular basis.she has a daughter from another relationship who's in her early 30s.i have received a message from her on here and she knows it's me and said she always fancied me and would like to meet up for sex.she is very attractive but I'm not sure if it's something I can do and it not feel strange or wrong to do it " ----------------------- She and her Mum are having a laugh at your expense! | |||
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"The fact you feel its strange should tell you not to go there." This exactly | |||
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"Personally I'd block her and move on. " THIS | |||
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"Think this should be posted in the fantasies and stories section. "Agree. | |||
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"What would your ex think. How honest are you boththat is what bothers me.if I wasn't friends still with her then I'd consider it but I'm still in contact with my ex gf and get in well with her as a friend and we have slept together a few times since we broke up,so yes it feels wrong to do that as shed surely be fuming if I slept with her daughter " Chat to the EX mother and daughter dream | |||
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"This is either a fantasy…or you’re getting set up for something. " I'm going the former | |||
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"Why don't you pair up as a couple and swap her for other guys wives 🤔 then both on to a winner and still be friends at breakfast "Top answer, so far! | |||
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"Gotta be a runner up at bare minimum for “didn’t happen of the year” awards " Runner up? I'd say it may take the platinum medal | |||
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"Gotta be a runner up at bare minimum for “didn’t happen of the year” awards Runner up? I'd say it may take the platinum medal " If only profiles could link you to the insanity posted on the forums for an extra level of filter. Anyone asking the “ wanking over someone you shouldn’t” question can go on the ignore pile | |||
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"Gotta be a runner up at bare minimum for “didn’t happen of the year” awards Runner up? I'd say it may take the platinum medal If only profiles could link you to the insanity posted on the forums for an extra level of filter. Anyone asking the “ wanking over someone you shouldn’t” question can go on the ignore pile " Literally. Just have a key word blocker | |||
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"Think this should be posted in the fantasies and stories section. "Had the same thought. | |||
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"Is this fantastical thread still going!?!? 🤯🤣" Every post helps! | |||
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"Is this fantastical thread still going!?!? 🤯🤣 Every post helps!" Fair, but every post also gets this fantastic story closer to being closed 😉🤣 | |||
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"Is this fantastical thread still going!?!? 🤯🤣" Everything you can imagine happens somewhere. I once knew a guy who threw his wife out so that he could shack up with her daughter from a previous relationship. (Note: I didn't say he was a friend.) | |||
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"Is this fantastical thread still going!?!? 🤯🤣 Everything you can imagine happens somewhere. I once knew a guy who threw his wife out so that he could shack up with her daughter from a previous relationship. (Note: I didn't say he was a friend.)" Same here, guy moved his Mrs into the spare room and moved her daughter in to his, yep, all live in same house | |||
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