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Looking for a third, black 40-50yo

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By *yesopened OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Dundee

Hi, my wife and I are very adventurous when it come to see but we haven't invited a third yet. We both want to and we want a cool, relaxed black guy. Ideally for my wife and for me to watch. I have no idea how to arrange this and guys are in short supply. We don't want to play near home and would rent an airbnb in Edinburgh or Glasgow, or down south. Any advice from you cool cats and kittens? X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

You could go to a club event like Dark Velvet, Dark Desires, BMFC etc

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By *ENW coupleCouple
28 weeks ago

west lancs


"You could go to a club event like Dark Velvet, Dark Desires, BMFC etc"

Exactly what we do

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By *yesopened OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Dundee

Thanks guys. We don't really have clubs nearby and think the first time we would prefer a more private experience.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds


"I have no idea how to arrange this "

I think you will struggle to arrange it through a single male profile

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
28 weeks ago

Scotland


"Thanks guys. We don't really have clubs nearby and think the first time we would prefer a more private experience. "

We are from Glasgow and we travel down south to clubs that host these events. It’s obviously entirely up to you and what you feel comfortable with but our first experience was at a club as I was worried about getting cold feet if we arranged something privately. I agree with the above poster that you might struggle to arrange something from a single man profile. Good luck 😊

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By *allySlinkyWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

OP at a club you can use a private room. No one has to "perform" in public if they prefer not to.

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By *w_cuckCouple
28 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

We go to a few events where black guys are there to play with wives

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By *issmorganWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"I have no idea how to arrange this

I think you will struggle to arrange it through a single male profile "

Agree, set up a couple profile with pics and info on your wife.. Put filters on when you first set up and you can search for men you like the look of.

Most men will be wary of a man asking him to meet with his wife, from a single profile.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
28 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

To be honest, you sound like just another cheating fantasist - there are so many red flags about you.

Meeting someone in an AirBnB as your first time will almost certainly be a disaster. It could work, but it probably won't, and if you're lucky you'll end up with just money wasted. You don't have the experience to make good choices about who to invite.

If you're serious, get both of you to a club, even if it's just to have a look round, get a feeling for the lifestyle, and chat to a few people.

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By *yesopened OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Dundee

Yeah, i totally get it. Just naive i guess. Thank you almost for the help. I think the idea of a club is probably a really good start. I would appreciate some advice about which clubs are better. I/ we wouldn't want anything too close to home for our first time, any recommendations for north of England?

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
28 weeks ago

Scotland


"Yeah, i totally get it. Just naive i guess. Thank you almost for the help. I think the idea of a club is probably a really good start. I would appreciate some advice about which clubs are better. I/ we wouldn't want anything too close to home for our first time, any recommendations for north of England? "

We are actually attending club alchemy tomorrow night. They have an interracial event called Dark Velvet every second month. It is dress down upstairs though so maybe not ideal for a first visit. BMFC is at Xtasia (West Brom) every second Friday you won’t have to dress down. Check out the profile and website.

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