FabSwingers.com forum: Is it us

By *inky_Ragnar OP Couple
29 weeks ago

Peterborough

We know we are somewhat niche, but getting any kind of meet lately is torturously hard work.

Is it us?

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By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Mayfair

What makes you think that you are niche? I can't see anything in your profile that is far-fetched or idiosyncratic. Looks fine to me.

What are your methods or approach when it comes to making connections or chatting to people on here?

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By *aithRestorerMan
29 weeks ago

Bolton

The nice aspect i am assuming is the Bi and 420 friendly?

A lot of people simply will not entertain smokers never mind 420.

May I just ask, are ypu actively reaching out to people or are you awaiting messages?

If it wasnt for distance I would happily meet you but from experience the above mentioned points I made are large no gos in particular for couples I have found

Good luck and keep being excellent

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By *allySlinkyWoman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

"What makes you think that you are niche? "

I think multiple labia piercings are quite niche.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
29 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Lots of couples find it difficult to get many meets - there's just so many hurdles to overcome.

Going to clubs works well for many.

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By *issmorganWoman
29 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's very hard for couples to meet other couples here, I'm half of one. Getting that attraction between all isn't easy.

As others said the 420 may put some off and asking for the face pic without any chat, will put others off too.

It's much easier to meet people in the real world ie clubs and socials we found.

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By *herryEatersCouple
29 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"We know we are somewhat niche, but getting any kind of meet lately is torturously hard work.

Is it us?"

No it's not you, 99% on here are timewasters, liars, pic collectors and fakes now. We first joined 11 years ago and it was MUCH better back then. Even basic manners are out of the window and ghosting is the norm along with an inability to read...

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By *aandLoCouple
29 weeks ago

Southampton

Agree with above poster. There are so many time wasters on Fab. It isn't you. xx

There are all the threads about how tough it is for single men, while us couples are dealing with liars, fantasists, no shows, and those who have no intention of meeting up but repeatedly say how much they want to get it on....and the weekend horny, by Monday they vanish.

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By *uenevereWoman
29 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

As others have said 420 will put people off. It certainly would me.

The profile comes across as a bit negative and unfriendly, but that might just be me.

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By *ir and GoddessCouple
29 weeks ago

Frodsham

"Agree with above poster. There are so many time wasters on Fab. It isn't you. xx

That’s about as accurate as it gets! Funny how many people want to chat about meeting until we’re actually looking to meet and then they don’t engage 😂🤦‍♂️

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By *harAndBryCouple
29 weeks ago

Downham Market

"We know we are somewhat niche, but getting any kind of meet lately is torturously hard work.

Is it us?"

Not just you....seems to be a flurry of posts from couples recently all saying they're struggling to get meets. We're finding most success with single guys though even then SO many that don't meet the simplest requirements try it on.

Couples are worse - seems that they think that profiles don't apply to them or they are just the male half and the female half doesn't exist or has no idea that the account is still in use. Loads of messages but never an actual meet.

But keep trying - there is a small percentage of real, genuine, non-judgemental people out there.

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By *eekyscotMan
28 weeks ago

Rhyl

I'm still new to all this but from my experience I've not had any social meetings and rarely get any responses despite fab saying my messages get read (tbf i assume the latter is that the couples and women I'm messaging are getting swamped with others and I'm getting lost in it)

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
28 weeks ago

Telford

No I wouldn't say it's you, obviously some things on your profile will put some people off but you have to be true to who you're.

I find connecting with couples difficult on fab, I do much better in a club if I'm honest.

I find it difficult connecting with single bi women also again I do better in clubs.

I typically use fab for the forums and single men as the dynamic is a much easier one to engage with online intitialy.

I have met couples and single women through fab but it's not easy.

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By *harAndBryCouple
28 weeks ago

Downham Market

"I'm still new to all this but from my experience I've not had any social meetings and rarely get any responses despite fab saying my messages get read (tbf i assume the latter is that the couples and women I'm messaging are getting swamped with others and I'm getting lost in it)"

There's a good reason you're getting no responses....maybe ask for some profile advice on a thread of your own....

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