FabSwingers.com forum: Inpossible to meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

Hey guys so i no were all ij the same boat and yes i get men out number ladies on here but it feels utterly impossible to meet on here now that over the years this sitws become more openly talked about ... i no i coukd prob do more to my profile but how do guys meet .. im always polite and try to taylor every mesaage to the person im chatting to . I look at there profile and see there veris and get constant no,s or ignore or deleted even nasty comments anf im like hold on i no we all have diff tastes but im not that ugly surelt am i hahaha ... since comung back iv never felt so unattractive in my life. ... i prob habe more look on insta lol.... any help thoughts advice ...

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By *arleycplWoman
29 weeks ago

Frodsham

If you sent me a message, your profile pic would be a no, IF I opened your profile all that's there is another cock pic, that would be a delete.

For what ever reason your post is poorly written and parts I can not understand

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

Thanks for the imput .. i have face and body pics in private, like lots on here iv noticibke tats and dont want my private life out in my public work ....

I apppolgise for the poor spelling and grammer i have autism and struggle to proof read sometimes and for some reason my auto correct system doesnt seem to work on this web site...

But thanks for the feed back. Guess i just hoped my oics of my guy would show most ladies i may not be goddess gift but least there somat decent about me they may fancy lololol

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By *issmorganWoman
29 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Most of us will look at a bio before we decide to read the message or delete op.

Sorry, but with just a dick avatar and dick pics on your profile, I'd delete your message without reading it.

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By *viatrixWoman
29 weeks ago

Gatwick

It’d be a hard no from me as well, OP.

Cock photos do nothing for me.

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By *iss DevilWoman
29 weeks ago

Bedford

"It’d be a hard no from me as well, OP.

Cock photos do nothing for me. "

Same here.

You don't need photos that clearly identify you. Even just a torso shot would be better than cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

I have a hige tattoo on my ribs and also my kids name all pver my back ... i do have these images but in private ....

Its kunda funny ever single comment back to me has been about my pics and looks .. in a world that judges of looks isnt this site about personal mental connections as well as sexual ones .... my bio is truthful i am here to plse and enjoy but folk judge me instanlty of a cock pic which ulyimate is the thing they will end up having anyways lolol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

"It’d be a hard no from me as well, OP.

Cock photos do nothing for me. "

See this is the thing iv looked on ur veris and prwctically every one has there cocks out some even fcking other women in the pics of the people ur about to meet .. yes all my imaages are of my cock but how arw they any diff to the ones uv actually meet ..... prob cause uv taken time to chat get to knoe them and see past there cock pics or fck vids etc !!!

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By *iss DevilWoman
29 weeks ago

Bedford

"I have a hige tattoo on my ribs and also my kids name all pver my back ... i do have these images but in private ....

Before you are able to start creating mental connection, the other person/people need to be interested enough in you/attracted enough to you to put effort in the connection. The only way to check if there is any attraction is through the photos, and good bio.

Otherwise, there is another few thousand men on here that might be a better fit for that woman or couple.

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By *issmorganWoman
29 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I have a hige tattoo on my ribs and also my kids name all pver my back ... i do have these images but in private ....

You could post pics of you clothed op, that would solve the tattoo issue.

Most people will want some form of attraction initially op. I won't shag someone I don't fancy, yes even if we chat and get on OK.

We can't tell anything about you from your pics, except you have a cock.

Lots of ladies aren't into cock pics, unless they already know or are into someone.

It's up to you what you have, but you're reducing your chances having your profile as it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

I appreciate it just hard .... i have plenty of face body cloth images etc in my private but saldy had ao many horribke vile negitivr comments that iv kinda lost the cofidnce thats i once had as an attractive man and i just think well end of the day its a sex site maiky and if someone wanta to shag me theh they wanna see iv a not to bad decent cock ..... when i sent messages with face pics etc attached iv been utterpy crushed ... folk forget that nasty wprds do cut ! ... but i appreciate everyones opinions and help and commnts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

From u mesaage i did recepricate ur thoughts anf comments and thank u for them .. sorry u felt the need to block me .. i appreciate every9nes views and not saying mine are right more then anyones just explaining how iv felt its hard but yes having heard from multiple ladies (who obv thats my interest) maybe i need a rethink of my pics

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
29 weeks ago

chester

Firstly, I’m not your target audience in that I’m not looking for men.

However, when looked at like any profile i would be intersted in, yours would be discounted for the same reasons.

The bio says nothing much about you that isn't said by every other 1000 men on here, nor are the pictures any different either.

When you’re competing with 1000’s that are the same, you need to sell yourself a bit more.

Also, if writing isn’t something you pay attention to (like your original post- no shame, some people don’t for various reasons) it may well encourage people to delete it.

Try pasting it into chat GPT and asking it to tidy it up.

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By *viatrixWoman
29 weeks ago

Gatwick

"It’d be a hard no from me as well, OP.

Cock photos do nothing for me.

Just from reading your posts I can totally assure you that the men that I have met are on a totally different level to you, thankfully.

Good luck with your expectations and what you are actually able to deliver. 🎀

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
29 weeks ago

Newry

It would be a straight delete from me too because of the cock pics, but I'm very clear on my profile about that. Add in the fact with that your profile doesn't really say anything and you're putting yourself at an immediate disadvantage.

Fix those things (or not, it's your profile), and maybe try to get to some social events. All you can control is how you present yourself, and if you're not making much of an effort then the reward will probably reflect that.

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