FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to have sex

By *igjohn78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

lincoln

I am struggling to have sex and not sure why. I can get it up but go through with it

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By *eaverMan
29 weeks ago

leicester

Are you fresh out of a relationship or have some baggage left over?

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By *igjohn78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

lincoln

No we have been together for years

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By *otPoshorBecksCouple
29 weeks ago

London

"I am struggling to have sex and not sure why. I can get it up but go through with it

Could be stress or something else psychological. See your GP there’s a great range of medications and they work wonders.

Maybe add some kink to the mix too xx

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By *eaverMan
29 weeks ago

leicester

"No we have been together for years "

Have a look to see if your work has an employee assistance programe that normally offers a few councilling sessions and that could highlight what your blocker is?

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By *igjohn78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

lincoln

All good help

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By *anmjmosesMan
29 weeks ago

M1 southbound

"I am struggling to have sex and not sure why. I can get it up but go through with it

Make menopause is a real thing that does affect many men. Loss of libido is common. Speak to gp as someone mentioned earlier

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By *rs GGWoman
29 weeks ago

Up North

Age.. simple really. Embrace it and go at your new pace.

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By *elaxed CoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Cheshire

The right partner is everything.

Maybe try meeting a soft swap partner / partners for a while. Having a little solo fun with someone can also help you build up to something else. Probably not easy to find, but the outcome could be worth the effort.

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By *ormagenericlblokeMan
28 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

mate I feel for you.

don't overthink it, that will just make you more anxious and it wont be enjoyable even when you do

I assume you and your partner love each other, so try other things, mutual masturbation, oral etc, see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

You likely struggled once and now the psychological affects are, you’re thinking about that time which is causing you to become anxious about not fulfilling either yours or your partners needs.

Speak to someone regarding it, Gp, talking therapies.

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