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First time going to a club advice

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By *he_Dominant_Masseur OP   Man
29 weeks ago

newcastle

I’m looking to go a club after Christmas,as I’d like to get in better shape before I go. Only ever been to the Adult theatre at the Attic. Any advice for a genuine single male without feeling creepy.

Happy to just socialise or play as I have no expectations.

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By *ENW coupleCouple
29 weeks ago

west lancs

Be yourself mix and mingle but don’t be pushy and don’t go with any expectations

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By *aomilatteCouple
29 weeks ago

Midlands

As said don't go with expectations, at the least you'll get to see scantily clad women and some sexual activity. Say hello to people and introduce yourself, some people will be happy to have a chat and some not, you never know where it might lead. The Men who chat to people are generally the ones who get some fun. The ones who sit on their own, or just walk around looking are most likely to go home disappointed. Don't leave it to late in the night to say hello.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
29 weeks ago

London

Honestly, it's easy. Just don't be a twat and heed the advice above.

And don't worry too much about being in shape. Trust me, there's many shapes and sizes and your personality should be doing enough.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

Go to be social and chat to people even if you’re not interested in them sexually. See it as an experience rather than purely a means to get sex.

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By *eaverMan
29 weeks ago

leicester

From the few times I've been to a club,

A smile and a Hi is all thats really needed to break the ice and complimenting the couples / singles you chat to. Everyone is there for more less the same thing so enjoy it and be relaxed

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By *he_Dominant_Masseur OP   Man
29 weeks ago

newcastle

Thank you for all the great advice folks

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By *allySlinkyWoman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

At the Attic dress down in the playrooms. Women find it offputting to be surrounded by fully clothed men.

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